Marriage & Divorce - 8 November 2007

2007-11-08 23:55:22 · 58 answers · asked by lindsey t 1

a net friend,met in a BBW group---------------------------------------------- (largefriends dot com flash user flash big5) she toldme she will get marriage with a man she don't love .i asked her why.she said she was compelled by her parents. with such a marriage ,do you think she will get happiness????

2007-11-08 22:21:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got married at arya samaj 2 days before and at the time of marriage i had my passport (for my address proof) but it has my old address and hence the arya samaj marriage certificate issued had my old address,but now i want to register my marriage using my voter identity card (has new address) for my permanent address proof as it carries my new address, i want to know would there be a problem at the time of marriage registration as the addresses are different?

2007-11-08 22:11:24 · 4 answers · asked by rami77 1

Last night i once again found out my husband is looking for sex on the internet!!!

He was found out before, he was ringing different girls for prob the whole time we were together.. while i was out on night shift...

once again i found he has been lookin at porn and for singles in our area...

what to do,

2007-11-08 21:43:00 · 43 answers · asked by Lola 3

Yesterday I called my ex after months of no contact we split in April and he lives abroad. When he answered he told me he hates me and he is married now. He then put his wife on the phone and she called me a whore. We split for a stupid reason I never did anything to hurt him and he never cheated on me either. I was hoping we'd get back together and have missed him dreadfully. How could he have married so quickly after our split? What makes it worse is that his new wife is a beautiful model (he told me to check out their wedding pictures on the internet). I havent stopped crying since, all I have eaten is a slice of toast since yesterday morning. I didnt sleep all last night either I just spent all night tossing and turning. I have a chest infection as well so feel crappy and low enough as it is. Please guys say something to cheer me up. Im not going to contact him again (im not that dumb) Im crying as I write this.

2007-11-08 20:37:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married almost 10 years. I love my wife to death, she is my best friend. The problem is that I am not satisfied sexually anymore. I have started thinking about other women and I dont want to. Is this a normal phase and how can I get over it?

2007-11-08 20:30:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

im married for 17yrs now have 4 loving children..i was only 17 then.Im a product of brocken family,and since then my dream is to have my own family that is intact,full of love & happy..But now im starting to get confused my husband(my first bf) is a good provider,a loving father,thoughful ... but his cheating on me.We discussed and talk about it,and he told me that it was nothing that there relationship is for fun-only no commitment thing...He told me that our family is his priority..I tried to hold on to that,i told to my self as long as its not serious...But now for family reason,we're apart for the mean time for our kids future (got a job abroad). And i found out recently that they are seeing each other frequently.I confront him but instead his kinn'a irritated..And also he always tells me not to talk about it.That bothers me & im really confused right now,dont know what to think.I love my family but its hurting me..Please enlighten me..

2007-11-08 20:28:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I tracked my boyfriends computer and found that he looks at incest porno ie:brothers, dad on son, stepdad on son, twins, cousins. We are a gay couple. The porno wasnt illegal, it wasnt any children or anything like that but it was all incest themed. What do I do. should I confront him, is this normal, does this mean his family was incestual? Help please!!! I dont know if I want to leave him over this, I love him but this is really weird....

2007-11-08 20:00:40 · 15 answers · asked by blahblah 1

If you caught your partner cheating would you consider forgiving them?? Do you think people can change?? If you did take them back would you be able to trust them again??

2007-11-08 19:59:41 · 13 answers · asked by pixiegirl 1

2007-11-08 19:53:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

if Im Muslim and he's Christian? I want to raise them to have very close relationships with GOD, keep him 1st and all thats in between, but how can we go about it w/o confusing them?? (I'm talking unborn children, so we're starting from birth)

2007-11-08 19:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by charmed 4

my wife has lied about so much, and im not sure why. we have a appointment with a counsiler in a couple of days. i know she wont be truthfull with him. im confussed, she lies about her guy friends and lies about money...what do i do???? i would love your suggestions......thank you

2007-11-08 19:12:38 · 14 answers · asked by medic327little 2

It was my idea oringinally to have a threesome with another guy. But when we did I felt embarassed. His penis was twice my size, and he was doing things that I couldn't even imagine. I know this was my idea though. She seemed very satisfied, but I can't get the image of her response to him out of my head. Maybe I need to just calm down. What do you think about this?

2007-11-08 19:09:56 · 22 answers · asked by A 1

My man is in 30s single professional.When teenager he was asked to leave home(unknown issues)with his parents lived with friends in same apt but we never met later he went abroad.When we met we were family friends for decades we talked over phone after met online.Its 5 years we are together friends & in love.Its long distance relationship.
Beginning he loved me so much treated me well took care of me through everything like op good bad happy sad times.While i made sure he wasnt in love for my looks by show other pictures & said no to make love before marriage.Hes in love with me i reciprocated falling deeply in love with him.But things changed after he got back from 1 year away.He didnt cheat affair another girl but he changed.My cousin flirted with him shes secretly married left blamed him for everything he said sorry told truth to me platonic never met her.Then he starts to listen to his friends & my cousin who tries to cause trouble between us.He calls me names.3 yrs later now

2007-11-08 18:49:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiances ex lets there daughter sleep on a cot on the floor, drink constantly form a sippy cup(only chocolate milk), wet her pants and wear pull-ups, and she is 4yrs old and in school. Our other daughter is 3 and is potty trained, (I dont believe in sippy cups past 2yrs old bad fo there teeth) and has her own room. We do our best but she cuts us off at every turn she has began to deny overnight visitation because we are not married yet (Im waiting on my divorce to be finalized with my ex) She wont return our phone calls, she demeans my spouse to there daughter, she is jobless, and she has instucted there 4yr old to qoute: Beat my daughters A$$ if she does anything to her. And the 4yr old is a "big girl" and has about 30lbs on my daughter. We want full custody but our lawyer is dragging his feet what should we do?

2007-11-08 18:33:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what makes a girl Marriage material? What makes a Girl non marriage material?

2007-11-08 18:25:44 · 6 answers · asked by Kika 3

I have been wanting to live in USA or Australia. My husband have the chance to apply for a position in Australia but he cannot bear to part with his family. I can understand because he has really great family and I love them too.
My life here is not really unhappy, just that maybe I don't feel like working. My current work gives me a good income, but I don't have passion in my work anymore but I can only stop work if we go overseas when his income is able to cover mine.
Of course not only because of this that I want to leave. I am just tired of living here, and also tired of everything around, except for our family. I don't want him to leave with me since its not what he wants, so I need to do something to be happy here. What should I do? I really don't know what I am living for now. There seem to be no goal, nothing that I am aiming for except looking forward to have a baby. If anyone have experience this, what did you do to make yourself happy? (I need the income from my job.)

2007-11-08 18:21:01 · 9 answers · asked by Ferris Wheel 1

and from which country are coming in from?

I like to answer questions - I like to think some of my answers help some people. It either gives them the quick answer they need or opens their mind a little bit more.

I am from Costa Rica.

2007-11-08 17:55:08 · 14 answers · asked by Maria U 2

Do you think people that cheat, end up in a solid relationship with the person that they have been cheating with in the first place or does the relationship not last?

2007-11-08 17:53:53 · 19 answers · asked by xxaveragejoexx 1

My husband constantly leaves to do what he says is some thing minor like going to get some money back he loaned a friend or whatever and then stays out half the night and keeps calling with a million excuses as to why he is not back yet, he does this just about every other day and it frustrates me very much. Im afraid to give him a taste of his own medicine because then he truly cant take it and will start telling me im not a man stop trying to do what he does but its ok to him to treat me this way how do i handle this selfish behavior from him im tired of crying and feeling helpless.

2007-11-08 16:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3

It won't be the same without him here. I worry whether or not my grandparents (and the rest of my family for that matter) will be able to handle him being gone at Christmas. Any suggestions for making the holidays a little bit easier to deal with this year?

I know this isn't the right category to ask this question in, but I also know I'll get more answers here than anywhere else.
Thanks!!

2007-11-08 16:40:34 · 7 answers · asked by ncgirl 3

He's usually tells me beforehand. Today I got home he was taking a shower I started making dinner and he got ready and then he tells me he's leaving? With Chris, he couldn't look me in the eyes. I have never met this chris... I have no clue who he is...So he left...I feel a lil'messed up because when I go out I'm usually considerate and let him know beforehand..now I'm stuck with this big dinner...and alone.

2007-11-08 16:33:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife was away with her family when she got back became secrective, i intersepted an SMS to her uncle that read u had better be dreaming of me tonite love u, i confronted her and she gave me a story about mucking around with him then deleted all the other sms without showing me am i right to not feel comfortable about this i no that the number is definatly her uncle not someone else, she has been different since returning

2007-11-08 16:31:36 · 11 answers · asked by finally solo35 1

I have been with my husband for 17 yrs. I brought in over$50,000. No prenup. He had a Jeep that he owed money on. Bought a house (my dwnpymt). He liked to bld things and instead of rentng his tools for 40. he buys it for 250. and it sits in the grge. Co. clsd dwn & he was at home for 1 year. Fin. bsmt in 3 mths. Now 2 yrs in new job (hates it). Always angry. My parents have given us over 65,000 in our time together. This year they put in a pool for our child in our home which cost 35,000 daughter Inheritance money. He now wants a divorce and has sep.all his income. I make 200 less then him a week. I do ALL of the inside hswork and hmwrk w/child pr day. He has 2 mtrcyles and 1 van and 1 car. I have a Honda. I pd. off 9000. off visa with our jnt $$ that he claims is his. Find out he wants to buy a truck. Refusng to pay bills. Wants to split bills 50-50. Leaves me 125. pr mnth for gas/groc. He can't affrd hse, but can affrd beer. How cn I teach him a lesson? Need sugg. Thnx

2007-11-08 16:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anna D 1

My wife and I seem to get mad at each other over everything. We have been married 14 months, have a 3 month old child and seem to be just scraping by on the money scale. I know it is stressful for her to be at home all week with the baby while i go to work and I get stressed out too at work. To top it off we are lower on money right now than we have ever been and the stress from that can be overwhelming at times. We just cant seem to get along. Any advice on how to solve some of these issues and also some creative ideas to come up with an extra cushion in the bank (work from home jobs, part time morning job ideas, etc...)

2007-11-08 16:18:01 · 22 answers · asked by BigPants 2

My husbands mother irritates me when it comes to the holidays. She always thinks my family should be the one to roll over and let her have all the exact dates. Christmas irritates me the most. She calls us ahaed of time to tell us what they want for christmas and it is always expensive! Then she gets me some cheap crappy thing and gets my sister inlaw something really expensive.It would not bother me so much if it was just me. She does the same w/ the kids! She gets her daughter 3 or 4 expensive gifts and my child one cheap gift that looks as if it came from the dollar store. Last yr they gave her a doll house, a Dora doll, and grandpa made her a beautiful wooden rocking horse. They gave my son a 50 piece puzzle. I was speachless! My son got tears in his eyes and said, "Is there anything else? Why does she always get more?" I had no answer for him. I just said "Just think of all the cool toys you have now from Santa!"
It is to the point that I do not even want to go. My husband will

2007-11-08 16:14:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex husband have 50/50 custody and i had a review done from the friend of the court on child support they reviewed it 493.00 a month i thought wow (my daughter has lived in my home for 3 1/2 years now ) i have school record stating he goes to school here and lives at my residence and resides with me do i need anything more to prove my case , my ex's lawyer (which he has lied to her ) he told her he gets hr 128 days a in a year and every weekend which he is lying he lives a hour from me .i feel he is a deadbeat dad

2007-11-08 16:06:45 · 7 answers · asked by spolochick 1

We have all seen or have experienced traumatic events. Some times they change our lives forever. I've been told many times that what won't kill you will only make you stronger. I have been through one of the most devestating events in my life when I discovered that my husband of 8 years was using drugs. I have been through and worn out every emotion a human being can experience. From pain to rage to sadness, depression and despair. I finally gave him an ultimatum yesterday to either go to rehab or I will file for divorce. I feel I have done everything in my power to help him. You can'
t force someone to want something better for themselves if they don't want it. I have been dealing with this almost a year with no improvement. We are now in the middle of a bankruptcy, we lost everything we worked so hard for I can't do this any more. I love my husband with all my heart, this will be the hardest thing I've ever had to do. He refuses to get help so I don't have a choice. I'm devestated

2007-11-08 16:06:42 · 23 answers · asked by Evie E 2

My fiance just told me that he will be spending xmas ever at his ex-wife's house so he can be there in the morning for xmas for their 2 children. He said he wants xmas to always seem normal for the kids (this is only their 2nd xmas divorced and I wasn't in the picture then). He never wants them to have to celebrate xmas in 2 different days bc they are divorced. I understand that his kids are his priority but I am still devastated that I won't be with him during this time. I will be spending the time by myself. Am I being selfish feeling this way?

2007-11-08 16:06:22 · 13 answers · asked by runningnorth1 1

I'm confused and am trying to help this couple, the bride being my best friend for many years. I was with them from the day they met, to the day they became intimate (of which my friend shared just a little), to their wedding day. Now that they are entering their 6 years of marriage, she will be filling for divorce on the basis that the hub stopped sex totally after their wedding. Her story was, he was not in mood (stress, work etc) but I find it strange that its straight after wedding. The thing is, the hub is a private person, so no way that I can go ask him what happen. Her version of the story, I find it hard to believe too as it the past, she had lied before. But after meeting him, she's a change person.

How should I proceed with this. I really want to help them, somehow.

2007-11-08 16:05:44 · 22 answers · asked by asianprincess 2