Why is it that most women assume that all men cheat on their girl. This amazes me to no end. At any moment you can look in here and see questions from women about men cheating. Why is this? I'm married and have been for ten years and believe it or not, I haven't cheated on her. I know this is going to come as a shock to you women, but all men don't cheat. Maybe you should start asking what did I do to cause him to cheat on me? Or, if I hadn't been such a ***** would he have still cheated? Get over yourselves.
2007-11-08 05:47:32 · 7 answers · asked by Jim C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good point. Sometimes women do drive their men into the arms of other women. But in all fairness tehre are some guys who just cheat habitually no matter how the woman acts. Seems like these guys are also the most popular ones to be in relationships. The ones who would not cheat are always at the bottom of a girl's list of guys she'd date. Again they have themselves to blame for having bad taste in men... if cheating is such a big deal.
2007-11-08 06:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol im with you all the way my first wife cheated on me and then ran me through the grinder and CS so does that mean all women will do it my second wife and i have been together since about a year after the first wife and she hasnt cheated nor is their any doubt im my mind she would and i would never cheat on anyone to me its like lying to myself if i did i would still want to be considered a good person but your own eyes are the truest judge so whats up with the women in this situation is there something you can do to keep your man from cheating yes there is and it seems that most women here should get their as$'s off the couch and make their hubbys happy since we are stereotypeing people here because seems to me there is only 2 types of people up beats and dead beats which are you?
sure poppet they are but how has it come to that point is more to the point what could have been done for some stupid guy to have been derailed in his maddening desire to be a di@k pun intended
2007-11-08 05:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Neither do I surprised about this thing...And I was shocked by the questions,and how It's being answered.... Lots of them seemed to be admitted it...I thought,This was something new....I was kind of dissapointed too in the beginning, knowing that there are really some guy's out there doing. it..It's really frustrating,When I go over to see more & more of the questions,It's always all about this"Married" Men & Women,saying, they're 'having an affair' outside...And asking other People's opinion on what would they do about it"....To leave the wife/husband or what??...Believed me,It hurts me, when I began to read those questions over n over.It made me more think of the negative side of my husband.And thingking,He might be doing this too!This is not for "All" the Guys but It's only for those guy's who had done it....I know,Not really all!...And I do believed there are still some kind of A good,Sincere,And loving husband out there....You're being defensive make's me think that you really are a good one husband too...I would say your wife is lucky to have you....This is a good "Self defense" you had done,And for all the Men out there....
2007-11-08 06:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Jim, have to disagree...can't lump us all into that category. My first husband actually came back to apologize to me some 7 years after our divorce. I was remarried and he was seriously dating a girl who was pulling the same ole sh!t he used to with me. Got a taste of his own medicine and he realized how it was. When I told him that wasn't necessary that I'm sure I could have done things differently and that I blamed myself in the end...he was completely shocked and told that I had been a wonderful wife and that I couldn't of done anything differently and that I had done way more than I should have to make things work.
So don't be so quick to cast stones.
Oh and by the way...men can be the same type of ***** that you think of. My second husband thought all women were cheaters and made my life a living hell.
2007-11-08 06:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your theory is right but your information is wrong. Women should get over themselves because alot of us aren't cheaters and they often ruin things (or stress the relationship) by assuming we are all cheaters.
I think the issue isn't "start asking what did I do to cause him to cheat on me" (although many times it is and she doesn't know.) But the issue should be picking better guys. Girls let these guys walk all over them and then wonder why he cheats. Stand up for yourself (don't be a b*tch) but have a backbone. Stop picking the "bad boy" because he isn't going to change. if he cheated on his last girlfriend with you and left her for you, he will probably do the same thing to you!!! Think before you go rushing into things and realize that women cheat too! Usually it is the guys fault for cheating but it is your fault for choosing to be with him when you know better but convinces yourself otherwise.
And by the way ladies, stop making exceptions for this guy or that guy and stop make exceptions for when you cheat because " it was different". It wasn't.
2007-11-08 05:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why is it that some people don't understand that the people who post "cheating" questions on here are in pain and confused?
You sir, need to get over yourself. This forum is only showing a sliver of ideas and concepts. It is NOT the majority.
2007-11-08 05:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
its because it has happened befor to them in past relationships in high school or what ever its just a stereotype that men cheat sorry stay faithful
2007-11-08 05:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by babybadboy212 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋