Marriage & Divorce - 8 November 2007

I have a friend who wants to get married to her boyfriend, but he has bad credit and told her that he is going to file for Chapter 7. If she gets married to him will it effect her? What are the pros and cons? She is very young and wants to purchase things in the future like a house, car, etc.

2007-11-08 06:26:29 · 14 answers · asked by Luxurious_red 2

My husband is facing some financial porblems. And he has asked me to support him and stay by him and told me he loves me and will get back etc. I am a lawyer. The problems my husband is facing are with legal matters. I KNOW how to solve it. He could be on the streets soon enough if he doesn't get help.

My husband knows I am lawyer, right? Then why is it that he has not yet asked me to HELP HIM!!! I easily could! But he wouldn't even ask me if I know a solution. He just said that xyz is happening.

Does he disregard my quality or did he think I woulf tell him naturally? Is it his ego? Or am I being silly?

2007-11-08 06:24:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do they want a wife or a family and a play thing on the side? Why would they want it, especially if the 3 are always in battle with one another?

2007-11-08 06:22:49 · 22 answers · asked by torn 3

A friend of mine has been with his girlfriend for 3 months. While tracking his geneolgy he found out that his girlfriend was his 5th cousin. Is there anything wrong with this? Would it be illegal if they got married?

2007-11-08 06:22:06 · 28 answers · asked by Old School 5

Am I crazy? My husband cheated on me and now I feel hurt and miserable, he said he loves me, he never change his ways with me, he is always at home, takes me out for dinner,buys me presents and even during his affair he never changed but now I feel that I cannot trust him, but at the same time I love him, I will feel so sad if our marriage ends but sometimes I feel is the only way to end my misery....sometimes I even feel the need to hurt him,and I feel hate sometimes....what can I do?

2007-11-08 06:20:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so say you are married and you have a truck but the truck has your name on the title and not your husbands. If there is a break up or separation of the relationship can the person who's name is not on the title legally come and take possestion of it? Does anyone know if there is a law on this???? Please help ASAP!!!!!

2007-11-08 06:20:43 · 15 answers · asked by Ethan 5

my cousin is married and has daughter.she recently got separated because her husband notice how close my cousin is to my brother.one afternoon i found them sleeping together in bed,they were covered in blanket,i was shocked.day after i confronted them and denied it.this has been going on for four years now and they kept denying it.but we always see signs that there is something strange going on between them. i love my brother dearly and i care for my cousin specially her daughter.how do we stop this?

2007-11-08 06:18:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

1999 my gf and i got married because she's pregnant(lthough i will still marry her even if she isnt pregnant in the near future).i was only 22 and she 19.it was a very very hard life for the both of us--baby's needs, rents, bills, food.after a year she got pregnant again.2003 my sister gave me an opportunity to work outside the country.then in 2005 my wife then just said that she felt out of love already -- even before i went out abroad.i tried to work things out silently but she filed an annulment which is really hard to accpet.then i met a single mom in our country via chat.things worked out just fine with us -- suddenly i am smiling again and feel loved.the problem is , deep inside me, i still love my ex wife and i know she does too (but she filed an annulment?which is really puzzling me)and another part of me wanted to make things work with this new love i've found.cant help but compare the 2 and the ex always win.i still love my ex but i dont want to lose my new love either

2007-11-08 06:09:54 · 42 answers · asked by d3nnis 1

I have been dating the man of my dreams for almost a year now. He has asked me to move in with him the begining of next year, when my apartment lease is up. ( he has a new house )

I love this guy with all my heart and I want it to work out.

Any advice what to do, or not to do when getting used to co habitation ? Anything you would have done differently ?

A little background info:
Im 23 hes 32
I am a single mom to a 3yr old boy that he loves
we are both divorced and scared to make the same mistakes

2007-11-08 06:09:48 · 12 answers · asked by Jamie 3

I had an affair on my wife about 8 years ago. I am not trying to justify it or say it is right, it is not. But the other spouse in their own way or ways is very much a contributing factor. So the blame lies with both, one chose to express it in an unfaithful manner. Yes, my wife and I are still together and things are great. The other spouse needs to sit down and seriously look at their own lives what they are doing that led the spouse to cheat. Again, it is not justification, but it is reality, it takes two to marry and three to cheat. I know some of you will blast me for having an affair, but once a cheater always a cheater is not true.

2007-11-08 06:08:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boy friend and i have been to gather over a year and its been great. but now hes working alot and has very little time for!

2007-11-08 06:04:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are seperated and we have a two year old. We live in the state of NM and he doesn't want tpo end up with back child support. He only makes $1,800 a month and I bring in only $700, but I will be going back to work full time in December because my rent alone is almost $700 a month. How much should he pay every month till we do get divorced and so there will be no back child support owed?

2007-11-08 05:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by rm3alford 2

What is a good excuse to go visit my female neighbor? She typically takes a day off work evry couple of weeks and sits in her basement watching TV. I want to go over and keep her company but I need an excuse to ring the doorbell.

2007-11-08 05:48:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that most women assume that all men cheat on their girl. This amazes me to no end. At any moment you can look in here and see questions from women about men cheating. Why is this? I'm married and have been for ten years and believe it or not, I haven't cheated on her. I know this is going to come as a shock to you women, but all men don't cheat. Maybe you should start asking what did I do to cause him to cheat on me? Or, if I hadn't been such a ***** would he have still cheated? Get over yourselves.

2007-11-08 05:47:32 · 7 answers · asked by Jim C 3

if you really had to say who comes first or have the greatest love for.

2007-11-08 05:47:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Husband and I have been married for 2 yrs and we are always arguing and we both love each other but we don't get along and were at the point of going our seperate ways! We don't want to break up but don't know how to go forward were considering marriage conseling, but what are something we can do to work at things now waht should we try to do!

2007-11-08 05:46:45 · 10 answers · asked by shasha 2

My husband has two kids 1 girl and 1 boy from a previous marriage (he married young). Now his kids are grown his daughter is 20 with 2 kids and his son 19 with 1 kid. The only time they call there dad is when they want something or need help with something, I see that but he doesn't. His daughter will lie to get what she wants and I have brought that to his attention and every time his daughter calls and need something he always jumps to his feet and go to her rescue but when his son calls and ask for something he always turns him down. I asked why does he always jump to help his daughter and why can't he say no to her but he always responds with "she's my daughter and I'm her dad". And I tell him she only calls when she wants something other than that you don't hear from her unless you call her, she never call on her own to see how you’re doing. He makes so many excuses for her actions and I am getting tired of it. Two weeks ago was his birthday and he did not get a call

2007-11-08 05:38:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-08 05:35:17 · 20 answers · asked by lexi . 2

My ex has not made a payment since the end of july ~ the CS agency sends him reminder letters, I demanded the cs order be enforced. A hearing will be scheduled. How much longer will I have to wait?

2007-11-08 05:30:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to a couple of things...

why is that married men esp the ones who had love marriage, want to veer out of the marriage.. what is the thought that goes in their mind... is it that their wives will never know or even if they will what would they do... also why do they get bored in the marriage, in the end.. is it all about sex or do they really crave attention cos their wives are not what they expected them to be... ( only serious answers, preferably from people who have been in such a situation)

2007-11-08 05:29:00 · 17 answers · asked by howiwishicould 2

2007-11-08 05:28:20 · 39 answers · asked by sexyascanbe! 1

2007-11-08 05:24:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my wife for about seven years now and we have a nine month old son. I would say for the past two years things have been different, we fight a lot and dont really have much to talk about. My wife has had a very hard life, her mother died very young, abuse and attempted suicides. So at times she is very hard to deal with.... actually almost insane. I think this is really beginning to get to me but I try to make things work for her and most importantly our son. I feel like I get no respect or appreciation, I work six days a week and take care of our son at night while she goes to school. All I ask is she take care of our son and clean up around the house but lately that has not been happening and she complains about how I dont show her any attention or help out. I feel like I do more than my share and Im really tired of it. Of course this is only my side of the situation, as she may see things differently. We have talked but it only seems to help for a short time.

2007-11-08 05:21:27 · 25 answers · asked by Sero 2

okay so i have reached the end of my tether with partner, know in my heart the best thing for everyone is for us to split. have known for a long time but different things have held me back, ie. house, money, status, my own hangups about not having contact with my dad when i was a child, the practacalities of it, the upset it will cause to my life to my kids life etc

but i know i need to do this
how can i get some support to find the strength

2007-11-08 05:20:04 · 10 answers · asked by toast 1

when i was younger i beleived that two people fell in love and got married and stayed faithful for their lives but the older i get the more i question that people are even capable of being faithful forever. does anyone question if it is possible to be with only one person forever?? and even the best marriages and the people who wouldnt seem like the time are full of affairs. am i the only one who is bothered by this??

2007-11-08 05:14:09 · 32 answers · asked by happy1 1

i am married with children but in love with another man. I want to leave my husband but dont know if this man will be afraid i'll leave him 4 someone else too. i love him dearly and he says he loves me. My husband has caught us together and he is by my side always. What do i do? Iam very confused. Is this love?

2007-11-08 05:12:43 · 13 answers · asked by hotmom 1

A man powerful rich late 30s single never married no kids adopted foster parent professional.This man had to leave home due to issue with family & being in bad company when teenager.

The family of this man is family friends with another family from decades.This man and this girl met 8 years back directly been friends ever since in love deeply.But only problem is he calls her names gets mean with her online only.Both of them are friends known each other nearly 8 years been through everything together like ops sad happy times never abused her in anyway in love very deeply.

Why would this man do such a thing to this girl online only when its a fact hes in love with her.Best answer 10 points.

2007-11-08 05:09:07 · 17 answers · asked by aguardianangel 1

i plan in the near future to travel abroad to marry the man i love...he is not from the same country as me and to be together we must marry...and nothing will make me happier in doing this...however im having trouble finding out what papers i will need to take with me to marry my man...and need some help in where to look online to find out what i need. please if any one can help me..would be great..thx :)

2007-11-08 05:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by nicki w 1

i mean like mentally and emotionally? punitive damages maybe?

2007-11-08 05:02:05 · 39 answers · asked by JWalker 1

I have posted before, thank everyone for their answers.Since I last posted, I have gone to my first counseling session, and I really am troubled. My counselor asked me if I had had any suicidal thoughts which thank god, I haven't, but then he asked me if i had any about my husband, and the answer was yes. My husband says he doesn't know why I am upset with him and why I can't make love to him anymore.I can't stand for him to even sit next to me!!! I do not like confrontations so I haven't actually confronted him about his on-going affair.I have checked his cell phone and text messages and he is still talking to the OW. I asked him who's number it was and he lied to my face and told me it was his cousins. My counselor says I should leave,does anybody have any advice that they think might help. Do i tell him I am leaving or just up and go? He has maxed out our credit so that hopefully I can't leave. I just can't take staying anymore, home doesn't feel like home anymore. Any advice???

2007-11-08 04:57:17 · 26 answers · asked by Very Blessed!!! 1