Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2007

2007-11-07 07:20:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I have been with my husband since highschool, which has been long time from now....(lol) We have many differences, might i stress?....Different!... I recently had an affair, yes i know that i have done wrong. And i begin to tell how selfish i am for getting married to him. when in fact that i was going to leave him before he proposed. I often wonder why i am looking for something better, when he could be sitting on my couch. Do i have to find out the hard way? (I really wish he would change) His temper is really bad when we argue man watch out! He calls me every name in the book n always brings in my family. And the man i had an affair with....i always think of him...but then i keep telling myself that he is not good for me.....what do i do?....HELP!

2007-11-07 07:20:06 · 15 answers · asked by nurse betty 1

My husband and I had a big fight. He ended up getting drunk with his friends and going to a strip club. He never came home that night. When I asked him why he did it, he said he knew it would piss me off. He knows how anti stripper I am. I am extremely hurt and am finding myself turning to another man. Should I simply let go or am I right to be so upset?

2007-11-07 07:17:57 · 15 answers · asked by Steph 1

Most of the men seem basically honest and are usually somewhat depressed about it. There isn't a lot of bragging. The women however, generally seem to be getting it everyday and getting good. Something doesn't match up here.

2007-11-07 07:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well Just trying to figure out my situation because I don;t want it to have an impact on my marriage because of my stupid In-Laws, The trouble started last Year because my Father-in-law is very selfish and a big baby. They owe my wife and I about $4000.00 dollars in different items. But thats besides the point, I night of my wedding earlier this year he started trouble and I tried walking away from the situation and he hit me, what am i supposed to do I haven;t spoke to them for months and no the hoildays are coming around we have a new born, and my wifes mother is starting trouble because we are not going over there house for thanksgiving or christmas, what should i do if i wasn;t in the wrong.....

2007-11-07 07:16:41 · 11 answers · asked by jonas2000 1

2007-11-07 07:15:54 · 11 answers · asked by D TRAIN 5

i have NOT cheated on him, but he's ALWAYS suspicious of me and picks apart everything i say & do to try & fit it into his somewhat paranoid theory. i'm so tired of him not trusting me... and now he actually said to me "the baby's probably not even mine".... i'm so hurt! he's treating me as if i've done what his ex did (she DID cheat on him & didn't know if the baby was his or not).

i don't know what to do!! :(
i'm about to give up trying anymore. it's too stressful dealing with his suspicions almost EVERY day. i'm getting so depressed, and i tell him how i feel & he says stuff like "laying it on a bit thick, aren't you?"... well i'm honestly at my breaking point and he isn't getting it.

any advice?

2007-11-07 07:15:34 · 21 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6

I've been married for 4 years now and haven't seen my last boyfriend for about 5 years. Our relationship ended when I met my husband, and "John" was really upset by it. I actually think he might have been working up the nerve to propose to me when I met my husband, so he kept calling me throughout my engagement and up until the wedding. After my wedding, he called to say he met a wonderful woman and was getting married, too. I ended all contact with him after that (I had to tell him it wasn't right for me to talk to an ex when I was married, and NO, we couldn't be friends. That's just weird.) About once a year or so I'll get a Hi, how are you e-mail from him updating me on his life and I would write back...then he would fade out again. Just got another e-mail from him out of the blue, and after I responded, he followed up with "I'm going to be in your town for business. Would you like to meet up for lunch?" What is that? He's married, I'm married, why does he want to meet up?

2007-11-07 07:12:19 · 40 answers · asked by Jacqueline D 4

2007-11-07 07:12:06 · 4 answers · asked by MetalHeart 4

acquaintenances asked me.."did you sue"..they brought it up by the way...I was SHOCKED THAT SOMEONE would even ask that!!!..I just said, No, why would you ask?..they said..I was just wondering how you support yourself...I just said.."I make ends meet"...what nerve...HAS THAT EVER BEEN ASKED OF YOU...also DO YOU FEEL IT IS ALRIGHT TO WHITE LIE IF you are confronted with a rude question?..i do...

2007-11-07 07:08:43 · 48 answers · asked by sweet 4

2007-11-07 07:06:21 · 12 answers · asked by ciao 1

2007-11-07 07:06:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really dont know and if its wrong i dont wanna use them.

2007-11-07 07:05:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are both at the masters level. We have three kids age 7-2. I currently work full time. My employer is one of the best in the county ie. good benefits/state employer. I want to attend school next semester. I don't want to not have income or benefits both are scarce where we live. I feel that I can take two classes and work. Classes are at night. My husband worries that he will end up picking up the "slack" and that the kids will suffer. He has a legitimate concern, but things do not pan out when he plans them particularly in finances. I have considered asking for reduced hours. Any suggestions, advice, or comraderie will be appreciated..

2007-11-07 06:57:56 · 17 answers · asked by 310lala 1

2007-11-07 06:45:24 · 18 answers · asked by KJ 6

Seems like this is more commonplace than I thought...

2007-11-07 06:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-07 06:24:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex changed his mailing address and this came today, it hurts like hell. I am miserable, he moved to a new place with his girlfriend and is happy go lucky. He told me he tried to love me again but it wasn't the same. He left me twice for her, they work together and been roommates for 1 year now. She was in a lesbian relationship when he moved in with her. He told me started to have feelings for her and i guess she kicked out her lesbian lover to be with him. So he dumped me to be with her. I am so miserable, lost 20 pounds and bearly make it to work. I thought of ending it all, i do see a therapist and he tells me to stay busy, i can hardly make it to work. I am a Rn they both work as cable guys. I have the hardest time to get over him.
Sorry to be so pathetic don't know what to do.

2007-11-07 06:21:09 · 34 answers · asked by maria s 2

I'm a college student/housewife who has gotten into frump mode and wants to spice things up a bit. We've been married for 5 years and I've taken to wearing sweats & over sized t shirts everyday, cooking tv dinners and nagging my husband to death, I've made a conscious decision to change this in order to improve/spice up our marriage.

I went to victorias secret and bought some lingere today but it was $65 including the thigh highs with lace. How often should I wear lingere? It could get pretty expensive and I can't spend that kind of money all the time.

Also, when do I wear it? Right when he walks in the door from work? While I'm serving dinner? After dinner?? At bedtime? I'm new to this whole lingere wearing thing. Any advice?

oh, this is what I bought:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3F-213661&page=2&cgname=OSSLPSXYZZZ&rfnbr=3438

2007-11-07 06:17:38 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says that he doesn't like his step dad and has no respect for him my daughter on the other hand loves my husband. I feel that my son is trying to break up my marrage. What would you suggest?

2007-11-07 06:13:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would appreciate honest answers from women out there. I dated a girl seriously for 4 years, and in that time, I could not get myself to get married. I wanted to be with her, but simply didnt want to be married. After many false promises (yes, I know, it was bad) of marriage, she finally left me and 5 months later she married an old friend of hers. When I finally felt ready to get married, she said it was too late. I was hurt and am still very hurt, she is now married for 7 months. She has called me many times since and told me she simply wanted to "be a wife" and "be married." She said she still loves me so much, made a bad choice, and wants to be with me, but the reality is she is married. I tell her to divorce, and she said she wants to give her marriage "a shot." Will she make herself happy? Is there a chance she finally will just be so unhappy that she gets divorced? I dont want to wait around for her, its just I love her and dont know what to do based on what she tells me

2007-11-07 06:07:49 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

The car was repossesed,and the house were taken.She had filled for a bk,but now they are coming after me for the balances,any help?

2007-11-07 06:03:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has an exwife and 2 children from that marriage. They are divorced and one child lived with us and the other lived with her. No child support changed hands since we each had one. The other child wanted to live with us and she allowed it, saying she wanted him to be happy. He has been with us for almost two years and my husband won't take her to court b/c she says she won't sign paperwork and so husband is afraid child will be sent back. So no paperwork and she says she will pay child support to us since now we have both (an amnt she came up with) and medical help. No payments have come and I am frustrated b/c we have two other children. I try to stay out of things b/c we don't get along but have asked her once about money and she said it will come but not much. Anything would help - how do I get her to see it is her responsibility to her boys to help out, even a little bit. But I don't want to cause a fight and have her take boy away since she is Custodial parent still

2007-11-07 06:00:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK.. My husband has been separated from his ex for 4 years and had been divorced for about a year. He has ALWAYS suspected that his son of 6 wasnt his. He is now thinking about geting a DNA test done. He says no matter what the test says he will always love his son like he was his own. But after the test comes back and if the boy isnt his, his parental rights are terminated...right? What should we do?

2007-11-07 05:58:58 · 7 answers · asked by Christine B 1

My husbands family are spreading lies about me going to the club every weekend (Is not true) I have been two times in 8 months,Once because my sister just got a divorce and ask me to go with her beacause she doesn't have friends to go with.and the other time went with old friend and her husband.now husbands sister and her daughter and cuz is spreading it to his whole family that i party every weekend.(My husband knows i dont)when it got back to me i laught about beacuse they must think i have more an exciting life than they do and I told the person that told me about them spreading that i went on thurdays too just make it a little worser and to make shure she told his sister this big story so it would get back to his sister and hoping she would tell him and make her look stupied because he knows i am at home with him every weekend i dont care what they think but i just hate the rest of the family might belive it .what would you have done if it were you?

2007-11-07 05:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by bree167 2

well if you ever read any of my post you know i been going through some really tough times right now , with my husband. well as of today I decided that yes he may be cheating and maybe not so I think the best thing I can do even though he is disrespecting me is to just keep loving him and let him know Iam here, not saying its okay to betray me but he's obviously feeling guilty just dont want to admit it out of fear, he must love me or he wouldnt be here.because what else can you do about it any ways, may as well just love him and except his love when he gives it and be thank full , no ones perfect and bitching will only make him really leave any ways, i think he is hurting just as bad, so do you think iam right, lifes to short and hes been here this long so i just got to try to except hes not perfect, and maybe thats all we can do right. if hes doing wrong its probally not going to last anyways , and truely i have nothing to fear,when we let fear take over it runs your life.

2007-11-07 05:54:01 · 24 answers · asked by dontcha 2

If you have cheated....why did u cheat? Did you regret it or love it?

2007-11-07 05:15:26 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been on Yahoo answers and very shocked at the amount of cheaters that are out there. Do you not have morals? Are you that selfish that you do not care about the other persons feelings? If you want to cheat why don't you end your relationships first?

2007-11-07 05:01:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was such a stupid man, and my wife decided to work things out. I feel like crap about what I did, and I am completely remorseful. I wished I had never crossed that line because it wasn't worth it. The way I feel about what I did tells me I will never slip again. Have any of you women taken back your man? How long did it take to get back to being comfortable with him? We are getting along really well now and it's been just two months yet I still feel scared one day she'll say forget it and leave. What can I do to get closer to her again?

2007-11-07 04:57:31 · 21 answers · asked by Striker 2

would stop having a wandering eye? You hear of beautiful girls breaking up with average guys after she meets someone better, even after a long-term relationship, BUT would having kids prevent that from happening?

2007-11-07 04:55:54 · 6 answers · asked by John S 1