get help if i run towards opportunities for more cheating?
I think i should stop but that's my head (guilt) and i keep listening to my body. i have never been so rock hard as when i come home and get the odd bit of sex from the wife, just knowing i have had "others" and will have more makes me feel alive.
maybe i shouldn't help myself?
2007-11-04 19:55:11 · 39 answers · asked by Evil Starsky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My FIRST response is YOU'RE A PIG AND YOUR WIFE DESERVES BETTER!!!
My thoughts; just because you CAN doesn't mean you should. It's always nice to feel wanted and be wanted... hell y do u think women flirt and get dressed up all sexy?? We LOVE attention, but there is a line... a line you desperately need to find if you want your marriage remain intact. If she were to ever find out... you know very well it would hurt her.
In any situation, the first thing to do is reason with urself and behonest! If you know you will continue to be a dog to ur wife and cheat on him... then you need to be true to her and get a divorce because if you love her then you would want only the best for her... I trust that you still love her since you don't want to cheat on her anymore but if you find you really can't stop... be a man and go on your way... let her find someone who will worry about her needs... and want only her!
It's not about you anymore when you're married... it's about the other person that vowed to have and to hold you till death do you part... If she took this plunge and said "yes, I'll marry you" then you owe her honesty, truth, and commitment...
But if you find you CAN'T... then be honest with her AND urself... she deserves someone to lover her the way she loves you... Don't be selfish in this matter...
I also suggest to seek professional counseling...
2007-11-04 20:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by txtoasty82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok if it were the other way around and your wife was cheating on you and getting a bit here and a bit there - how would you feel? What did she do to deserve this? How do you think she would feel if she found out? You need to take a good hard look at yourself and answer your own question.
2007-11-04 20:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First off, i hope you use protection and you need to get checked regularly at the doctors.
I doubt you will tell your wife, even though that is what you should do, especially if you do plan on getting help because then she will find out some how. Better her find out from you than some other way.
You need to go to a sex aholics anonymous meeting,...(or whateva they are called).
I personally think you are a sorry individual, and wouldnt be the least bit upset if ya wife left you the second she found out. I truly feel sorry for her.
2007-11-04 20:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Real Talk 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Go for it and **** around! Dumping the wife might help with guilt, so you migh consider doing that.
Once your blood returns to your brain, you will hopefully realise that your behaviour is selfish and unacceptable. Have you ever thought about how your wife will feel when she finds out about you cheating on her?
2007-11-04 20:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by dissertation_queen 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should of stayed single and not gotten married.
You are not alone in this. Many men enjoy variety in bed. The problem is that you should be more concern with who you are with, you just may be bring something home and not be able to get rid of it with a shot or medicine.
2007-11-07 10:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by cajunlady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not a committed individual. If your wife was playing around would you have liked that? You need to stop for the sake of your wife that is if you still love her. Your infidelity is also part of your immaturity. Be the husband that you should be.
2007-11-05 01:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop cheating you jerk. I would tell her because she'll eventually find out and if you keep cheating on you obviously don't love her. Sound like you aren't ready for commitment and won't ever grow up. Do your wife a favor and leaver her. She's better off without someone like you.
2007-11-05 00:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Talk to a counselor. Start listening to your head and stay true to your wife if you want to stay married.
You said cheating makes you feel alive, I imagine it would make her feel sick and could possibly kill her if you aren't using protection.
If you don't want to stop cheating at least be halfway decent and divorce your wife so she has the chance to be with someone who loves her enough to be faithful.
2007-11-04 20:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by MNature 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
they have a group called sex addicts anonymous, you can find info on the web or in your local phone book. 317-767-2763 is the # out here, i found it for you, call them, they will give you your local #, or leave, your wife doesnt deserve what you are doing to her. not to mention, do you want to murder her, cause ya can... have sex with the wrong person, sounds like you arent too selective, bring something home that ya didnt leave with like aids, give it to your wife, you murdered, congrats! but hey, you got rock hard, you felt alive, so who cares right! you are a piece of work ! make the call, for everyone sake!
2007-11-04 20:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Obviously you don't speak to these women your screwing do you? I can guarantee you if you did, say even so much as a word to them you'd get no piece of *** whatsoever! Nobody in there right mind would do somebody that thinks like you. So.. either your lying and are still a virgin and desperate for attention....Or you have Duct tape over your mouth when you around anybody besides your dog....hmmm?...Sad...very SAD.
2007-11-04 21:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by >< SHeDeViL >< 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋