Marriage & Divorce - 10 November 2007

I was staying in my wife's house after our marriage. During tha time we encountered so many tussles. Her father was stayinh far away. But everyday she had contact with her father and she described each and every incidents to her father. Her father told her to tell me to get out of the house. She told me that her father told me so. But she never told me to get out of her house, in stead of that she tried to keep me in her house whenever I tried to leave her house. So can I say that emough mental cruelty was made on me? can I file the case of divorce on thsi ground? If yes, when can I file the case?

2007-11-10 23:57:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

she was overly dramatica...to the point of verbal and physical abuse but when she was loving she was so loving but then she could turn off her emotions in a minute and hate you. one time too many she abused me and i fought back for once. then she said i was the abuser and left. i didn't hit her i just pushed her out of the kids room for being really verbally abusive to them. i couldn't tolerate it anymore. she was incredible in bed. So i ask you if she did all that to me, why do i miss her? i shouldn't but i do.

2007-11-10 23:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by surviving 1

My partner and I don't want children. We've talked about birth control methods and have decided that a vasectomy is the best option weighing the pros and cons for both of us and it's obviously easier for a man to get 'fixed' than it is for a woman due to obvious sexism. Given our ages, we've run into a lot of 'you'll change your mind' crap, I'm curious, how many think that 26 is too young for a man to get vasectomy? If so, what is the right age? He's been wanting one since he was at least 22 if that makes any difference.

2007-11-10 21:00:07 · 27 answers · asked by some female 5

2007-11-10 20:44:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-10 20:24:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

when u get married do husbands not all but some start to treat u different ,act as if they rule or control u?why do they stop trying or just blame it all on you?If it was all wonderful then u got married and a guy doe this what is that?Im so confused?

2007-11-10 19:33:58 · 10 answers · asked by sweetie 3

What can I tell relatives and nosy aquaintances when they ask, "How many children do you want?" and I say, "None, he's getting fixed as a wedding gift!" to lighten the mood again? I mean, I'm pretty sure that him getting a vasectomy for me is the sweetest thing he could do, but these people are breeders who think that everyone who can should have children, help!

2007-11-10 19:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by some female 5

A couple of days ago I met a dude at work telling me this story about himself. He is about to get married to a brunet woman, but he says a few years ago, he even did not think of them and all the women he dated were blonde. He is now a little scared....that what if this will happen again....and, for example he switches back to blondes or whatever else.

He says he has a married friend who now wants to be with Asian girls...he want a divorce his white wife.

This is a little weird because when you are in love with someone, look is ONLY part of it, but on the other hand, it is not nothing.

Has this ever happened to you people? If so, how did you handle it? If your taste changes, especially after a serious relationship or marriage, you just step backward, or try to convince yourself that what that counts at the end of the day is inner quality and personality...

2007-11-10 18:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by John 1

He and I seperated in the spring and the next summer he got a woman pregnant. He ran away when she told him, but she got him in court with paternity test. He refused to have anything to do with the child, because he can't stand her now. He and I have 2 children together and he wants me to keep it a secret. The woman seeked my friendship, and I weirded out but part of me felt sad for her little boy. It probably bothered her to know my ex picked up our children for visitation. A haunting thought came in my mind: Don't we owe it to tell the children that they have a half-sibling? I feel it is not my place to tell the kids about this, but I also feel like they have a right to know. I lost even more respect for this man knowing he denies a child. He really played a number on me -- thinking he was a good man. But it is my resposibility to keep my children out of the middle. This is heavy news for a kid. My ex has attitude of what they don't know doesn't hurt them.

2007-11-10 18:43:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi, i m 24 years post graduate with B.ed. female. my husband' s salary is 50,000 . so i need not much money , n even i m not interested in physical work. but my huksbadn says that if i don't go outside for work they will not keep maid for cleaning , in this case what i should do?

2007-11-10 18:43:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cheated on my husband... and got caught... we worked it out... he thinks i'm still cheating even through i'm not... and has left me.... how can i get him back... we've been married 16years and have to kids....

2007-11-10 18:29:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

`Just wanting some opinnions on people who have been in this type of situatuin. I feel I need to leave but I do not want to mess with my daughter growing up abnormal?"

2007-11-10 18:21:37 · 12 answers · asked by joduscabodus 2

Do you just tell him that nothing is wrong and try to forget about it? Does that work?

2007-11-10 17:32:19 · 34 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7

2007-11-10 17:28:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

want to know if anyone who has been in jail and witnessed people cheating on their girlfriends/wives with CO's or other staff members. is it possible for this to happen?

2007-11-10 17:20:03 · 13 answers · asked by Rozie 2

We have been together for 3 years. For 3 years I've been trying to get him to dance with me & he won't. I've even suggested we take private classes.

Dancing is something that I love more then most things in life. I used to go out dancing 2-3 times a week. But I haven't been dancing in 3 years out of respect for my husband. I feel that it would be inappropriate for me to dance with another guy.

Well he travels for work & this morning he called me at 5am telling me about his fun night. He hung out with 3 football players & he danced with a bachelorett. YES DANCED.

When I heard this I was heart broken. For 3 years I've missed out on dancing because he wont learn & he just went out & danced with a stranger!?!?

- So tonight I asked him if now that he could dance, would he dance with me. And he said NO. He said maybe once but basically no. He said they didn't do "real" dancing so he still didn't know how & he still didn't want to learn.

Am I over reacting or do I have a right to be mad?

2007-11-10 17:11:59 · 47 answers · asked by junebugbaby83 1

2007-11-10 17:06:01 · 14 answers · asked by Water 5

I have an interesting dilemma: I've been married to my wife for 5 1/2 years and recently hit some tough times. We recently decided to separate about a week ago, but we are still living together to take care of the bills. Now the twist--I've also became friendly with a girl I had met online, and anticipating the pending separation/moving out part, we planned on going out later in the week. My wife has been going back and forth on the separation issue, saying that she still loves me but there are a lot of things that she needs & I cannot give her. Part of me wants to just move out because her indecision is bothering me, but part of me wants to stay to see if anything changes. Unfortunately, if I was forced to choose what to do, I'd probably want to leave; this girl and I have a lot in common, share similar interests, and we seem to have a connection. I do love my wife, but I do want to see her happy, and I'm not sure if I can do that.

2007-11-10 17:02:01 · 16 answers · asked by joet5402 2

2007-11-10 16:54:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

we were together from the time i was 16 to 29, and had 2 children (now adults). every time i would see his older brother, i felt i was fixed up with the wrong brother. i would push these feelings a side. we divorced 15 years ago. i just recently saw my ex-brother in law, i still have the same feelings about him. he's not married, but has been with the same woman for 7 years, he has a 2 year old child with his other lady friend. i don't look the same as i have gained weight due to depression, so i don't expect him to drop everything, and come running to me. i don't even know if he feels the same as i do. i did get the feeling a couple of times years ago he had some feelings towards me, and we might could of gotten something started. i was scared i was reading him wrong. i didn't want to make things ackword. i know he will always be a good friend. i don't want to lose him. he also has multiple relationships at once. i don't know if i can handle that or not. i'm a one man jealous woman.

2007-11-10 16:44:15 · 5 answers · asked by Barbara L 6

2007-11-10 16:42:03 · 19 answers · asked by sheena 1

Ok, my husband met me with two lil girls (ages 3&4), married me, moved me to his hometown where we are living together. Im 9 mo pregnant with our first. The problem is, he is always throwing in my face how he made a mistake marring me cause of the kids. He loves them & plays with them but he still has a problem accepting them. He hates everytime their dad calls to talk to them or when the girls leave to go visit with him and gives me a very hard time about it! He says he's not happy having to deal with this family crap and wont stay in a situation he's not happy in. He tells me he's still young, good looking, and would be more happy all alone doing his own thing. He says all he is going 2 care about is himself and baby in my stomach from now on. What do I do? Im so stressed. Do I cut the girls dad off from being able to see them to avoid arguments? I dont want to loose my husband. He agrees this is how he met me package and all but says he doesnt have to put up with it.

2007-11-10 16:39:41 · 19 answers · asked by Luv4Nevaeh 3

me and my husband are haveing
marriage proublums
he chooses not to talk about it
and ignors it
how can i get him to open up
hes a really quiet person and shy
? thanks

2007-11-10 16:37:05 · 11 answers · asked by cher 5

Its a heck of alot easier. You dont have to aim!

2007-11-10 16:36:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-10 16:36:02 · 5 answers · asked by azizbek1983 2

I have a terminaly ill wife maybe some one can help I have gotten medare for her but it is the only assistance i can seem to get have tried every organization for help but to no avail I live in ohio and I have no heat things are looking pretty bad any one know where i could find help for heat ,food, christmas

2007-11-10 16:31:22 · 9 answers · asked by Daniel L 1

counseling really help ?

me and my husband went one time toghter
and it didnt help at all

we never even talked about it after wards

2007-11-10 16:27:53 · 14 answers · asked by cher 5

or alteast most.. any way.. most men can barely do for 1 woman.. much less 2.. so what would be the point in it.. now of course I am not talking about the small percent that could pull it off. more the larger group of males..this could also be turn around as a question for the women who tired easily.. but would like the 3 somes.. as well

2007-11-10 16:22:24 · 20 answers · asked by vis 7

I'm an ofw for over 5years now on my first year i learned that my wife is having an affair thats why i've lost my focus the purpose why i work abroad i did forget that i have 3 kids ,i always drink and until now i have no contact with them thats why i dont know their situation there in the philippines i always cry at night .Last year I've met someone and we lived together and we did have a son who was born last september.why do i always this feeling that shes cheating on me ?

2007-11-10 16:17:11 · 11 answers · asked by bendix v 1

2007-11-10 16:16:29 · 30 answers · asked by borleo23 1