I have been seeing a wonderful girl I've known for all of my life. We've only been dating for about 2.5 months.
For the first month I had major infatuation with her, since then it has gone down dramatically and somewhat turned into comfortableness. Sometimes I question my feelings for her because with every other girl I've dated the Infatuation has lasted a few months at least, but of course none of those relationships worked out.
When im away from her a lot of the time it scares me but I can feel the love growing inside me for her. When im with her im nervous half of the time because I think that im scared to fall in love with her in fear of what im getting myself into.
It also does scare me sometimes that the infatuation phase has somewhat faded away. Sometimes I miss that high of feeling constantly.
My past relationships have been terrible. I'm trying not to let them interfere with what I could have with her.
I believe im in love sometimes, and other times im unsure.
2007-11-07 02:41:16 · 4 answers · asked by Rider1536 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Real love takes time to develop. Just take it slow and don't worry so much about whether or not you are in love. Enjoy the ride!
2007-11-07 02:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it just seems that you are unsure homie.
IF you have known this female for a long time as you say, you should just let her know this and tell her that you do not want to get hurt in a situation such as this one, this scares you.
It's ok, to feel the way you feel ese, it happens to "the best of us" I fell in love with my best friend, then she became my woman, then my son's mother, and she alomost became my wife, but this was not the case unfortunately.
I did this while I was still with another girl, it just felt like the right thing to do, I did this while thinking that it would not come back to haunt me, and let me tell you I was wrong. S does not want to be with me anymore, I do but this seems that it's not enough. Anyways, if you believe that this relationship is worth it, then go for it homie, and good luck to you.
2007-11-07 03:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Isai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is scary to pass that infatuation stage when you've never really known much beyond that. Everything seems so damned exciting at the start and then...well, it gets exciting in other ways.
It's exciting and scary to allow yourself to be known by someone else, and to get to know the other person intimately. It's exciting the moment you realise "I could be happy just spending time with her forever" and it's exciting and terrifying finally admitting to yourself that you would do anything to keep her and that she means the whole world to you.
All scary, all exciting. And all still to come ;)
2007-11-07 02:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by †®€Åç∫€ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try relaxing and just take this one day at a time. What is the rush???
2007-11-07 02:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋