2007-11-08 05:28:20 · 39 answers · asked by sexyascanbe! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when mama says," jump" He says, "how high?"
2007-11-08 05:29:34 · update #1
When she ask him to do things, he acts as if he might not do them. But, we both know hes going to fill her request. On his day off she gets him from 9am to midnight or later. We have 3 kids.
2007-11-08 05:31:19 · update #2
She has him working on her house she just had built.
2007-11-08 05:32:30 · update #3
I have never ever disrespected this woman. Yet, she disrespects me.
2007-11-08 05:34:09 · update #4
Zing, that wont work. Shes far from being poor.
2007-11-08 05:36:52 · update #5
This issue has always been on my mind. Don't people grow up when they get married, I mean personally i wish i could slapp the heck out of this people....as a matter of fact
they should be slapped.
A married Man's priority should be his wife, kids, home and if he has time to go and spent some time with the relatives well so be it.. But first thing is first.. " HIS FAMILY"
There is nothing wrong with visiting mom once awhile and showing your affection for her.. But to stay there the rest of the freaking day like you have no kids or wife is just plain stupid........
YOU GOT MARRIED FOR A REASON AND YOUR PRIORITY SHOULD BE YOUR WIFE AND KIDS.
2007-11-08 05:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by MrRight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change him, you can only change you. If that's behaviour is not acceptable, which is not, just change yourself, stop taking what you are being giving. Time for him to decide between being a real man, or a mama's boy because he will lose his wife who will go after a real man eventually. Just let him take that decision, if he wants to still be a mama's boy, if that's how he is happy, let it be and go somewhere else. It's not fair for you to have someone like that, he should be living thousand miles away from that person and only calling her to say hi, or send her presents, or some help, or visits to make her happy with his family, that kind of things. Just a point of view.
2007-11-08 06:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get divorced (it won't get better, unless you can prove his mama wrong, somehow, and then he will resent you for destroying his image of Mama the Goddess) or tell him to get his mom to do the things he thinks she does so well, like cleaning, cooking, etc.. I, fortunately, did not marry the mama's boy I was with and told him to go and f*** his mom and get it over with. I admire your courage for staying with him, but you aren't going to get him over it. Some men are just like that.
Focus on what you do like/love about him! Be thankful that you are with a man who probably treats women well! Would you rather be with a jerk who hates his mother? I don't know exactly what he does, but you may want to point out to him that it is the two of you in a relationship and, although you 'love' his mother, some things need to be decided with just the two of you.
Best of luck to you. Honestly!
2007-11-08 05:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I too am married to a mama's boy. Appreciate it, embrace it! That shows that he respects women and he will always respect you. Yes, it may get frustrating when she wants him to do something for her, taking time away from you and your children, but If she needs work done around her house, go with him, take the kids. Don't make him choose between you and his mother, let him enjoy both of you and try to enjoy her as a mother-in-law and a grandmother. She may lighten up a little bit when she sees that he is not being torn between the two of you.
2007-11-08 05:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy J 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, I'd just like to say you should have known what you were getting yourself into before you got yourself into it. Second, he just needs tough love. Tell him so stop being a mama's boy because you are the #1 woman in his life now!
2007-11-08 05:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some scissors and cut the umbilical cord!
No, really...I think it's a lost cause. Those types of guys never get the fact that YOU are his immediate family now, not mama. If that's the way he wants it to be, then tell him to haul his dirty clothes and skidmark-stained tidy whities over to her place so she can do his laundry. While he's there, he might as well stay for dinner because you'll go out and have a better time with your friends.
2007-11-08 05:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mike T 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To deal with a mama's boy you just walk out the door and never look back! I promise it works.
2007-11-08 07:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by mikey_fiveoh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax!
Talk to him if you think he's not giving you and your children enough attention.There's nothing to worry about your relationship. Besides, there's a good side of becoming a mama's boy... He won't dare to do bad things to you.
Believe me, I've seen a lot of worse wedding lives than yours. Divorce? Are you sure you want to divorce after what your husband have given you???
Think twice.
Have fun and enjoy your wedding life! :)
2007-11-08 05:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by 360° 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son is a mama's boy. I always have to tell him that he has a wife and a baby now, and they should be #1 in his life. Don't get me wrong, I am glad he loves me. I don't allow him to put me in front of his wife because it just isn't right. Are you able to talk to your mother-in-law and ask her to back off your husband? Some mothers forgot what it was like to to have their mother-in-law intrude in their lives. Remind her.
2007-11-08 05:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you admire his devotion to his mother, but feel that his constant catering to HER needs is leaving YOU feeling like a third wheel. Ask him to at least limit 'mom time' to only twice a week, before you start wondering if he only got married to get the benefits that Mom doesn't provide...
2007-11-08 05:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋