What should i do???

Question

i have best friend who is married. yesterday her husband went to overseas and today she is asking me if i am free on sat........

she is asking me out for a drink........

but we kind of like each other.....

any advice

Answer 1

Well, does she kinda like you...or do you just kinda like her? She may be oblivious of you liking her. When my husband went overseas I went out with friends all the time (and did nothing with any of the guys i hung out with), if you are my best friend it would only seem right in me wanting to hang out with you for drinks. Keeping your days filled with friends and work is a great way to keep away the lonliness. Don't look to much into it, if she's your best friend she just probably wants your company. Just keep your pants on and have a good time. Don't do anything to jeopardize your friendship and if she starts anything funny...remember she is in a vulnerable state (and people lets not judge her), do you really want to take advantage of her when she's like that?

Answer 2

She's your best friend not your girlfriend!! If you can't go out and have a drink with her and NOT do anything or try anything with her then you shouldn't go!! Point blank stay away if you are just wanting to cause her to maybe do something you both will regret!

Answer 3

Look after your friends wife while he's gone take her places so she doesn't get lonely.. And give each other lots and lots of oral pleasure remember oral is not the same as intercourse or says Bill and Hillary Clinton so i guess as long as it's not Vaginal intercourse anything goes oral,anal, hand jobs are fine thank bill and hill for straighting that out for us..

Answer 4

I have been through the same situation. I did it and one thing led to another, if you know what I mean. It was fun while it lasted but later on her husband came back then that left me alone plus once you become intimate it is hard to become the type of bestfriends that you once were. You have to ask yourself is that worth it.

Answer 5

Stay away. Keep as far as you can trouble. she may not be your best Friend. How would you like it if your you where married and the same thing happen to you.

Answer 6

You should meet in a group setting or regretfully decline. You don't want to be the cause of marital problems or the reason a marriage ends.

Answer 7

I used to let out all the dirty laundry (I think cuz my laundry wasn't interesting enough) But I definately would tell this married women to ef off ... Rather, you really need to find someone worth your time...... How can you be friends with this women who is like that? All she prolly wants is money, afairs, and she obviously has no values in faith , loyalty, honesty, trust , etc etc...... If it sounds like a ho it is........

If your single, tell her you are going out with me I'm single.......And worth your time.........Tell her to find a hobby....
Seriously, though tell her that your busy........You are single and have no interst in her...That you 2 can talk and hang out but only when her husbands around .......She can go find girlfriends to hang on........Why does she want to hang on you when her hubby's not around.......UGGGHHH I could go on and on.............

Let me just add........I'm 34 (alil late in trying to find Mr. Right) but I wasn't ready earlier in my life....Now most of the good men out there are taken... By women who want to "Have MALE FRIENDS" and to be drinking and hanging out WHILE THE HUSBANDS GONE??? Gee I think I'll stay single....And continue not to trust my f/m friends........................

Answer 8

Go for the drink. Maybe she just wants someone to talk to.

If you are a true friend, it won't go any further than that.

Answer 9

If you think you can remain a good friend go for it.

If you think you are goin gto stoop her if you get half a chance back off.

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Answer 10

Advice about what? The woman is married. If she doesn't have sense enough to respect that, you certainly need to!