LOVE
BEST FRIENDS
COMPATIBILITY EMOTIONALLY PHYSICALLY MENTALLY
BEING ONE SOUL TWO BODIES
2007-11-08 18:55:41
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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girls are usually ready for marriage and commitment way way before guys. and you can't make a guy want to get married...there just is no such thing. and on one can make a generalization about what makes a guy or a girl 'marriage material' it really depends from person to person and from one couple and the kind of relationship and understanding they have as compared to another. but just some common sense pointers be it a girl or guys he/she should be mature, should know who they are, be ready for a serious commitment emotionally, mentally AND financially!! love is a great thing but it don't put food on ur table clothes on ur back nor does it pay ur bills. Both individuals should be secure about who they are and should have achieved what they want in life from their own individual selves, meaning they should be someone on their own, by themselves and in themselves. they should be their own definition, their personality, their career, their likes and dislikes and goals, ambitions and expectations should be their own and not dependent upon his/her partner. you can't tell yourself or another person that you or he/she is ready for marriage or is or isn't marriage material you just have to 'feel' that way. and some people take longer than others to be ready... especially emotionally. No matter how much thought anyone puts into answering this question unfortunately there is no accurate answer. and some times ....well... a lot of times one person in a relationship is way ahead of the other, and thats ok. you just either have to wait till the other person catches up or if you feel and think they are not going to then you move on and try to find yourself someone who is on the same page emotionally and mentally as you are, but you can't make someone think about marriage and get them to be committed...thats just not right because you may be able to force or push someone into a commitment but u wouldn't be able to keep him there for long. let ur heart guide you and let his guide him...till both are in unison on the same path.good luck!
2016-04-03 03:22:09
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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just the decision if I can see myself with her long-term. Do we like doing a lot of the same things together, and finally do I feel happy with her.
What makes a girl non-marriage material. I was dating a woman for 4 years, living togehter the last two while we were both in grad school. We broke up about six months after grad because:
- she didn't want to come to my graduation
- when my father was very ill, she refused to come and visit him. I didn't care if she went into the hospital room to see him, I just needed her support
2007-11-08 18:32:12
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answer #3
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answered by CHARLES R 6
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If you are proud of her and proud to be with her, happy when you're together and miss her when you're apart. Ask yourself if you can trust her, respect her opinions, laugh with her, cry with her, if you share the same values and goals, and if you are compatible. Can you imagine still being with her and loving her when she's seventy-five?? If yes, then you have marriage material.
2007-11-08 18:48:43
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answer #4
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answered by sunny1 3
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If she is a nice person who cares about other people, is funny, doesn't need someone else to make her happy, has a sense of proportion about life, isn't looking to take advantage of people.
2007-11-08 18:37:29
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answer #5
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answered by ketkonen 7
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what made me propose to my fiancee was not only her love and affection for me, but her love for God. for me that was the icing on the cake.
2007-11-08 18:30:24
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answer #6
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answered by Anonymous
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