If you were a guy, would you stay married to your wife 2 extra months so she could have a surgery (abortion?) Oh and she would be the one filing for the divorce.
Not about me! Asking for a friend!
2007-11-07 04:05:14 · 36 answers · asked by MuñecaBarbie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He stayed with her 2 extra months so she could use his health insurance.
And SHE filed for the divorce, THEN asked for help with her "surgery"
2007-11-07 04:12:47 · update #1
She sounds selfish and awful.
He sounds caring and concerned.
Take care,
Troy
2007-11-07 04:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any child born during a marriage is assumed to be the responsibility of the husband. Even if he can prove its not.
Its to his benefit if he delays filing for divorce until she aborts, but, abortions are not expensive and waiting two more months makes it both more dangerous and more expensive.
If at all possible get the abortion as early as possible.
And make sure she has it, otherwise he will be paying for it the rest of his life, and they will be tied for life even after divorce, unless he forgets about the baby and yet another fatherless child will be brought into the world.
In cases like this abortion is the most sensible thing to do, as long as its done early.
2007-11-07 04:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why staying married would be a factor in whether or not she could receive the procedure. Is it an insurance issue? There should be ways to maintain coverage even through a divorce. Is the pregnancy a result of infidelity or something?
There is too little information to fairly answer your question. But, in general, I would say two months of ANYTHING to help a person you once loved enough to marry is very little to ask. I would stand on my head for two months if it meant helping someone I really cared about.
2007-11-07 04:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a difficult question, one big thing my answer would depend on is why is she choosing to have the abortion? What does he feel about it?
Is the child she is carrying the husband's?
Is there realistically any other alternative? -to both the abortion and the divorce?
Why is she divorcing him? Is it this a the convergence of bad circumstances or the result of an abusive relationship?
I presume she is using his medical insurance for the abortion -if not why does he have to stay married to her for another two months? What's in it for him?
2007-11-07 04:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by brianjames04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no description here about the relationship between this abortion and the marriage. Why are they getting divorced? Why the abortion? You are not really providing enough information to make a wise decision.
It does not matter whether it is about you or not. You must present the entire situation.
2007-11-07 04:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by organbuilder272 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if he were a real man, he'd not allow the abortion and have her take the child to full term. After the delivery, she can sign over any claim to the child and walk away. Maybe, she'll wander onto the interstate and have a semi abort her a**.
Sorry, but I can't stand women who are so self-centered that can't think beyond themselves. How can you love anyone who can not love her own child?
2007-11-07 04:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how u come to be in this situation for example is the baby the husbands dose he want children does he agree with abortion!
i think that if i was ur husband and i thought that u could cope with a child and there were no special resons for example pregnacey throught rape or ur un well physically or mentally id have to say no but there aer also lots of situations where i may say yes
2007-11-07 04:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats simple, the answer is no! the recovery after a aboortion is very short, walk in-walk out. Its the physologicy healing that could be in length. Staying together could creat more hate for each other, Say Bye, Bye.
2007-11-07 04:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mike B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion? Is that a question... ****, that's gonna open up the unnecessary flood gates. Anyway, this kind of crap shouldn't really be dealt with on Yahoo! It's a serious, adult situation and requires some grown up action, like figuring it out either yourself... or among those you trust, not a million dip shits who probably know nothing intricate about the situation. And yes... in answering this I acknowledge my status as dip ****.
2007-11-07 04:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by ruthaford_jive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while to dissolve a divorce. Abortion is not considered surgery and you will have to pay it on your own anyway, so your question holds no validity there.
2007-11-07 04:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by bonstermonster20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's far more to this, one cannot say just based on what you have told us. Why the abortion, why the divorce, why the extra two weeks?
2007-11-07 04:12:27 · answer #11 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋