2007-11-10 16:42:03 · 19 answers · asked by sheena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not really. But in case that's what he expects, then you need to handle it carefully. Not bleeding is not a definite sign that you have had sex before. As other people have already explained, the hymen may rapture due to other vigorous activities like sports, riding etc.
Frankly, if you want to hide it, you can, and if the guy thinks that only bleeding is a sign of virginity, then he must read some good literature. And how does you past sexual life matter if you are entering a new relationship? Be honest after you have entered matrimony. That is what matters more, except if you are carrying some disease due to previous sexual relation which I assume is not the case.
2007-11-10 19:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by sharidaas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every woman or girl bleeds. It is a miss conception that the Hyman is inside the vagina, it isn't. But he could possibly tell that is not intact just by looking, if he knows what he is looking for. But then again, if the girl was very active in sports, rides bikes, or used tampons then it wouldn't be fully intact anyway. And the older she is the less intact it will be. Also some woman, even thought rare are born with out a Hyman. And there is no reason for a girl to bleed, unless he is to rough and doesn't take his time, The Hyman is actually very flexible. Most woman still have a small part attached until they give birth vaginally for the first time. So no, bleeding is not a sign of anything other then an inexperienced man that was too rough, that can happen even when your not a virgin.
2007-11-10 16:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by cris 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Husband, man, woman, no one can tell for sure if a woman is a virgin by having sex. The hymen is often broken when young girls and women are determined to use tampons instead of pads. Many times the hymen is broken and the girl herself has no idea since of course she is already bleeding. Also other trauma, or types of penetration not including a human penis. Other great examples already stated. I have seen 3 relationships fall apart because of the stupidity of the man refusing to believe the woman because she didn't bleed. Stupidity irritates me.
2007-11-10 17:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No he cannot tell. Bleeding is not necessary .. there may be no beleeding in case of a virgin too.
2007-11-10 18:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by ajay_zener1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bleeding is not necessary. Is it important and were you a virgin to judge?
2007-11-10 22:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by robert s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many female virgins lose their hymens thru trauma before sex and some women never have one. Therefore, there is no physical sign a man can use to tell if his wife is a virgin.
2007-11-10 16:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by M R 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your husbands past sexual experiences. if he has had little or no sex, of course not he will not know that you are not a virgin. But if he is experienced like myself, he will definately know. Dont let anyone else tell you different. When considering the answer to this question, dont even consider another woman's answer, because they dont know what its like to have sex with a virgin. They dont have a penis. I have had many sex partners... and early on when I was a teenager, I had sex with many virgins. I know what it is like, i know what it is like. Now since it is obvious that you are not a virgin and you lied to your husband, just think of how you were when you lost your virginity to the first real guy. THink of how nervous you were, how your body trembled, how stiff your hips were, how unpleasent it felt. That is the experience someone like me would know. Oh by the way, shame on you for saying you were a virgin when you in fact had already gave it up to someone else.
2007-11-10 17:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
all depends on your husbands past sexual experiences. if he has had little or no sex, of course not he will not know that you are not a virgin. But if he is experienced like myself, he will definately know. Dont let anyone else tell you different. When considering the answer to this question, dont even consider another woman's answer, because they dont know what its like to have sex with a virgin. They dont have a penis. I have had many sex partners... and early on when I was a teenager, I had sex with many virgins. I know what it is like, i know what it is like. Now since it is obvious that you are not a virgin and you lied to your husband, just think of how you were when you lost your virginity to the first real guy. THink of how nervous you were, how your body trembled, how stiff your hips were, how unpleasent it felt. That is the experience someone like me would know. Oh by the way, shame on you for saying you were a virgin when you in fact had already gave it up to someone else.
2007-11-10 18:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
No, not nessisarily. Some girls hymens break early on because of some kind of trauma. When I was 5, I fell on a bar on the swing set and it busted then... I never bled when I lost my virginity either.
2007-11-10 16:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy to 1+triplets 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No he cannot tell. Some people will try to make you believe that they can. Not everyone bleeds when they lose their virginity.
2007-11-10 16:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by kim h 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋