How can we raise our children?

Question

if Im Muslim and he's Christian? I want to raise them to have very close relationships with GOD, keep him 1st and all thats in between, but how can we go about it w/o confusing them?? (I'm talking unborn children, so we're starting from birth)

Answer 1

Well you can't raise unborn children, they are going to have to be born first.

Seriously though, I think the answer is very clear. The Qu'ran makes it pretty clear that women are supposed to be subservient to the man. So if you are a true Muslim, you will do what your husband decides.

"And they (women) have rights similar to those (of men) over them in kindness, and men are a degree above them. Allah is Mighty, Wise."

2:228

Answer 2

well this is exactly what happen to me . i happen to be a christain and my husband is amuslim and the first year of our marriage there is arguments that i use to go church and come late and on friday if i want to go to vigil he will insist that i won't go after we have our first child he did not allow me to carry the child to the church and before i know what is happnig my house has turn to something else and we don't use to have qaurell before . but the day i made up my mind to join him ingoing to mosque we experice peace back in my house and he let me realise that to be a wife you need to be in unity with your husband so that the children won't have two different thinking about their God. And again if you do this it shows a kind of been submisive to your husband try it .it works both of you have to be doing one religion either christian or muslim because this will definitely refect on your childern. Thy Lord will see yo throug.

Answer 3

Oh. This topic is huge to me! Ok! My mother is Catholic, my father is Penacostle and my sister is Atheist. Now I was raised with all these different beliefs and everyone trying to push their religion onto me. But it turns out that even being forced to church and to read the bible I felt a strong spiritual attachment to being a Wiccan. That was my choice and ultimately it will be your child's choice. Most parents won't except that (and I know this because my entire family threw a fit when I told them my decision) but you must respect that choice.

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-Good Luck! and Bless It Be

Answer 4

Introduce them to both religions. When they are old enough to know the difference, explain that you and your husband have two different religions, and explain the beliefs of each. Let them experience both, and tell them that when they are older, they can make their own decision about which religion they would like to be.

Answer 5

how. throught love and traching them there.s one god . my opion?