He said she was just a friend. what do you think?
2007-11-08 07:31:32 · 27 answers · asked by Tracy Jane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This was a girl in canada when he was working away for 4 and a half months and was 2 and a half years ago. I am in uk
2007-11-08 07:41:34 · update #1
My husband has gone away again and cleaned out his locker it was up to me to re home all his stuff as he did not do it before he left. Icalled the girl but she does not answer her phone to me and I text and she does not reply.
2007-11-08 07:58:58 · update #2
If he has given you reason to question him before you have an issue - if this is just a coincidence you need to learn to trust your man.
2007-11-08 07:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Evan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may just be friends NOW, but who's to say what might be coming in the near future...
Tell you husband that you want to have a party, BBQ or some other kind of friendly gathering of pfriends and include the women on your list of people to invite. What's his reaction at this news?
Call and invite the women yourself. If they have the guts to show up, watch your husband from a distance and see how he interacts with them.
You can also Google the numbers; maybe more info is available.
2007-11-08 15:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by DJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about why you have a trust issue with him that you go through his belongings? That is not good for you, him or your marriage. What is the point of feeling sick to your stomach if you find something? A phone number dose not mean that he is cheating. He could have girls numbers under a mans name in his phone. What are you going to do call every number to see who answers? I can assure you that if your husband wants to cheat on you and knows you go through his things he would not have left the phone number in there as he would be covering his tracks.
If you have to live your life checking up on him might want to rethink the marriage.
2007-11-08 15:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, before you start jumping to conclusions. Ask yourself what you were doing rumaging around his belongings in the first place for?
Second, who is she? If she is a girl at the office who got too drunk at a cocktail party and made a pass, which he might have slapped down, then you have nothing to worrry about.
Try talking it over without accusing him of something which he may not have even done. In the event he was a bad boy, talk about that too. Sometimes not talking is worse than bad talking.
With kind regards....Finn.
2007-11-08 15:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Finn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do a little more investigating because the samething happend to me,My husband was in Iraq a few years ago and when he came home i went through his army things and found a little piece of paper with this chicks # and her name and started calling her and one day she picked up the phone and i confronted her about this and she told me that he would call her and write her all the time.So If i were you i would dig deeper.
2007-11-08 16:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husbands that are in love with their wife don't keep other women's phone numbers unless it is a business contact. But I might be wrong. That is just the way I am. I know there are married women that have Men's numbers and they claim they are just friends.
2007-11-08 15:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by Dave G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your reading to much into it. Everyone says.... He's a liar... Give him a chance, he might tell the truth... Maybe your looking for the easy way out...
It's always said... That the one who accuses the other first... is cheating.... Be careful, ask questions, check into it before you accuse him... He may leave because of your jealousy an insecurity.
2007-11-08 16:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Petunia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask if they are still friends and tell him that if they are it needs to end immediately. You have to decide whether you believe him and whether you think it's okay for him to have female friends. Be clear with him and let him know what you need and how it makes you feel to find this stuff.
2007-11-08 15:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Deanrijo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a lying *sshole...and is up to no good...
Being that she doesn't answer your calls or text messages...I would say that she and your husband are doing the deed.....A "friend" would have no reason to not respond to you...unless you are cussing her out on the phone or sending nasty messages...
2007-11-08 15:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is full of $hit. I would let him know that your trust for him has just gone out the window, and if he's not careful he will soon follow.
2007-11-08 15:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by diablo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋