I'm an ofw for over 5years now on my first year i learned that my wife is having an affair thats why i've lost my focus the purpose why i work abroad i did forget that i have 3 kids ,i always drink and until now i have no contact with them thats why i dont know their situation there in the philippines i always cry at night .Last year I've met someone and we lived together and we did have a son who was born last september.why do i always this feeling that shes cheating on me ?
2007-11-10 16:17:11 · 11 answers · asked by bendix v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cause this women hurt you and ruined things for you. you are so focused on what happened with your last wife that you think every women you meet is like that. its sad that you got a bad one but you have been given a second chance and not all women are like that!
and stop drinking go to meetings or something to get over it what ever you have to, to get over drinking and wipe those tears and get in touch with those kids!!
2007-11-10 16:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by mitchell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly this marriage has problems. Both of you have had affairs in your marriage? She purposely became pregnant with another man's baby because you didn't want more children? At this point I don't think it will work. You don't love this child like you love your daughter. You can try, but honestly every time you look at him/her you will just be reminded of the betrayal. But don't try and justify the affair you had, it doesn't really matter when it was or how long ago. Cheating is wrong, no matter the circumstance. Just be the bigger person. Let your wife go be with this guy who she wanted so badly. You need to meet him though, you don't want your kid spending time with a stranger. Fight for 50/50 custody. An unhappy marriage isn't something any kid should grow up in the middle of.
2016-05-29 04:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that your wife has cheated you or only an excuse for having an affair with somebody else ?
Your children needs you and it's your responsibilty to take care of them .... if you really love them, you will try your very best to have contact with them .
2007-11-11 04:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by jcv 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to grow up and quit looking for excuses. Take care of the kids you have before having others. You may need some counseling to get over your self destructive behavior.
2007-11-10 16:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Johnnyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you are saying. Did you divorce your wife and now met someone new who you feel is cheating on you, or are you wondering about your wife still cheating on you?
2007-11-10 17:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop feeling like this or you will lose this woman and child. She isn't your first wife and you have to trust that this will not happen to you again and why should it? Get over it!
2007-11-10 16:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have that insecure in you and you need to sit down and talk to her let her know what your feelings are. after that tell her that you love her and you want to be with her and your child but you need to ask her a question to get it off your chest, then tell her please don't be mad when i ask you the question i just need to know and then ask her if she's cheating on you. Good luck.
2007-11-10 16:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why you havent excepted what she did. that.s why in time you will where you meet this other woman who will let you know she can be trusted pal good luck i really mean every thing i have typed. my opio? ref< been in your shoe.s to .?
2007-11-10 16:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're insecure and paranoid because of what has happened in your past.
2007-11-10 16:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, Its because you haven't dealt with it yet.
2007-11-10 16:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Sex and Soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋