Cheating spouse? How do you tell?

Answer 1

it starts with little things they change.... like the way they dress
or staying after work.
mine could never look me in the eyes & talk to me when he was cheating!
If we were gonna have sex he had to be drinking first.

Answer 2

I've never cheated or been cheated on, but have had friends that have done this.

I could immediately tell when they were cheating, because they'd start dressing nicer, come to work later, avoid calls from their spouse, tell me they were going X place (I wouldn't know the difference, I was at work), and knowing their spouse would call (I later found out) me and they'd believe me.

They would call their spouse frequently during the visits with the lover and let them know how "work" was going to not look suspect.

They would park their cars at work and leave with the lover in the lover's car.

The list goes on and on.

Answer 3

There are so many..
-Lose of interest in sex
-Lose of interest in home life
-Going to the store to get whatever
-Just had shower smell
-Finding any excuse to be away from spouse
-Check cell phones for any unusual name and check for usual have seen where the number was stored under someone elses name that shouldn't have been suspicious
-Check cell records for unusual numbers and texts.
-Seems happier at times
-May listen to different music all of the sudden
-May change drinking habits
-Women seem to have a certain glow

A person knows there spouse and knows there habits. If your suspicious for any reason you need to do a little investigation to be sure. I have reason to believe that over half of spouses are cheating at any given time. I have saw people whom you would never believe would cheat actually cheat.

Answer 4

Change in their outlook. They will dress nicer and always have np time for their spouses. They always find problem with their spouses over very minor issues. These are the few items that are very common in cheating spouses

Answer 5

I find it funny that all of the responses you received all talk about him/her. Its not about sex, its not about the person they may or may not be cheating with. Its all about your relationship, I mean yours and your spouses. People don't "Cheat" because there horny or mad or what ever, its about not enjoying life as it is with there mate. A man that is happy at home will never cheat. By happy I mean validated also. So if you want to know, look at what he is putting into your relationship and what you are.

Answer 6

All of a sudden they start acting way out of character. If he's normally an *** and he's bringin you flowers sort a thing or if he's normally nice and he seems cold and distant. If he stays after work more consistantly, makes up weird excuses for why he's late. Or has to go to the store 5 times a week when he rarely ever goes. Becomes secretive or paranoid about what you are doing trying to find fault with you...etc Out of character

Answer 7

1.He makes a bee line for the shower as soon as he comes in the door from "working late", "drink with the boys", etc... and wont let you near him until he does.

2.He comes home smelling like a bath soap that you dont use.

3. He is missing accessories that he left the house in and they are not in his car

4. He starts chewing gum/using mints almost obsessively when he didnt care about his butt-breath before.

5. He is leaving earlier for work or coming home later

6. His penis doesnt smell like you

7. His clothes smell like a perfume that isnt yours

8. He has become obsessed with keeping his cell phone on his person 24/7, its always set to vibrate, and he constantly deletes his call log.

9. You catch him ending quiet phone calls as you come out of the shower.

10. He is always more than ready to run out to the store for you. Especially, when he despised it before.

Answer 8

its easy to tell provided we get aside the emotional and anxious of getting the answer.

so what if we ctach him cheating, once a cheater, always a cheater....that what normally happens. the quarell and strained relationship after finding out is always worst than before.

if one were to cheat, there woud be thousand and one way to do it discreetly....it s a matter whether the party wants to do it or not....

trust and frankness would be good in a relationship and a " make or break" attitude should be a firm decision....

once a herat and trust and been broken...its hard to mend....

Answer 9

change in habits, is themost noticeable.

never wears cologne, but starts

never cared about appearance, but does now.

never like certain kinds of music but does now

never talked on the phone alot,and if so, you could always tell who it was by the conversation, but now...you cant.

suddenly going to the "store", "get gas", "meeting "joe", etc

spending more time checking email than usual

loss interest in sex, or wanting more out of the ordinary normal sex routine

so much more, but basically if you know your husbands habits, daily routine and things start suddenly changing, possible cheater or a whole hell of a lotta stress going on at work or something.

doesnt hurt to ask if things are okay, or what is going on in his life or work atm before you jump to conclusions.

good luck

Answer 10

Not wanting to have sex with you,staying late at work,smelling like they just took a shower before the came home.there are so many just look for them. I am sure you will find one. anonymous phone number in the cell phone.