Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2007

My wife will no longer do anything without me. I have a life of my own, I go out with friends to a bar or something usually once a week. Her friends call her to do things and if it is not on the night I am going out she will not go. Her friends are getting tired of it and no longer call. I have asked her several times to go out and do something and she never does. Recently she has triend to make me feel guilty for having fun without her. I take her out usually once a week to see a band or out to eat and she still gets upset if I go out without her once in a while. She is smothering me and I need help.

2007-11-07 04:47:14 · 22 answers · asked by Bob B 1

I have a small problem... I love my husband with all my heart!!! But his kids drive me crazy! They lack respect, responsibility, disapline, and manners. Course it's not their fault, and I would like to believe that its not ours either. I would love to point all the blame on their mother. Thats not right either though. They are only 6 and 8 but I know it will get worse before it gets better. They live with their mom 99% of the time. So who gets the blame? How do I fix this to make our lives eiser?!-- HELP!

2007-11-07 04:41:19 · 28 answers · asked by Christine B 1

I usually stick with coffee...and sometimes a healthy little low fat muffin bar.....my stomach herts right now =[

RARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

what do you normally eat

When Im on vacation I eat spaghetti for breakfast, Im not really a breakfast person.......[sept fer bakin] mmm

2007-11-07 04:24:03 · 19 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

If you were a guy, would you stay married to your wife 2 extra months so she could have a surgery (abortion?) Oh and she would be the one filing for the divorce.

Not about me! Asking for a friend!

2007-11-07 04:05:14 · 36 answers · asked by MuñecaBarbie 3

2007-11-07 04:01:53 · 19 answers · asked by Tee 3

My wife asked if I could make a better effort to wiping down the table after dinner and with cleaning out the sink. I agreed and made the request that she stop using the sink as a garbage bowl when she cooks.

The thing is she took offense to my request, which I thought was reasonable. I find it very disgusting to pile up egg shells, meat packaging and misc pieces of vegatables in the sink which will have to be removed by hand.

I just looked at her thinking "Wow she is acting like a spoiled brat."

So do you think she was right to act the was she did?

2007-11-07 03:53:55 · 28 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

2007-11-07 03:38:34 · 19 answers · asked by halfasscoonass 1

The divorce was 11 years ago. We've been married for 8 and moved twice. Mail addressed to her is still finding us. It's mostly metered junk mail. How in the world is it finding us and is there any way to stop it? Can we throw it out or do we have to send it to her.

2007-11-07 03:33:44 · 11 answers · asked by Gloria R 2

I like this baked sushi its like a 'snow crab' MMMMMMMMM OMGOSH I HAVE TO GET SUM TODAY SOOOOOOOOOOOO O OOOOOOOOO O O O GoooOOOod!!!

2007-11-07 03:29:49 · 16 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

Does this woman sound like the "distribution of assets" were fair? or is she just a little bitter.....?

"1999 Divorce Court he got to keep his 19year old tramp and her 3 kids and I won the house and all contents on 10 acres of land, a pick up truck , a car, 1/2 of what was in the bank,$500 a month alimony for 5 years,and my part of a pension that he pays in to out of his payroll ( ha ha ), "O" and I got all the buttons off of every piece of clothing he owned.

As far as I know I'm still wining because the more he makes at work ( and he makes a lot) the more that goes in to that pension for my retirement."

2007-11-07 03:29:11 · 13 answers · asked by Zipperhead 6

Ok here's my dilema: My BF and I live together and split the bills 50/50 except credit cards and car payments. Well we both have checking accounts but HE doesn't have checks which he needs for his one credit card payment online. Well last month I told him I'll pay it and he paid me back, but yesterday I was balancing my account and noticed he made a payment but it came out of my account and he didn't tell me or give me the money. He couldn't have said he didn't know because you have to verify the info. on the account before submitting payment and he also needs a check # before processing. So my question is how upset should I be about this and what do I say to him?

2007-11-07 03:28:34 · 12 answers · asked by mickey 2

I found a blunt of marijuana in his car. I know in the past before we even got married he has been doing it and thought he was about to quit. I have never approved of this from him but he seems to get away with it. He said that for sure he would stop smoking. I ended up throwing it away and crushing it and he insisted that I'd give it back to him to through away himself. He also was in denial for a bit lying saying it wasn't his etc etc. He thinks I"m dumb but I smelled it in the car and looked into his ashtray to find that crap. I used his car yesterday and he went out to the store later when we got home. I know that he went to smoke it during that time because it wasn't there when I had the car. How do you deal with this? What would you do about this situation?

2007-11-07 03:26:41 · 19 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4

WELL WE STARTED OFF REALLY GOOD GOT ALONG PERFECT NEVER FGHT OR ANYTHING EVER AND IF WE STARTED TO I WOULD STOP IT FROM HAPPENING ALL THE TIME WELLOW HERE WE ARE OVER A YEAR LATERND HE'S TALKING LIKE HE DIDN'T WANT A RELAIONSHIP AND HE ASKED METBE WITH I TO HIM WHEN WE MET I DIDN'T WANT ABF AND HE BEGGED ME TILL I GAVE IN WELL I KNOW SHOULDN'T HAVE BUT I TOLD HIM AEW STORIES ABOUT ME HAVING SEX WITH OTHER PEOPLE WHAT HAPPENED WITH THEM B HIM AND I WERE TOGETHER LIK I HAD A THREESOME AND A COUPLE OF OTHER THINGS WELL NOW HE SAYS E CAN'T HAVE SEX WITH ME B CAUSE HCAN'T LOOK AT ME OR KISS ME BECAUSE HE INKS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE TOUCHING ME WHILE HE'S DOING IT SO HE DOESN'WANT TO HAE SEX AT ALL BECAUSE N HE WOULD BE ******* ME AND THAT'S NOT WHAT HE WANTS HE WANS TO BE WITH A GOOD GIRL THAT HE CAN MAKLOVE TO I TOLD HIM AIADE ALOT OF MITAKES WHEN WE FIRST MET AND NOW HE'S HOLDING THEM AGAINST ME HE KNEW THIS B4 WE STARTED WHY IS IT PROBLEM NOW I THINK IT'S AN EXSCUSE WHAT DO U ALL THINK?

2007-11-07 03:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by ANOTHER CRAZEY CHICK 2

I have a hard time geting my husband to give back in terms of affection what I give. Is that normal

2007-11-07 03:16:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have best friend who is married. yesterday her husband went to overseas and today she is asking me if i am free on sat........

she is asking me out for a drink........

but we kind of like each other.....

any advice

2007-11-07 03:13:39 · 26 answers · asked by Khairul A R 2

Could you forgive your spouse if he was an otherwise decent man and then you found out he had cheated on you and had carried on a phone relationship with the woman for more than a few months?

2007-11-07 03:06:17 · 28 answers · asked by missapparition 4

My BF is very sweet and caring, but much jealous im tired of this behavior. Im neither jealous nor possesive , I know he has what it takes to change this but it has pass 8 months and the change is way too slow for me, i love him but im tired...I know what i should do but I also know in my heart that one day he would make and excellent husband....do I follow my heart or my common sense? I do believe that love sometimes com with sacrifices but Im not a dreamer or a love starving kind of person which also makes me look heartless..and make me feel like a unsensitive *****.... i beat myself up for not feeling what a normal female would when they are dating or in a relashionship, I am tired of always thinking about me me me and i don't do this in purpose I just do.......what do i do?

2007-11-07 03:02:11 · 15 answers · asked by nica mami74 2

I am a 38 year old female and the past month all of a sudden all I can think of is having sex. My body seems to be ready to explode. I am in a bad marriage and considering divorce (no do not try to talk out of, just trying to figure out how), so sex with my husband is not an option (especially since the thought of him makes me cringe). I have always been a "good girl", but right now.... well... Is this hormones or what?

2007-11-07 02:51:03 · 15 answers · asked by YankeeSouthernMama 2

My ex sees our daughter maybe for 3 hours per week. Our daughter is 6 and all she wants is for him to pay attention to her. He is now starting to date his ex girlfriend who is married, but going through a seperation, not to mention, her oldest son is more than likely my ex's. Her husband has NO IDEA!!
I think this is just plain ridiculous, not to mention he still owes me 2500 is child support, but is helping her with an attorney to get the divorce.
I have gotten along with all of his ex girlfriends. I just feel that our daughter should not be pushed into a relationship with this girl. For the 3 hours he sees her per week, I think he could hang out with her alone, not with his girlfriend there. He wants to have his girlfriend and her two kids (remember one might be his) move in with him. Am I wrong for thinking this will CRUSH our daughter? What if she gets close or in the future has a crush on her son...HELLO, that could be her brother!! I feel like I am deceiving her!!!

2007-11-07 02:42:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a wonderful girl I've known for all of my life. We've only been dating for about 2.5 months.

For the first month I had major infatuation with her, since then it has gone down dramatically and somewhat turned into comfortableness. Sometimes I question my feelings for her because with every other girl I've dated the Infatuation has lasted a few months at least, but of course none of those relationships worked out.

When im away from her a lot of the time it scares me but I can feel the love growing inside me for her. When im with her im nervous half of the time because I think that im scared to fall in love with her in fear of what im getting myself into.

It also does scare me sometimes that the infatuation phase has somewhat faded away. Sometimes I miss that high of feeling constantly.

My past relationships have been terrible. I'm trying not to let them interfere with what I could have with her.

I believe im in love sometimes, and other times im unsure.

2007-11-07 02:41:16 · 4 answers · asked by Rider1536 1

My wife wants/is going to go to medical assisting college. From everyting it seems I read and ask(on here) the colleges are not very good and the jobs are hard to get and dont pay very much, I have tried to give subtle opinions on what I think. But she is really exited about going. Should I sit back and hope it works out, Or should I try and discourage her? Im kinda lost on this one

2007-11-07 02:36:36 · 30 answers · asked by shawnp089 2

under the escort section. It is for a service like an online chat room where people call for phone sex. Not with a woman who is paid but with other people who call in. Has anyone used a service like this before

2007-11-07 02:28:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-07 02:27:10 · 16 answers · asked by Sue DeNym 2

I have a problem though its not yet a problem but I could see in the future my son would be asking for his real father, how on earth would I explain our situation, that me and his father can no longer be together that we are separated already and we have our own lives. I am afraid of the future questions, that makes me cry alone at night. I hope you could give some advice. For I really dont want to hurt his feelings but i know he would still be hurt but he is really surrounded by love and by my whole family and i am always there. thanks for your advice

2007-11-07 02:23:04 · 19 answers · asked by Maria 3

2007-11-07 02:12:35 · 39 answers · asked by kelsueuk 1

my husband and i dont have any kids but there is a lot of housework that never gets done and i really need his help. i stay at home (usually im out with friends) he leaves at about 6 am in the morning for work and comes back at 8 then he sleeps for two hours and go goes out for another job as security. i been trying to get him to help out around the house when he is here for the two hours and on the weekends he just sleeps usually how can i get him to help out more?

2007-11-07 02:05:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 7 years (10 years into relationship) and it's been hell. My spouse and I have had the strangest relationship, we have been physically seperated off and on for many years and keep trying at it (occasional sex), however I am constantly being accused of cheating when in fact I am not. He purposefully says demeaning and hurtful things everytime we do see each other. I find myself wanting out desperately. Quite frankly, I'm tired of this so-called realtionship and don't have any convenient answers. I need help, any suggestions?

2007-11-07 02:02:04 · 33 answers · asked by mommiemaide 1

2007-11-07 01:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by ameeker 3

Just trying to find out if any one heard of divorcing someone by placing an add in the newspaper, if so, how and what happens after the add is placed?

2007-11-07 01:48:11 · 7 answers · asked by Khamil F 1

my husband moved our family to ingersoll ontario last year and i have no friends and he just recently got laid off and now he is working his other job but he is not making enough money to pay our morgage and he is thinking about going back to long haul trucking and i have no one here that i can hang out with and i have no licence and i have three kids i have a 5 year old and a 15 month old and a 4 month old and all my family is up north and he wants me to stay down here while he goes long haul trucking i just don't think i could do it i will be lonley and bored what would you do if you were in my situwation i want to move back up north by my parents where i can have help

2007-11-07 01:47:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous