Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2007

I believe on Sundays the wife should take the kids and go out for the day and leave the man alone to watch the games in peace or with his friends. Is this wrong?


other details: spend lots of other time with my family and my wife durring the week and on sat.

2007-11-07 01:45:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

IN TODAYS WORLD DO 1) WOMEN STAY AWAY FROM SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE & ONLY HAVE WITH THE 1 THEY GOIN TO GET MARRIED...OR DONT MIND IT EVEN IF 2) U GET IT BEFORE MARRIAGE AS LONG AS ITS GOOD AND FROM A GOOD GUY...IF UR ANSWER IS THE FIRST ONE SAY (1) AND IF THE SECOND ONE THEN SAY (2)

2007-11-07 01:42:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has told his mother (his parents have money) that we would like a treadmill for Christmas. I told him it would be nice to have one months and months ago. Mind you, we are broker than a joke, we have BILLS! I'm pregnant due december 30th, and we have very little for the new baby. I'm most likely going to have a repeat c-section. We have an 1100 square foot townhouse with no real room for a treadmill. Is it just me or is he basically asking his mother to buy him a really expensive gift and pretending that I want it? seeing as I won't even be able to use it for months after my baby is born?
It may even sound like I'm selfishly whining about not getting somethin I want from my husbands parents, but my real concern is that he wants to put this particular one on layaway, and put $200 of our dollars on it. We're about 8 and 1/2 months behind on all that we owe right now. what the hell? is he just totally in denial, or headed into some kind of early midlife crisis?

2007-11-07 01:17:43 · 10 answers · asked by tenpointsgirl 2

My husband and I have a very good relationship I'm a great wife to him I never did or will cheat on him I never even said as a joke but keep having dreams that i left him. He didn't say why i left him in his dream one time he said that he cheated on me in a dream and than I left him but other times he said I just left 'cause I didn't want be with him anymore. He makes me getup at 2am in morning telling me r you gonna leave me promise not too and I keep assuring him but is not working. Any ideas. We have being marrie a little over 2yr have 1yr old and his 30 i'm 21

2007-11-07 01:11:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

when will i stop hurting? my husband decided to leave our marriage 9 months after our son was born.sais i should of seen it coming..it has been so tough for me.still to this day i cant believe he did this.its been a 1 1/2 years...tells me all the time just get over it. he was so mean and heartless through out all of this.why are men so selfish.

2007-11-07 01:05:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married for 3 and 5monthes,i had a house before we get married,now an ex holding it,i have no baby.

2007-11-07 01:04:15 · 3 answers · asked by gracious 1

Hi Friends,
I want to make my girlfriend feel strong [very strong] relationship level attraction for me.
I want this because, i feel the same for her.

What should i do? Where should we go?
We meet daily for 3-4 hours or more.

Its very imp so please advise carefully . .

2007-11-07 01:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife says all women have the right to call their husbands names and that it will have no affect on the relationships
Husband over this same time period as used sheer not to respond will and maturity not to respond with names about her
She recently told her doctor that her husband has never called her a name since shes knowm him.
He says that although he doesnt show it during her argumentative outburst, it still has an affect on him

wife says that thats his fault if he doesnt call names
He says children call names and have to be taughtnot to do so by responsible parents
She says wifes autamaticall call their huband terrible names and its expected in a relationship/ He has asked her to stop to no avail
Do you ladies agree that she is right whether married or just boyfriend and girlfriend over 20 years. Shes close to fifty
hes older. i said the husband is right
She said naturally ill agree with the husband because im a man
I said no one should call each other names .

2007-11-07 00:55:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have rented a bedroom in our apartment to various people for almost 20 years, with our landlord's approval. Our "border" has never been on our lease. A fellow who has been with us for just a month has mental health issues that were not apparent when we interviewed him. He is not a physical threat, but life with him has been intolerable.

We gave him a written notice to vacate in 30 days and he refuses to do so. He has also made a point of doing (or not doing) everything he can think of to aggravate us. We are in our 50's. Ours is not a "college dorm" roomate situation. Eviction proceedings involve filing papers, paying fees, etc. The police refuse to get involved and will not treat this man as an "intruder". We seem to have no control over his leaving. What can we do otherwise?

2007-11-07 00:53:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your age is 35,45,++.The age doesn't really matter here to me,but the longer you have stayed together.Would you guy's have slowed down a little?or feeling of wanting more as u age?...Pls,give me an honest answer....thnx!

2007-11-07 00:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Example:
3 year old- Hurry up and buckle your seat bealt up.
Man-Your not grown to tell me what to do

3 year old-The food on the stove has smoke!
Man-WELL HOW DO YOU THINK THE FOOD IS GOING TO COOK?

(Food on stove was steaming over)-Making noise.

2007-11-07 00:27:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The long and short of it are: damn, this is gonna take some typing...

The jist of it is that I have been kicked to the curb by my wife, she says it is because I yelled too much, we have split up before, but I never heard her say that she was done with me.. till now. We have done everything but get councilor intervention, something I was never open to, but now am. I have a lot of other problems that I am trying to work on, its all more than I can work with... I miss her kids, I helped raise them, they call me daddy.. I call on the phone to talk to them, end up in tears every time when the little girls ask me to come home.. I can't come home because she doesn't want me anymore.

The sad part is that being set off like this, with the door shut, I am CERTAIN that I can get most of my issues under control, and am willing to get help with the ones that are too much for me, like the loss of the three children that I fathered with her.. I am sick over it. I know its a long shot..any thoughts?

2007-11-07 00:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by edwardblunt2000 1

2007-11-07 00:19:59 · 12 answers · asked by John M 1

We meet daily & we have to meet daily.
We go places.
How can i make her feel relationship level attraction for me?

How to attract her so much so that she gets desperate about marrying me?

2007-11-07 00:17:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im recently married. love my husband. We have a 4 month old child 2gether He took up poker about 6 months ago He would go 2 a friends house (I usually go 2) & play social poker 4 $ Then started playing online & lost $250 in a month or so I talked 2 him about my concern that he may have a problem He didnt want 2 stop playing poker so I set limits we both agreed upon Only allowed 2 play once a day & if he was adding $ 2 his account he had 2 let me know about it I notice there was more $ in his account that he didnt tell me about & asked how much he put in it He took 4ever 2 answer me Acting like he had 2 calculate it when he just added it 2day ($200) So I checked the account and he also added $200 2days B4 that & has been adding $ We didnt get a honeymoon so I wanted 2 do something nice 4 our 1st anniversary but hes saying we cant afford it O he plays social $ poker once a week in addition 2 that I dont want 2 get divorced Im a hopeless romantic& I cant live like this

2007-11-07 00:13:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous