A man powerful rich late 30s single never married no kids adopted foster parent professional.This man had to leave home due to issue with family & being in bad company when teenager.
The family of this man is family friends with another family from decades.This man and this girl met 8 years back directly been friends ever since in love deeply.But only problem is he calls her names gets mean with her online only.Both of them are friends known each other nearly 8 years been through everything together like ops sad happy times never abused her in anyway in love very deeply.
Why would this man do such a thing to this girl online only when its a fact hes in love with her.Best answer 10 points.
2007-11-08 05:09:07 · 17 answers · asked by aguardianangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People who have difficult pasts as children can have issues that span into adulthood. I've been there but for the most part have left my past as my past and try not to let it draw on who I am now.
If everyone you've trusted has come back and hurt you it can be a scary thing to trust someone again. It could be that he is pushing her away seeing if she loves him enough to come back anyways. Or it could be that he is afraid to let someone else get close enough to hurt him.
2007-11-08 06:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel he is carrying anger from his youth and bringing it into his relationship with the girl he loves, which is not fair. The part about him only having this attitude on the computer indicates he feels more comfortable confronting her in this way without having to do it face to face. As to why, is not clear to me. He might be a guy who avoids confrontation at all costs and does it from a comfortable distant and that is by computer. I would say this couple would benefit from professional therapy to unravel the real issues here. The fact that he is in love with her has nothing to do with the way he behaves. The verbal abuse needs to be addressed and he needs to come to see the damage his behaviour is causing.
2007-11-08 05:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh on here i can do whatever i want or be whoever i want but if we were face to face i would have to follow rules and show some sort of ettiquet so that people wouldnt judge me an as$ but online its different i mean who would really care if i cursed you out and called you stuff most would probably say that you had deserved it in some way but really it would not affect me either way if i did or didnt no real consequence for misbehaving on the net wouldnt you think what if they deleted my profile i would be back here in less than a minute big deal so whats really stopping him from adopting this type of personality because he can
2007-11-08 05:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was so deeply in love with her he would not call her names, I don't care if he just does it on line, it doesn't matter. Children call names, and names hurt. There are better ways to show someone how you care about them, and it does not require name calling. This man obviously has some issues of his own that he needs to address, before he can be with anyone. He is abusive he may bot be beating her, but abuse is not always physical there is verbal and mental abuse, if he is calling her names, and is mean to her it is abuse. And she needs to leave him alone, You don't love someone and abuse them by calling them names and being mean to them, If he is doing it online, it is just a matter of time before he does it face to face. He is a loser.
2007-11-08 05:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Verbal abuse is still abuse. It's a form of control, maybe the only control he feels he has. He needs to seek counseling if the relationship is to proceed. That should be mandatory and stated as such from the girl.
2007-11-08 05:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Joshua B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because at this point, he is passive-agressive and feels safer abusing her on-line. However, over time, he will become more comfortable with the abuse and he will indeed abuse her off-line and harm her directly. The abusive personality has nothing to do with "love".
2007-11-08 06:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abandonment issues. When online he is ugly. In person he is safe. Get offline and use your riches for therapy.
2007-11-08 05:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Islander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he knows something she doesn't. So, she should just ask him as she is asking us here.
She should tell him that she needs to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
Good luck.
2007-11-08 05:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were adopted and single??
Or.....
This man is in love with this girl
The girl is harrasing another man, but doesn't know its him...
So he tells her all this names and is being mean to get her off him, because he is already in love with another girl......
or....
their just friends and she doesnt' know he is in love with her
lol it was worth a shot..
2007-11-08 05:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by Yeye 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ENOUGH ALREADY!! You posted this question about 4 times yesterday!!!!
Maybe he's mean to her because she is so hard headed and needs to be told things over and over and over again before she finally GETS IT!!!!
but hey thanks for the 2pts!!
2007-11-08 05:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by Notagain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋