well one day i was printing out something off the computer and an E-mail printed.. i thought it was for my dad so i gave it to him.. it turned out that it was to my mom from this man who she is friends with.. but he likes her.. and long story short my parents are getting a divorce.. is that my fault??
2007-11-08 12:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO! It's your mom's fault for not honoring her vows.
2007-11-08 12:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As a married woman with teenagers I think with I can answer this and be confident that Im right on track when I say that no this is not your fault! Im guessing this marriage was having major issues way before you showed your dad the printed E-mail, and if they were lets say, in a strong marriage, they would be able to get past a e-mail from a man who likes your mom, so stop worrying, you did nothing wrong!
2007-11-08 12:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No it's one of these things that happens when a parent cheats. It's lies filled excuses,along with
emotional stress on everyone.It was just a matter of time till she would have be caught.But i think
you should talk to her and not judge her.There's
two sides to relationship. It could be that they just
got caught up in a close friendship.A wife needs
to be told by a husband that he loves her.It makes
it so when a sweet talking friend.make her want
to enjoy what she needs.
This true in any love relation ship.SO GIVE YOUR
MOM A CHANCE,YOU OWE HER THAT MUCH.
She will always be your mother,and love you.
2007-11-08 12:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that's no longer something to do with you Your dad would have a undertaking with somebody new getting into into your life today for the reason which you're some thing sturdy for him that he loves and cares for deeply. He needs to guard you., regardless of in case you're an grownup. He nevertheless doesnt choose for you injury. What your mom did has no longer something to do with you. She chosen to stay quiet . while she ought to of advised him. lower back she concealed some thing from him. As married couples we can't disguise issues while it somewhat is significant as that's what rips issues aside. as quickly as we start to disguise what we expect of can injury those we like. by using fact the longer issues stay secret the extra injury they'd reason. often times people attempt to make issues artwork out for see you later they forget what they as quickly as felt for the different. they only stay at the same time without love. i understand for my section I somewhat have a large difficulty with have faith and admire while it contains adult adult males , exceedingly. As i've got been injury with the aid of maximum the adult adult males in my life that i've got understand . different than my dad. Even my husband has finished issues that injury me. in simple terms as i've got finished some issues that injury him. we've been waiting to artwork previous it. yet there continues to be a sting there. as to what got here approximately and the questions of will it ensue lower back, if so how can we cope with it?. All i'm able to do is go away it with God on those situations. yet understand this riff they have are no longer from you or your siblings.
2016-10-15 13:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not your fault in the least bit.Your mom shouldn't have been with another guy in the first place.
2007-11-08 12:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by flavagirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was going to happen no matter what. If they are getting a divorce it is probably for a lot more issues other than the email.
2007-11-08 12:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by thebrick 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A divorce between your parents has nothing to do with you. The unfortunate thing is that it will still affect you.
2007-11-08 12:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by John R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not your fault at all. This decision was based on something between your parents. They did it. Not you.
2007-11-08 12:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by copswife134 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, it's your Mother's. Blaming yourself is a waste of time. Let the blame fall where it should.
2007-11-08 12:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No Honey it was just a honest mistake. They weren't happy anyway if she is emailing other men.
2007-11-08 12:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Pearl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋