want to know if anyone who has been in jail and witnessed people cheating on their girlfriends/wives with CO's or other staff members. is it possible for this to happen?
2007-11-10 17:20:03 · 13 answers · asked by Rozie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is possible and does happen alot more than it is reported. If you suspect that this type of behavior is going on please report it to the Chief of Sheriff of that jail. It is very wrong and very dangerous for that type of behavior to be going on
2007-11-10 17:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by rene1695 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend Jimmy is a CO. The male COs get with the female inmates all the time, if they're dumb enough to let a convict have something over their heads for the rest of their careers. The female COs typically do not fraternize with inmates but it's happened (very rarely.) But if this is your husband in jail you're talking about, the least of your troubles is worrying about him cheating. They occasionally "bat for the other team," as I've also seen posted here but it's rare because Jimmy says they turn the lights or the hose on them when they see that going on. That happens when they're in prison or in jail for a VERY long time. Or they're gay in the first place. He told me they aren't supposed to do it, but the inmates pretty much just jerk off in the bathroom or in the bunks and that's their extent of sexual entertainment.
2007-11-10 18:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all prisons are "rough" where you have to either be tough and be a person someone is afraid of, or be the person they all get their satisfaction from. That is a huge stereotype about prisons, and it really depends on where a person is incarcerated to know if that is the case. However, it is possible for someone to be cheated on physically while their partner is in jail or prison. There are cases that CO's are engaging in relationships with inmates. There are also cases where it happens between inmates.
2007-11-10 18:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been in jail,but yes it is possible that it can happen even with other prisoners. Where there is a will there is a way.
2007-11-10 17:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by movingon@31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen anywhere and that scares me because my boyfriend is in county prison right now and I always ask if any of the CO's are gettin friendly with him. He laughs and tells me their all old so I dunno as for another guy he's a homophobe and don't like gays. I don't think anyone would try to rape him since it's not state prison and he's a big guy. He's 6'7" and all muscle. Think you these factors and ask yourself the question again.
2007-11-10 18:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bxbabifinest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but usually with other dudes. Even straight guys bat for the other team in jail. You either kick someone's *** the first day or become someone's b * tch. That's how it works.
2007-11-10 17:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not impossible but unlikely in 97% of all jails. It does happen on rare ocassions.
2007-11-10 17:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it
if they can cheat when they're not locked up
they can cheat when they are locked up
with who?
CO's, nurses, drivers, other inmates g/f's friends
ad's in the papers
and of course the g/f they were cheating with before
he got locked up
go with your gut feeling and never question yourself again
2007-11-10 17:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Peter M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been in jail..I haven't witnessed but I understand that if you shower with "Bubba" you don't want to drop the soap otherwise you'll be "Bubba's" mate.
2007-11-10 21:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the old do not drop the soap saying, it can happen.
2007-11-10 19:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋