Hubby comes in last night, first thing he says is " I talked to your buddy ____ today". (The person he talked to is NOT my buddy, in fact is HIS buddy, someone who he knows I dont like very much and who has been the central figure in past marital arguments). I told hubby that he was taking a sarcastic passive/aggresive jab at me with the comment. His response was "oh I was just being silly". SILLY? He sounded fake and used an "aww shucks" sord of tone when he said it. Opinions ?
2007-11-08 06:44:43 · 9 answers · asked by undone 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not passive aggressive, just a smart a s s trying to get a rise outta you. Is that right? No, Immature? Yes.
Good Luck.
2007-11-08 07:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are too sensitive about this...his answer made sense. He tried to make light of the fact you dislike or disapprove of the guy. Sounds like he was trying to lighten things up when he brought up a subject he thought you would get upset about. Guess he can't kid around with you.
2007-11-08 06:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a joke. He knows that you don't get along with this guy.
This friend of his really seems to be a problem for you. Life is too short.
2007-11-08 06:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by jlonva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings a joke is just meant as joke, even if it was a bit off-color.
2007-11-08 06:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he should hear what his buddy has to say about him when his back is turned.
2007-11-08 06:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds passive-agressive and sarcastic.
2007-11-08 06:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. I do that all the time! it's just a joke! There is nothing to read into at all! Sheesh!
2007-11-08 06:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by radman2035 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainly sounds like he is trying to get a rise out of you. Good for you for calling him out on it.
2007-11-08 06:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by CHH 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he an *** and a jurk. next time he says that you say the door go both ways mate .. see ya
2007-11-08 06:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by rpetch007 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋