my husband and i dont have any kids but there is a lot of housework that never gets done and i really need his help. i stay at home (usually im out with friends) he leaves at about 6 am in the morning for work and comes back at 8 then he sleeps for two hours and go goes out for another job as security. i been trying to get him to help out around the house when he is here for the two hours and on the weekends he just sleeps usually how can i get him to help out more?
2007-11-07 02:05:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i tried leaving the house and leaving all the housework for him but he just gets angry i even left for weeks but it hasnt changed anything.
2007-11-07 02:07:03 · update #1
LoL this has to be a joke
So the guy works two jobs and you stay at home and you want him to do house work, FUNNY!
2007-11-07 02:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Zenkai 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok here goes .. I am not sure you are really going to like my answer to this question but here goes..
Number 1.. he works you stay at home and you dont have any kids. Why do you need his help??? You could have all this done yourself. Instead of going out with your Friends. I am a woman as well but I know if MY GUY worked 1 or even 2 jobs to my NONE than I would do all the housework without complaining.
So my opinion my not be your best answer but I am giving you no sympathy. Then you ask why he is asleep... lol Wake up sunshine he works his *** off while you go out and have fun.. when does he get to do this??? do your job take care of your man before he finds someone who will...
2007-11-07 10:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by wiserat36 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is working two jobs and you are a stay at home wife then I think that falls on you to do the majority of the housework. Marriage isn't meant to be a free ride for any one person.
Your other choice could be to get a job so that he only works one job. Then you can both share the housework and some much needed time together.
2007-11-07 10:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by herbal_cheeze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to offend you..but give him a break. It seems like hes working an awfully lot, while you stay at home or out with your friends. Understand why he doesn't want to clean..hes too tired from working 2 jobs and seems to always be on the go during the week. You can keep the place clean, and it shouldn't be that hard considering you dont' have kids. Cut him some slack, he is the bread winner here...show your man some love and understanding..
2007-11-07 10:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by melly 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are home, and he is the one working two jobs, seems to me that you should be doing ALL the house work anyway. You should be thankful that you have someone who lets you stay home while he brings home the bread. Get a job, then ask him for help. Otherwise, you need to take care of the house. I cant wait to see the other answers you get with this question. LOL
2007-11-07 10:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This must be a joke right. What did u have a maid at your house while you were growing up? Stop going out so much and lift a hand and help out around the house and stop spending all the money running around, Oh and grow up, Also when u have kids the house WILL be a hundred times worse so u better start learning how to bend over and pick stuff up!!
2007-11-07 11:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by mcconnellukcatfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay home all day and he is the only one bringing home the bacon, it should be YOU that does the housework. Give me a break, are you his child/dependent or his partner? If you're his partner then you have to do your part somehow, and if you're fortunate to have the luxury of not having a day job and running around with friends, the LEAST YOU CAN DO IS CLEAN THE HOUSE! You seem selfish!
2007-11-07 10:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Marina 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, even from a woman's point of view you're out of your mind. Your husband works two jobs and you don't work and hang out with your friends all day. If you want help, tell him he can quit one of his jobs and you'll get off your butt and start working so he doesn't have to work ALL the time. If that doesn't work for you, stop hanging with your friends so much and do some cleaning. Your husbands probably tired as hell from working so much to support you and your inability to work and just going out with friends.
2007-11-07 10:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by Marra's mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you serious or just lazy? is there anything you do? my hubby works from 7 to 7 and if he helps me out i feel guilty because i stay home with two girls and babysit another. you need to get off your a** if you don't want him to leave you for being a slob. if you didn't want responsibilities you shouldn't of gotten married. let him sleep think about how much he works and how much you work. if he helps out more i want to know where you got him and how you did it.
2007-11-07 10:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by 1monkey2butterflies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you would have more things done if you wouldnt spend so much time with your friends. he works two jobs ffs give him a break, he is supporting you after all. leaving home for weeks isnt a smart idea, how you try that again and wait until he changes the locks?
2007-11-07 10:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋