2007-11-07 04:01:53 · 19 answers · asked by Tee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe most people do, but the thrill comes in knowing you are a better person not to act on it! Avoid situations where you would be more tempted, also.
2007-11-07 04:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by dawnUSA 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I feel lucky in saying that I have never thought about being unfaithful. If married, I am in love and fully committed to my spouse and that is why I chose to marry. If there are thoughts of being unfaithful, did you make the right decision in marrying someone - shouldn't you have stayed single if you weren't going to commit totally to that person?
I know, thoughts and actions are two different things - thinking could be considered fantasizing. To me, however, thinking of being unfaithful is considering the action and lusting for someone besides your spouse. if you were content in your relationship, you wouldn't be interested in being unfaithful or even thinking about it.
I want my spouse to be totally faithful to me - if there is any interest in someone else, do me a favor and divorce me first - you can do what ever you wish to do when you are single again.
2007-11-07 05:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by debnm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although I am not married, I have been in a relationship for a long time and I have been torn a few times. My b/f doesn't always have alot of time for me due to his job... He did warn me of this when we started dating so I knew what I was getting into. If someone starts paying me the attention I crave, I start to think that the grass may be greener on the other side. But then I think of how good I have it and my thoughts of straying quickly disappear.
2007-11-07 04:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by jennyღ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, feelings for another yes, thoughts of being unfaithful never!
2007-11-07 05:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by MissE 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I've had thought of being unfaithful. I've had dreams of having wild passionate sex with other women than my wife. Imagining that I was caressing their legs. Touching their body. Exploring every part of them. Feeling their cool skin against mine. The excitement of the newness. The touch, taste and smell of someone new who wants to be wanted. Oh yes, I have thought about it. I've pictured myself sneaking away to experience the ecstasy of forbidden lust. Of grabbing her ankles. Of feeling her legs against my chest. Of running my hand along the sides of her body. To find the passion that I am denied.
Yeah, I've thought about it once or twice.
2007-11-07 04:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
every day. My husband works out of city and is basically abode a pair nights consistent with week. final week he have been given a message devoid of telling me - I have not have been given any concept if he have been given a "chuffed finishing". once I found out approximately it, he grew to alter into offended with me and extremely protecting (responsible). He additionally had a 365 days & a one million/2 long emotional affair with a former lover of his whilst we've been engaged, and lied approximately it. yet another female texted him "i admire you" and he informed me i replace into appearing immature by way of fact i replace into mad that a woman i wouldn't in any respect heard of replace into texting i admire you to my husband. He additionally has a little or no weiner, so small that i can't even sense him interior me. i think of roughly leaving him/dishonest every day.
2017-01-05 02:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by satya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and I've been married over 2 years now. Getting together with someone simply to have sex with them is about the least fun thing possible in my eyes.
2007-11-07 04:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well when your husband don't give you enough attention, affection, sex....after a while....
You automaticly try to get it somewhere else.... then you try to talk with him...usualy it get well for a while and come back....
talk again.... think again over the pasture....
lool
men are like kid you must repeat all the time lol ! Don't do it if you are really not happy, just quit...
2007-11-07 04:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i would have really got my wife one or two beautiful mistresses but she dumped me even before i could think of it. :(
no actually, she dumped me for some stupid reason and on the other hand i find a married girl hitting on me. i know i am quite vulnerable but am for sure not acting on it. i cannot imagine destroying something nice that was built over years over something stupid.
2007-11-07 04:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by bebe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course I've wondered what it would be like to be with another person, I think that's just human nature. I would never act on it though, I love my husband, my kids & would never do that to our family.
2007-11-07 04:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋