Do you think people that cheat, end up in a solid relationship with the person that they have been cheating with in the first place or does the relationship not last?
2007-11-08 17:53:53 · 19 answers · asked by xxaveragejoexx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well does a woman that cheats with a man that is known to cheat on his girlfriend, have a chance at being in a serious relationship with this man? And does the female usually look back at her past relationship if the man that she was dating was a good man?
2007-11-08 18:10:05 · update #1
No one with a brain actually believes that a cheater will suddenly "see the light" & stop cheating, anyone who does is just delusional.
By the thumbs down I got, I'm thinkin I offended some habitual cheaters out there.
No matter how you look at it it's got to always be there at the back of your mind. Wouldn't you always wonder? Even a little bit?
2007-11-08 17:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by irmaynerds 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Do Cheating Relationships Last
2016-11-01 07:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal opinion, the Universal Law is very powerful and the marriage or relationship will last depends on a couple. If he or she cheated in a marriage then in the end some couples end up being alone while others survive and have strong relationship. The cheating that he or she creates would wounded deeply in his or her own partner souls. As a matter of fact, the impact of the affair will hurt the partner so badly. I myself believe in Karma, Whatever a person done badly to other will have a negative impact to his or her in this lifetime and depends upon his good deed that a person did in his last life. For an example,The marriage or relationship survive will depend upon the couple about how much they want to save this marriage. At the same token the relationship that will not last since one partner can not trust other because, the trust is broken. I do not see much hope for the couple to go on. It is very sad thus the strong couple who forgive each other will survive. However, the weak one will not. I myself wonder why people cheat in the first place, and everyone knows what is the consequence aftermath. I really do not understand this lust feeling that a person jumps his or her soul into an affair, and then pretending as nothing happens and continues having multiple relationship with 2 persons at a 2 difference places. By the way, I really feel sick at my stomach, and hope people learn from your question.
2007-11-08 19:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not a black and white question, so each situation is going to be different. I would say that if the relationship was started out of some sleazy affair where one or both had zero regard for the relationship they were already in, then the answer is it will absolutely will not last. Now how about a relationship that starts from an affair where one or both were one or the other was in a relationship that was arranged, loveless, abusive, etc. or simply lacked the chemistry that led up to that affair? It could work, but like any other relationship both still have to work at the relationship to make it a strong one.
2007-11-11 11:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every ones different. Its all in where they are in their life, how much they have learned and ultimately what they want in their life at that time. If there is a strong connection helping increase and strengthen the trust I would say you could have a chance but to me it seems that you both are just a bunch of cheaters, and you both know it so I doubt you will have enough respect and trust to make the relationship work. But if you really care and don't want to cheat you never know unless you try! good luck to you, and remember when you cheat you are most likely crushing someone heart.
2007-11-08 18:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by yessca333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do, some dont
Some people cheat because the person they were cheating with just we're for them, and it was a one time thing. Others cheat because they were habitual cheaters to start with and it's just something they do.
There is no clear, solid answer to this question.
2007-11-08 17:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the second relationship will struggle with trust issues. People who cheat are immature, as are the people they cheat with. Both have baggage in the way of emotional and developmental challenges. I would suggest therapy before marriage for this couple. Oftentimes, the second marriage breaks up due to stress and strain over ex and children. It's just a huge challenge with the odds stacked against it.
2007-11-08 18:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by gma 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, "cheating" does not have anything to do with a sexual act but instead an alliance, friendship and mutual admiration. Under those conditions, I am more apt to believe a solid relationship has already been formed and therefore would last.
2007-11-08 18:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by The Evolution of T. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on why they were cheating on the one they left... if they cheated bc they were over that relationship and the cheating was premeditated, then they will cheat again, bc the are not mature enough to be honest and break it off before it comes to that...
2007-11-08 17:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does...started dating my hubby 13yrs ago, got married 7 yrs ago and both have been faithful ever since marriage ...so the term once a cheater always a cheater is NOT true!! Our marriage is vry strong (we have our bad days) but cheating does not play a role in our marriage!!
I was a big cheater b4 I met my hubby...My hubby was a big cheater... We got together and he played around and I played around...it gets old and u have to make a decision as u get older how u wanna live ur life...the decision we made was to stop the crap and love each other and its has been that way... he's my life and I'm his and we don't want any1 else but each other now!
2007-11-08 18:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋