Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2007

I asked a question yesterday, i am posting the background of the problem again here.

We have a nice big swimming pool down our house. A similar situation happened twice that I was swimming (naked).....my hubby came frm work with his mates, I ofcourse was not aware dat they were coming, i quickly got out .... said Hi to them and went upstairs. Since then he'z acting wiered, not talking to me properly. Its not my fault that they saw me naked and whats the big deal, its not like i had sex with them. So why hes making so big out of it. What should I do. I am 26 and he is 28. We married last year in March 06.
and I love him alot.

PROBLEM: im suspecting, hes gonna divorce me, coz today he cancelled our holidayz trip to Eygpt (which we have been planning for nearly 1 year).

I really dnt know wot hes upto. Hes being very quiet since I have apologized (Even though it was his fault, as he always knew that i go swiming naked everyday). We are only two in the house.

2007-11-07 23:58:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin & i are close.My cousins beautiful,intelligent in 20s has degrees paid her own way through it all not her parents.

Her parents pretend not to have money their rich relatives abroad paid off 14k.The relatives till date havent helped cousin at all as shes beautiful,intelligent they feel if they help her by matchmake for her marriage or finances or take her abroad with them shell be better then their own kids someday.My cousins never taken any help from them or has she been offered by relatives who help her parents only.The relatives when in town try to meet her to keep tabs on her life.Due to relatives help to her parents her parents feel obligated to update relatives on my cousins life & pretend like they arent doing well in life.But my cousin wants nothing to do with them.My cousin wants to elope.If she introduces her man to relatives they will try to break up marriage due to jealousy,1 of her cousins tried it,relatives keep tabs on my cousins life.What should my cousin do?

2007-11-07 23:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by aguardianangel 1

I am living in hell, a husband that treates me as a furniture and keeps me completely dependant on him. Three days ago I had finally de confirmation and eventhough i would like to be free, I do have a 5 YEARS old and so far I can't find a job. He terrorized me, and all his mistreatment give me no power to decide. Any ideas to start getting out of this toxic relationship?

2007-11-07 23:47:00 · 13 answers · asked by Expat Froggy 3

2007-11-07 23:12:54 · 13 answers · asked by Ms_4peace 5

Should I ask them to move? They are blocking my view of the T.V. set. I am missing reruns of Seinfeld.

2007-11-07 23:01:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi friends' i m soo confused, my hubby likes to watch blue films ,sex pic and video on net he do this almost whole night even i faught for this soo many times but he dont change this . we were marrid from 3 years . but he attracted towards these things. Idont know what tto do pls help me..............

2007-11-07 22:53:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi friends' i m soo confused, my hubby likes to watch blue films ,sex pic and video on net he do this almost whole night even i faught for this soo many times but he dont change this . we were marrid from 3 years . but he attracted towards these things. Idont know what tto do pls healp me..............

2007-11-07 22:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in England so dont bother me with any US law thanks.

2007-11-07 22:42:57 · 13 answers · asked by jonathan 3

Friends WRONG? Am I RIGHT about my husband?

I would always laugh at how in movies someone would just fall from the top (financially) but now that it has happened to my husband, I am in thick soup.

A litle background. My husband is an orphan, he was brought up in an orphange and has no relatives he knows. He struggled (and I am really proud of it) and became what he is ... And I love a lot for his hardwork. Recently he lost kinda all of it.

Point is, my friends say that I should leave him. YYY came and told me I should leave him coz he is worthless and no longer rich and I shud get a new life. DTY comes and tells me that he hardly has anything for himself and can afford to take care of me. I went to HHS (supposed best friend) to help me with this confusion but all I got was - You are bloody sentimental - just bcoz I told her I don't like seeing him like that and I started crying.

Am I wrong?

2007-11-07 22:13:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-07 21:30:33 · 10 answers · asked by khanyisilemadondo 1

my partner has given up the booze it has now been 14 days im very proud he was a heavey drinker is it possible to give it up on your own

2007-11-07 21:29:52 · 20 answers · asked by suzanne p 3

I know that I can't change my husband, but how I deal with his persistant personality? If anything goes wrong, it's my fault...and I'll even admit when I'm wrong so I don't feel that's the issue. He tells everyone I'm controlling and I wear the pants, but I only have control when he's not around. If I make even a simple decision with out running it by him first he gets angry. But everytime I run something by him he says "Do whatever you want, you're going to anyways". It's always been that way, but I'm not like that either. It's like he just made it up on his own!! And with the kids, if they misbehave it's because I'm not doing something right, and he even controls the way they're disiplined! How do I deal with this, and find a common ground?

2007-11-07 20:44:30 · 7 answers · asked by TMama 3

He is ignoring me, this friend of mine.Really deliberately.Saying hello to everyone except me. I have done nothing. We used to have feelings for each other but that is done and dusted. Why the sudden ignoring me stuff?

2007-11-07 20:40:24 · 11 answers · asked by susieboo 4

2007-11-07 20:18:52 · 10 answers · asked by rakeshso.dass 1

2007-11-07 20:02:31 · 14 answers · asked by cubelo 2

What can you suggest my partner when we have issues i like to sit down and discuss them calmly and we always end up in a massive arguement only after ignoring one another he will communicate via text messages when we are in the same house, the text messages are always very soppy and full of apologies. It happens every time. We love one another dearly but he loses his temper and says things he regrets where i am calm and never lose my temper. How do i get him out of this, i have sat down and tried but he just says that he cannot express his feelings verbally. Help cos i dont know what else to do?????: I am 8 yrs his senior

2007-11-07 19:49:12 · 10 answers · asked by andalusianbub 1

He is not abusive nor a bad man, just not THE man for me. We married right after I graduated highschool and he is 7 years older than me.

I feel we married for the wrong reasons, as we just had a baby.

He works out of town and when he comes back I stress. I am so unhappy with him around.

He doesn't take care of himself, he doesn't make any decisions and I feel like his mom not his wife. Any large decisions with the house or van or kids is mine to make but when it backfires he blames me.

His idea of a good time is a bag of chips.

His constant answer for things is "I dunno" or "Let's wait and see" and its on stuff that CANNOT wait and see.

I know he is not depressed as I forced him to see the doctor and told him about his behavior. I know he isn't dumb as a box of rocks as he is a foreman at work. Thing is I feel like I married Forrest Gump.

I feel dragged down by him. I KNOW he loves his family, but man alive the toll it takes on ME.

2007-11-07 19:31:25 · 20 answers · asked by waywildcherri 2

Here's the catch: 1) wife not sleeping with hubby anymore instead with the kids. 2) not having sex for almost 3 1/2 yrs. 3) hubby thought wife only needs his money. 4) wife talks a lot when with her friends and not that bubbly when it comes to hubby

2007-11-07 19:03:14 · 22 answers · asked by Karen 1

and then learned to love the one they married. please mention how old are you ?

2007-11-07 18:54:36 · 11 answers · asked by Mike S 2

Ok I am going through a dissolution and my ex and I have a vehicle and loan in both of our names, I am the co-borrower, I have made every payment since owning the vehicle. He wants me to acquire a loan to take his name off of it but I am unable to and he knows it because of my credit which is not so good. I have asked everyone in my family to co-sign but they are unable to. So what can he do legally about the vehicle? If he doesn't want to be on the title/loan anymore does he have to "buy" his way out or what? This is really confusing to me any help would be appreciated i would really like to keep the vehicle as I can not finance another one because of my credit.

2007-11-07 18:43:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-07 18:19:25 · 4 answers · asked by maryamgutti b 1

I am Muslim and my wife to be is muslim too.

We love each other very much but my wife to be have told her parents about me and they do not want me to marry her because My mum is Christian and they not accept me to marry her. My mum have seen her and my mum say If I am happy with her then I can marry her but Wife to be 's parents do not want me to marry her...

My wife to be's parents have never met me and never talk to me and only hear wife to be's strory about me.

How can I tell her's parents without seeing me? I mean go to their house or gift to them or what?

I know Islam say respect all faith and Islam is forgiving and loving.

2007-11-07 18:18:39 · 11 answers · asked by Money Rain 1

ive been living with my boyfriend now for 2 years we are so in love but i am really ready to be married now and he says he is scared, he said he wants to marry me one day and that he does what to be with my for the rest of his life but i kinda dont know if i should believe him. we are both still young and i am his first girlfriend i sometimes think that he wants to do other things/people in his life and it kills me should i tell him he needs to do this or its over??

2007-11-07 17:45:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe I'm just paranoid, but it's 12:30am and he's still not home..... he is a reporter who was covering a story that did not make the news, kinda fishy..... especially since he is usually done work by 6ish. He's been having "late" hockey games lately, where he will leave around 9ish and get home sometime after I've fallen asleep..... We had plans to see my parents this long weekend a few hours away, now :"he has to work?" so I'm going it alone..... He's never intimate with me anymore - I throw on lingerie and he doesn't notice!! This all totally sounds like he could be cheating, and my heart just breaks thinking of all this, I'm in tears and can't fall asleep... I just can't believe he would do something like this to me... We live together and I am 20 weeks pregnant. Are my pregnancy hormones getting the best of me?

2007-11-07 17:39:11 · 18 answers · asked by Betty 4

why cant a person who is married and has kids. understand the simple word. no. i am throught with you and leave me alone. is that to hard for a married woman in her.40.s to get throught her sicking head. after all .she was the one who was doing all she did caused me poblems ad that trailer park trash wasnt even no good at having sex with her. in her home those streach marks was sicking. and her as well i amnow.21. she was nothing but cheap and that.s a mild way of putting her very sicking at her age my thought.s of that cheap tramp so why dont she just stop. ..

2007-11-07 17:29:03 · 6 answers · asked by matthew v 3

i was in a bad realtionship that lasted on and off for 4 1/2 years ,we broke up in july, and i though i would never fall for anyone else coz i was so used to my ex , i recently met someone that i might be instrested in but the problem is i still think about my ex sometimes even though im 100% sure i never want to be back with him ..the new guy is 22 and im 25 will this ever work??plus he has a kid thats 2 years old but we both want the same thing in life wat should i do???

2007-11-07 17:09:24 · 14 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

I havent really wanted sex since i got pregnate and i think my husband thinks im cheating on him but im not and i cant seem to get that in his head??? What do i do now?????

2007-11-07 17:05:17 · 17 answers · asked by Samantha J 2

2007-11-07 16:53:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-07 16:42:09 · 21 answers · asked by elzbthevns 1

are we just good liars?

2007-11-07 16:30:24 · 18 answers · asked by JWalker 1