A couple of days ago I met a dude at work telling me this story about himself. He is about to get married to a brunet woman, but he says a few years ago, he even did not think of them and all the women he dated were blonde. He is now a little scared....that what if this will happen again....and, for example he switches back to blondes or whatever else.
He says he has a married friend who now wants to be with Asian girls...he want a divorce his white wife.
This is a little weird because when you are in love with someone, look is ONLY part of it, but on the other hand, it is not nothing.
Has this ever happened to you people? If so, how did you handle it? If your taste changes, especially after a serious relationship or marriage, you just step backward, or try to convince yourself that what that counts at the end of the day is inner quality and personality...
2007-11-10 18:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
looks are superficial. for example we all get old and will not be as good looking as we were at 20. what will you do then, leave your spouse and go after younger people. that is stupid. so if he is attracted to her sufficiently than he shouldn't worry that it will change. maybe he just has cold feet. however if he is not attracted to her enough to marry her, than he shouldn't. it should be very simple.
2007-11-10 18:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this has never happened to me and I find all of this to be absurd. A marriage based on looks isn't going to last at all. I'm sure you know this...
Think about it, say that guy that likes Asian chicks divorces his wife and marries an Asian girl. Sure, his fantasy will be fulfilled for a little while, but as the years go on, then what? He'll have a new fantasy. Looks fade. When the lady turns 40 and she's not that "hot, young" Asian girl she once was... then what?
Those marriages are doomed.
2007-11-10 18:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cochy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it hasn't.
Gettin married isn't like having a favourite colour or food. It's a commitment, supposed to be for life, through all the ups and downs. That married friend sounds like a wishywashy type that probably will never be truly satisfied.
2007-11-10 19:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you marry, you vow to stay with your spouse, for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, until death do you part. God only gives one reason acceptable for divorce and that is adultery. No other reason is acceptable.
2007-11-10 18:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has abandonment issues and is afraid to commit.
2007-11-10 18:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋