My fiance is having his bachlore party....?

Question

should I be worried hes going to some strip clubs what goes on there with the bachlore???

Answer 1

What is the big deal if he goes to a strip club? It is his last night out with the guys, let him have some fun. Heck, I will even be giving my fiance's best man $100 to ensure he gets at least one lap dance. :o)

Don't be intimidated by the girls at the strip club or whereever for that fact. I have been to strip clubs with my significant other and his buddies and yes-they may act different around me, but I don't think too much, especially since they all are acting just like every other guy in the place. Yes, they may hoot and hollar at a girl here and there, throw down a couple ones to get some ta-ta's in their face, but other than that, they sit there and bullshit....just like every other guy was doing in that place. Men are very visual creatures and find the female body extremely beautiful...like a piece of artwork. So, just think of it as they are going to an art gallery. Yea, i know-that probably wont work, but there really is nothing to be hurt/upset/mad/or jealous about. It is just another bar-that is similar to Hooters bar only slightly less clothing. (but not much) He is still going to come home to you and marry you. If you don't trust him enough to have a bachelor party and possibly go to a strip club and be responsible enough to not to get in trouble, then you guys have some other trust issues that need to be dealt with before tying the knot.

Answer 2

I am sure he is going to go to a strip club or have a stripper there. What goes on is he gets drunk, acts like a jerk, and his friends buy him lap dances while he is wears a condom.

For some reason some men act like there bachelor party is the night out before going off to war. So I would not be worried if he is not the type of guy to go to strip clubs on a regular basis.

Answer 3

Ive never quite understood the notion of women getting upset if the guy goes to a strip club for his bachlore party. Its either one of two things. 1) You dont trust him and think he is going to cheat with the hotties on stage or 2) You think so little of yourself that you dont think he would be turned on by you if he saw them then saw you.

Easy fix here.

Option 1) - If you think the guy you are about to commit your life to is capable of cheating on you right before your wedding day of all days, what does that say about your relationship? It says you have no trust and if you have no trust, your marriage wont last period. Trust is HUGE in relationships. Do you think his bachlore party is the only time of your marriage that he can be remotely tempted by another woman? News flash - there are temptations everyday, everywhere. The difference is whether or not he has the character to walk away from them.

Option 2- If you feel so bad about yourself that you think he wouldnt be attracted to you after looking at them, then you seriously need to work on yourself. I have yet to hear of an attractive, nice bodied woman be self conscious about her man going to a strip club. Usually the ones that get all in an uproar are overweight women that have only lifted a fork in exercise the past couple of years. If you feel so badly about yourself that you dont think you could compare to others, dont you owe it to yourself and your soon to be husband to do something about it? Get off your lazy, dead *** and exercise! Im sure he would appreciate it!!!!

Answer 4

Honestly I hated the fact that my husband's friends took him to a strip club for his bachelor party. I also hated picking him up with my girlfriends that night because all the guys were drunk, even their designated driver. Then, the next day, he tells me that he used the MAC card to get an extra $40 to buy a couple more lap dances. I was furious.

BUT, at the same time I knew it was a one time thing that meant nothing. He, and some of the other guys, told me that most of the girls were foreign, barely spoke english, and weren't THAT attractive. Even if they offered him anything but a dance, I know how my husband felt about strippers and how he wouldn't dare touch one. All in all I didn't like it, but I love him and I trust him with all my heart. That's what it comes down to.

You're not going to like them having a bachelor party, but you have to trust him enough to know that even if there are strippers, he's not going to do anything horrible with them. He's marrying YOU, not them.

Answer 5

Don;t worry about it. He's marrying you. I'm sure he has enough sense to keep things cool. that is IF he goes to a strip club. He may not go to one. It's one of those things you hear happen all the time, but I know some who didn't do that or have stirppers for a bachelor party.

Don't worry. You worring is just going to make things tough on you and your Groom to be. Let the dude have some fun, you go out and have your bachelorette (you may get some male stripper come to your place, who knows! It's happend) party.

Trust. That's what these parties are all about. Trust. If you can't trust him for one night to go out and have a good time with his pals in a room of naked women who are really just dancing, he can't touch them, or Bubba will boot him out. If you can't trust him for one night, Your marriage might have trust issues if you dwell on wether or not he boinked some stripper for his bachelor party. (wich will not happen, so don't panic)

A freind of mine got a BJ from a bride to be at her bachelorette party, us guys can't nessesarily trust you girls either.

Answer 6

i don't know about others. But i think if he is going to some strip club he has bring me there too. bachelor party doesn't have to involve strip club, they can just be couple guys getting drink and have great time, i mean i don't think ill go to a male strip club right?

Answer 7

My wife didn't want me to go to a strip club, which I was fine with, it's just what a bachelor party seems to entail. You don't have anything to worry about as long as you trust him. Boobs and couch dances is all that goes on, nobody getting laid at a strip club.

Answer 8

No, do not worry this is his last night free. If he has any character at all he knows what he meets in that kind of club should stay there. Clubs like that is for entertainment only, If he would take trash like that home then maybe he is not the one for you. Let him go if you can not trust him for one night how will you be able to trust him for the rest of your life?

Answer 9

Sorry, but if you ask me. Men are pigs if they have to go to a strip club, even if it only entails having a "little" fun. We were not put on this earth to watch dirty whores run around naked for money. Anyone who has any morals knows that. I like to have fun too and I want my man to have fun as well. But even my man and myself believe that strip clubs are just ridiculous. I'm sorry people, but maybe it's time to realize what is morally right and wrong here.

Answer 10

they can't touch any of the girls or anything, so don't worry. If the guys pay extra he can get put on stage with a couple girls and they dance around him and sometimes tear off his undies from the back by ripping them off. they all will get on his lap at the same time too. but usually the guy is so wasted that he won't remember much anyway.