receiving threats?

Question

just broke off with a married man,now he threathens to go up my house n talk to my dad,demand money that he used to help me,its less than 2000 dlrs,he knows i m very afraid of my dad,what should i do?

Answer 1

Threaten back. Tell him you're calling his wife if he doesn't quit bothering you.

Then learn your lesson. Don't date married men, no matter what they say. "Going through a divorce", "She doesn't understand me" and those other lies aren't the same as a single man. And any man who would cheat on his wife is going to turn out to be a loser anyway.

If he doesn't stop bothering you, you can always get a restraining order against him. The fear of violence is enough to get a temporary order.

Answer 2

He is black mailing you.
You need to go down to the police station.
Talk to an officer and tell him that what you are saying is confidential. Explain to him EXACTLY EVERY DETAIL of what is going on.
Let the police handle it.
If he gave you the money without an expectation of repayment, if you are under age, or simply if there was no signed agreement for repayment........... you dont owe him a dime.
He cannot make you pay back the money. If you were in a relationship with him and he gave you money... that is a gift.
You have no legal obligation to pay that money back.
Dont worry, just go to the police and ask them to be discreet.

You may consider getting a restraining order against him as well that includes your home in it. That way he can be arrested if he comes near you.

Stay away from married men... they are super bad news.

Make sure that he knows that the moment he talks to your Father, looks at your Father, or even thinks about trying to make trouble for you... that you will tell his wife every gorey detail of your affair with him.

Maybe you will even post all the details on craigslist.com so EVERYONE can see. That way not only his wife, but his children, boss, extended family, neighbors, the whole community can see what he did. That he likes to hunt for little girls who cannot defend themselves against grown men.

Sounds like a real winner. This guy is a joke.

Answer 3

As far as your dad goes... don't worry about it. And DO NOT talk to this guy anymore. If he tells your dad, your dad might kick his *** or tell his wife. And if he does tell your dad, just say he's lying. Tell your dad he pursued you and pursued you and you weren't interested so now he's trying to be a jerk. Unless you know for a fact this guy has proof ya'll slept together.
And as far as the threats go, this is called blackmail/extortion. I'd call the police if I were you. That will fix his little red wagon, all right. Then his wife will find out, he'll be arrested, maybe go to jail. That's what I'd do. People who take rejection this badly can get violent. I'd just break off all communication with him and I'd probably call the police. You don't know what he might do. Above all, no matter how much you may want to, you should NOT talk to him anymore. These type of scenarios are how people get killed.

Answer 4

It depends on the seriousness of it. He might just be upset because you broke it off and now he's throwing an adult tantrum. If it gets serious, like bodily harm, stalking etc...call the police. That automatically starts a paper trail. If you have to, tell your dad. I would be more afraid of the ex than my own dad, you know? If the police have to get involved, then he knows you're serious and he could face big consequences if he wants to continue with his behavior. By today standards, $2000 isn't a lot, but if it's owed, it's owed. Good luck!

Answer 5

You had an affair with a married man took his money then dumped him now your scared daddy will find out his lil princess is NO angel? lmao sorry thats funny and cute.

Go tell your dad what you did and take what comes cuz this scuz bucket you were blowing is going to destroy you and wait till his wife finds out whoa your in for a bad ride.

Sorry thats life when you play with fire you get burnt.

Answer 6

1. Tell your dad the truth befor he does.
2. Find a way to pay him back the money he gave you
3. Stay away from married men.

Those relationships go nowhere and you were probably looking for a man to replace the relationship you should have had with your dad. "Father Figure". If they are both stern enough to have you worried about their actions...they appear to be alike.....

Answer 7

I think he is just trying to scare you besides, I would tell him that if he tells your dad that you will tell his wife. I really think he is bluffing and trying to scare you. How old are you? If you are under 18 then he has committed statuatory rape. I don't have to lecture on the disadvantages of running around with married men. Learn from this and NEVER get involved with another married man.

Answer 8

for one you shouldn't of been with a married man.for two you sound like you may be a minor so therefor you and him broke the law.be honest with your dad and tell him about it.if the guy harrasses you call the police.be smarter next time you pick a boyfriend.i would be more afraid of the wife.take it from a wife.honey you don't even want to go there.

Answer 9

Are you a minor? Maybe point out to him that HE should be afraid of your Dad too? Go see a counselor at school or something, they should be able to give you advice for your area that is attainable. If you're afraid of your Dad, maybe someone needs to be protecting you from him too. Get help, even if you aren't married to this man it's still domestic violence.

Answer 10

I feel that you should talk to your dad about this b4 the guy goes and start a scene. No matter what happen, I believe your dad is supportive of you.