Marriage & Divorce - 8 November 2007

Right now he is working 3 hours away from home and will be there until the middle of December. We have gone through many deployments in the past that have lasted a lot longer than this, but I never feel safe at night. The other day my neighbor had a strang man that was beating on her door and would not leave even though she told him to. Now I'm really afraid. What can I do?

2007-11-08 08:42:12 · 25 answers · asked by honeybear 5

I live in US and my Girlfreind live in UK.We both are Indian citizens.We want to get married in UK or US under the Special Marriage Act.How exactly should i go about it?

2007-11-08 08:32:11 · 3 answers · asked by postmedirect 1

Is sleeping together technically having sex???

2007-11-08 08:23:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you husband or wife have a wild past? Partied a lot, slept with a lot of people, cheating, did drugs...etc?

Yes....did it make you more comfortable knowing they got it out of their systems and were able to learned from their mistakes?

No....did it make you feel more comfortable because you know that they would never go back to those wild days or even have it on their minds?

2007-11-08 08:19:28 · 23 answers · asked by TroubleRose 6

should I be worried hes going to some strip clubs what goes on there with the bachlore???

2007-11-08 08:15:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and my anniversary is coming up on the 15th. We have a son who is three years old. We don't have family or anyone else to watch our son, so it will have to be a family celabration. What is a good gift for my husband and what are some suggestions on what we can do that can involve my son? Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

2007-11-08 08:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by lady_bella 6

My partner on purpose waited years played harmless games tested me before he said he was in love & proposed marriage to me later when he wanted to do it earlier.He says he knew all along he was in love & wanted to make me his wife.We just made out not consumated our relationship.He played games tested me.Should i wait till marriage hold out he wants to make love have kids now.Since waited years to hear he loves & proposal of marriage.Hes single in 30s powerful successful professional im in 20s professional.

Not played games tested in return here i want kids he knew it.He truly deeply loves me wants to make me his wife why wait years to say & propose marriage on purpose.He says hes late should have done it earlier not later.He wants to make love have kids now we are committed.He said he knew all along he loved me wanted to make me his wife.This doesnt involve any girl or other guy we love each other committed to marriage.Serious answers.Breaking up or therapy not options.

2007-11-08 08:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

for the new year thats coming soon!

2007-11-08 07:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by Guess Who 2

Do you have odd/taboo fantasies? Which have you acted out? When? With whom? Who's idea was it? How did you enjoy it?

2007-11-08 07:50:36 · 10 answers · asked by momtosaraandscott 1

2007-11-08 07:47:35 · 14 answers · asked by Yep Yep 3

My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years this month. We have only been married for about 9 months of the total ten years, and our first year of marriage has been rather rocky. Before we got married we could count on one hand the number of times we fought. Now it seems as though that is all we do, lately we argue at least once a week and it's driving me crazy. Most of the time we are arguing about something he doing or has done. Serveral of the reasons are that he has co-workers over at least two or three times a week to play madden, another reason is he's not a compassionate, or affectionate person, he's very critical, and our relationship is all about him and I am so busy trying to make him happy all the time so we won't fight I bottle things up and never tell him whats bothering me because he as though I need to deal with it. He gets mad when I talk to my best friend about things and not him but why would I talk to him when he is so critical.

2007-11-08 07:45:19 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

This was the love of my life. We where having problems and seperated. I thought we were working things out, but he decided he wanted to move on.

2007-11-08 07:44:27 · 9 answers · asked by cindi34442 1

I'm 23, he is 26, and we have been married for almost 3 years. I like to be social, and around friends a lot, clubbing, social drinking, dancing.... He perfers to go to a movie, dinner, or something simple. He does not drink, or dance at all. Although I love to see a movie from time to time, but if that's all we do as a couple, that can get boring. Does anyone have a marriage like this and does it work in the long run???

2007-11-08 07:38:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I understand all the responses I received while ago when I posted that question. I accept full responsibility for my actions and no one made me do anything I did not decide to do. I am not trying to blame my wife or say she drove me to do it. I am not looking for justification, sympathy, or condemnation. All I am trying to say is: the other spouse, whether they realize it or not, in most cases, is responsible, to a degree, for the affair. My wife and I had many long discussions about the affair, she was open minded enough to sit down and listen to the what I had to say. I did not blame her, I told her how I felt. Agreed, it should have happened before the affair. There are two sides to every coin. One thing I learned for sure, the grass may look greener on the other side of the fence, but it still has to be mowed.

2007-11-08 07:36:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

keep her ex-husbands last name even though she is remarried?? She has 2 children from 2 different men and both these kids have different last names, on eof which is her maiden name. Don't you think it would be ladylike to change her name to her husbands name instead of her ex's???

2007-11-08 07:32:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

He said she was just a friend. what do you think?

2007-11-08 07:31:32 · 27 answers · asked by Tracy Jane 2

2007-11-08 07:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by ★Greed★ 7

2007-11-08 07:25:54 · 49 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5

2007-11-08 07:25:04 · 6 answers · asked by gingertootie44 1

My husband and I have been together for 6 years. We have a wonderful child together. Unfortunately, these 6 years have been very rough to say the least. My husband has been very unsupportive of me, hiding money from me, and make me feel very isolated from his family (he is an extreme mama's boy) on the other hand i have been in arguments with him and been very quick to say mean things to him that were very hurtful. We briefly tried counseling and i don't know if it would be worth it to try it again. I know that I do not love my husband anymore but I also do not want to hurt him anymore either. My husband wants to try counseling again but I would think that after 6 years of someone promising to change that the chances of them changing are slim to none and i do not know of any counselor that can change the way my heart feels. I am very depressed and i am sick of seeing all parties involved unhappy over this - especially my child.

2007-11-08 07:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my husband has been really stressed out lately and I know when I get stressed out I like to see cute things like baby animals and stuff. Well, I formed a little 'nest' on our bed with the comfortors and some blankets and it looks so precious!! I was thinking about waiting til my husband gets home and call him into the room and then I hop inside the nest in my nightgown and pretend I'm a little bird and go "chirp chirp" and then I have a couple of baby stuffed animals in there and I act like I am feeding them!!! Wouldn't that be so precious???? I think it is so cute!!!

2007-11-08 07:23:03 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have been married a long time and love each other.

She recently told me that years ago she was infatuated with another man for a few years and made out with him – no sex. I almost left her at the time because I sensed something was going on. Recently, she found the need to tell me because we are close. I do love her.

It sounds nuts but I don’t mind the making out as much as the infatuation (emotional attraction) and the lies.

She says she wants to be with me til the end and feels terrible. I have given in many times and about to give in again. My emotions swing – some days it seems OK, other days I want to get even, other days I want to separate.

How do I believe her and trust her? And should I?

I know one answer is counseling – and I will go. But first, has anyone gone through this and can provide something besides get counseling.

2007-11-08 07:19:33 · 31 answers · asked by Guy B 1

my ex is planning my son frist holy commuion with her new husband and has not told me help!!!!

2007-11-08 07:16:57 · 21 answers · asked by sydney 1

My husband is a drinker. I drink occasionally, but I just can't drink that often. He went from being a heavy drinker when we first got together and reduced it quite a bit. He slowly started increasing his drinking. Now he is back up to 5-6 beers a night. He wonders why this bothers me so much. No matter what I tell him, it's not a good enough answer for him to slow back down. He says he's healthy, doesn't get violent and it relieves stress, so I should just let him do it. I feel strongly about this, but I can't put it into words. Bottom line, I don't like him drinking all the time. What can I do? Should I just let him have what he wants so we stop fighting about this? Please help!

2007-11-08 07:12:25 · 15 answers · asked by kimmy_3321 1

Every time I think I'm done and ready to head out the door he tells me how much he loves me and wants to fight for our marriage. This is the only time I hear this and it makes me feel guilty for wanting to leave. We've been together for 7 years and have two kids together. I WILL NOT say together for the kids so all you people out there who think Marriage is an abomination or whatever can just save it. I am a perfect expample of parents staying together for the kids and I went through hell!

Anyway... I feel like I've been fighting for this marriage for a long time and I'm tired. Do I give him ONE more chance? He is willing to do anything and everything to make me happy. The reason(s) I want to leave him are becuase he is selfish and insulting and there is no passion in our relationship. We went 9-12 months at a time with NO sex to just name a few of our problems.

2007-11-08 07:10:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most guys can probably relate. You're out with your beautiful wife, and another attractive woman walks by. It's like this unknown force is acting on our bodies to move our heads and look. How do you stop this! If my wife catches me doing this, I'm going to be in trouble!

2007-11-08 07:02:59 · 24 answers · asked by It's the hair 5

How do I install it to my (apple) computer? Thanks!

2007-11-08 06:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by anamika s 3

Hubby comes in last night, first thing he says is " I talked to your buddy ____ today". (The person he talked to is NOT my buddy, in fact is HIS buddy, someone who he knows I dont like very much and who has been the central figure in past marital arguments). I told hubby that he was taking a sarcastic passive/aggresive jab at me with the comment. His response was "oh I was just being silly". SILLY? He sounded fake and used an "aww shucks" sord of tone when he said it. Opinions ?

2007-11-08 06:44:43 · 9 answers · asked by undone 4

I am almost 50 and my wife is 40. My wife of 5 1/2 years is a very beautiful woman, I'm not a good-looking man right now, I've gained a lot of weight over the last 4 years and it is very concerning to both of us.

During the past 5 years, I've had to defend myself against 3 malicious lawsuits and have been constantly dealing with a custody battle with my ex over my daughter. To say I've been under a lot of stress would be an understatement.

When I'm stressed, I eat and I've been battling this for decades. During this time I've been working my butt off making enough money to support my family (wife, daughter, step-daughter) in a comfortable fashion. My wife during this time attended cosmotelogy school and we've set her up in business though we've received no income from her business. I'm a good, honest, hard-working husband with integrity.

My wife's co-workers said to her that she is "Much too pretty for your husband".

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2007-11-08 06:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in the basement doing laundry when a large storm drain broke open behind the house sending water into the basement i have been divorced for the ex for 17 yrs and am remaried we have been trying to sell the house for 2 years with no luck

2007-11-08 06:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous