Marriage & Divorce - 8 November 2007

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2007-11-08 13:50:03 · 2 answers · asked by Carconfused 2

I have been married for five years now and we have two kids. When I was pregnant with my frist son I decied to be a stay at home mom. I do side jobs a couple times a week to pull in money. We fight all the time. Our sex life is not so great either. He only wants sex in the middle of the night when I'm asleep at night and never any other time. I told him this and he says I'm just being silly. We got in a fight tonight and he takes a shower and leaves without saying a word. I don't know what to think, he don't say I love you anymore or kiss me. He seems angry at me all the time. I sometimes thinks the reason he don't leave me is because of spiting up the kids he has said way back when he don't believe in spiting up kids from there parents. What should I do. Should I worry and what are the signs of cheating I don't know if it's me or something is really going on.

2007-11-08 13:49:59 · 16 answers · asked by Tara Elaine 4

Married 2yrs ago after a short & intense courtship(talked alot-we were long distance)He moved to CA 2 be w/me then we moved with him to AR.I have no friends or family here.Recently had a miscarriage after trying for a baby for 10 months.We fight off & on-struggled w/$$ for 1st yr.We were making ends meet easier for the last few months.Saw Dr for preconception counsel in Aug,& saw OB/GYN in Sept cuz he couldn't wait. Early Oct brought a funeral-his cousin,Mid Oct. brought painful cyst & miscarriage. Very next week he got inappropriate text mssges from a girl at work.He showed them to me & said she's ugly. He thought they were a joke at 1st, but after replying-he's not interested & married, she asked him to lunch. He said no.He is a very jealous person(w/o reason),I told him he needs to end it right(face 2 face).He finally did.He slept on couch that night & never came back to bed.Didnt talk x5days.Oct 31-he duznt want 2b married anymore.He's been unhappy for 2 yrs now.This is not him.

2007-11-08 13:40:54 · 13 answers · asked by rubyslippers 1

My grandmother died in Febuary 2007 and the lady who helped take care of her hurt her as well. now my grandpa is dating that lady and doesn't realize that all she is after is his money. she think he has more money than he really does. and we no she really dont love him but he is really beging to love her and take her places and to hotels. he's like 80 some years old and she like late 50's or early 60's. Please tell me how to break them up. My grandpa can be very bull headed and won't listen and i have asked for support to help break them up from my family but they say no its not any of our bussines. well i dont care i not going to watch him throw his life away and his money towards that ***** *** clara. and he ask my mom to help support his relation ship with her and she told him no.
please tell me how to break them up. HE IS MAKING A BIG MISTAKE AND I DONT WANT TO SEE HIM SUFFER FROM IT.
S.O.S.

2007-11-08 13:35:50 · 5 answers · asked by somebody 1

so, my dad and mom got divorced 3 years ago. about 5 months ago, i found porn tapes in my dad's bedroom. what is goin on?

2007-11-08 13:30:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-08 13:12:44 · 16 answers · asked by timely 1

My husband woke me up on a holiday, and I got all irritated at him bcoz I don't like waking up early on holidays and I screamed at him. I think the bad mood remained the whole day. I didn't eat the breakfast he made (to make up probably), refused to go out with him that day. He was home all day and I hardly talked to him. I refused to kiss him all day. He said sorry (even tho it was not his fault) and the stupid me just asked him to go away. At night I obviously said no to IT, but we had planned about a week ago that we will do it that night.

Now I feel bad, he isn't talking and I want to say I am sorry and I wan't him to talk to me! Whats the best waY?

Plz - If I have a bad mood in the morning I have it all day.

2007-11-08 13:11:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

They have 2 kids and live at Chicago iLL, do they need to separate first then file for divorce and how long it take the divorce will be final?

2007-11-08 13:10:53 · 4 answers · asked by sska 1

he used to be who I thought was my bestfriend but it now seems like I don't matter to him what so ever, whenever i try showing him affection he doesnt notice or take me seriously. If things continue to go this way I'm thinking about leaving him no matter how much I *love* him, why be with someone who doesnt **SHOW** that love back?
any advice would be helpful.

2007-11-08 13:04:37 · 29 answers · asked by blahblah 2

2007-11-08 13:02:58 · 10 answers · asked by Lady Lazarus 1

She had the audacity to tell me in front of about 15 people that she didnt like having me as a neighbor and that she didn't like me as a person or somehting to that effect. yet she loves my husband (soon to be ex) and dog! how do i act now and should i say anything back like, i didn't like the fact that you drove your boyfreind to commit suicide but i was still nice enough and cordial (sp)????? this ate up my day, i'm not usually worried about what people think, but this just erks me!

2007-11-08 13:00:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked a question like this earlier today, and I got some good answers. Problem is I can't go out and get a big dog or have an ADT system put in tonight. My husband is working 3 hours away and only gets to come home every other weekend. It's just me and my small children. I'm so afraid at night! I stay awake until I can't no more because I am scared to go to sleep. What can I do to calm down and relax a little? I keep the home phone and my cell phone beside the bed, and there is a loaded gun in my bedroom (children can't get to the gun). Both my children sleep in my bedroom when my husband is away. I am a wreck...I don't know what else to do. I don't have anyone that could stay the night with us. I leave a lamp on in the living room, light on in kitchen, and a night light in the bathroom. And outside light is on.

p.s. we don't live on a army base.

2007-11-08 12:44:40 · 22 answers · asked by honeybear 5

My husband get in these little moods and all and I do everything for him I cook clean take care of are babies and all pluse going to college and all. I just want to make him happy and all I lay his clothes out for him and tuck him in at night and all but nothing seems to help. I love my husband we will have been married for 3 years on june 18th and i feel like he is giving me the cold shoulder alot and I dont no what I did wrong and all I no he is not cheating but what can I do to make him happy and show me more affection and to show me he loves me more please help me thanks to all.....

2007-11-08 12:39:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to go out once in a while, for a couple of hours (not drinking or anything--dead set against driving drunk)....just to shoot pool, or to go roller skating or something of the sort. Just time away from the house.
But my fiance makes a big deal of it...."I have things to do, I can't be at home with the kids, etc, etc."....to try and make me stay home. But HE never seems to have a problem finding time to go out....

2007-11-08 12:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

That is when you were dating.

2007-11-08 12:36:15 · 5 answers · asked by greenwich 4

okay......... I have been married to a man who is abusive both emotionally and physically........ I have dreampt all my life of being a wife and mommy and really do want to do what God wants. We have separated once before and I took him back. I have seen God work in his life but then he went back to all of this anger and then even began hurting me in the night while I slept!! We are separated again now and have been for a while. I just do not know what to do........ God hates divorce right? Well gosh.. Ido not want to be alone for the rest of my life... I have a love in my heart to give (that he never wanted from me) and my heart needs to be loved..... do I just wait and see what happens? Do I continue to show love and grace to him? I have little girls depending on me... he has hurt them too... he is angry and calls me ungodly........ I hope that is not true. If I divorce, can I ever remarry? I am 32 and have my whole heart to give! What would God tell me?

2007-11-08 12:33:20 · 18 answers · asked by happygirl 1

This is not a relationship question. Is it the wrong mindset to think of getting revenge on someone as long as it is legal? Please share if you want.

2007-11-08 12:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by randyya_randyyaa 3

2007-11-08 12:28:35 · 18 answers · asked by Gertie321 1

Well im being told that me and my fionce are to young to get married well he is 17 and im 18 but his mom is signing the papers for us to get married. We are having a child together in january and we are madly in love but everyone says that we are to young. i dont think because if you love someone and they love you back then i think age shouldnt matter. As long as we love eachother i really dont see a problem.

2007-11-08 12:21:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 2 days. We have always had a great sex life and have sex on a regular basis , once every night on most occasions. But since we got married I want to do it over and over again no matter what time of day it is. What is the cause for this?

2007-11-08 12:19:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been doing tons of research but nothing as of yet. what is the easiest and quickest way that I can bring my wife to usa, once we get engaged / married in india. can she apply for visa before we get married, to speed up the process?
any help would be great
regards,
naveen

email - naveen@4nse.com

2007-11-08 12:18:56 · 8 answers · asked by transam44 1

like the question states married for 15 years ,things keep going downhill since the past two years since my brother in law moved in .we fell apart as a couple .feel like were just roommates...now the thing is i have a gurl who came back from the past and say my husband went to see her 11 years ago.but we are married for 15.so he cheated yes.
anyways,i tried breaking it off but he wouldn`t leave and my son took a fit cause thats his dad and yelled at me and took it real hard so i didn`t make him leave for that fact cause i couldn`t see my son hurt like he did.
now i feel i made the biggest mistake cause we act as roommates more then anything.and i am no longer happy..........i don`t wanna hear talk to him about it...herd it all before and it don`t work.....i wanna know what the hell do i do.do i stay to please my kids or do i ?what!

2007-11-08 12:13:46 · 5 answers · asked by mimi 2

well one day i was printing out something off the computer and an E-mail printed.. i thought it was for my dad so i gave it to him.. it turned out that it was to my mom from this man who she is friends with.. but he likes her.. and long story short my parents are getting a divorce.. is that my fault??

2007-11-08 12:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men and women speak basically different languages and interpret things differently? Their responses do not coincide on many things, though their feelings about the issue may be the same. Do you think that when someone feels the other person isn't listening, it is really because this "language" barrier is in the way, making the other person (in a sense) unable to really interpret correctly? What are some of your thoughts on this?

2007-11-08 11:52:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

just broke off with a married man,now he threathens to go up my house n talk to my dad,demand money that he used to help me,its less than 2000 dlrs,he knows i m very afraid of my dad,what should i do?

2007-11-08 11:47:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-08 11:40:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-08 11:35:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a rule which says the husband sleeps on the left side of the bed and the wife sleeps on the right side of the bed?

2007-11-08 11:26:59 · 33 answers · asked by Dr Love 3

my dad just divorced his second.. yes second wife in july but he's already getting remarried!!!!!!! i am so shocked i meen she's nice n all but i think it may be to soon... should i say anything if so wat?
or leave it be and let him be happy?

2007-11-08 11:25:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've only been married for four month and it seems like he has changed so much. in the short time we have been married he has texted friends (girls) from his past say that he wants to have sex with them and he should have when he had the chance. a couple of times he has gone and visit these girls at work. and he has been looking online at other girls and i used to just worry about him looking at that stuff at home but now he just bought the iphone so he looks at it on there. i'm a very self conscious person i wasn't when we were dating but now that he started things like this i'm back to being worried about my body.i just don't know what to do. i've talked to him about it and how it makes me feel but he continues to do it. so what do i do?

2007-11-08 11:22:07 · 13 answers · asked by so confused 1