Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2007

How many guys and girl's here go to chat room's and pm with the opposite sex flirt it all up (with or without your partner knowing) how far do you go pretending that person in the box is important to you fully knowing they arent and they never will be?

I dont want lies and BS like "Oh my man wouldnt do that to me he respects me to much" , or , "I wouldnt do that I respect my man to much" , Ladies I said honesty not what your praying for.Its not about you loving your spouse its about what you do when the attention at home aint enough anymore.Or when women are in chat room's on web cam looking all hot and needing someone to chat them up , remember your anonamous so you can answer truthfully right?

Ready?

Set!

GO!!!!!!

2007-11-07 08:44:09 · 27 answers · asked by JadeyOz 5

2007-11-07 08:43:08 · 28 answers · asked by Jaclyn C 1

2007-11-07 08:41:10 · 9 answers · asked by k 1

Me and my bf looooooove to travel a lot!!! thats one of the hobbies we share, but we have never done it together...i work 5 days a week at 9-5pm job...he is taking this year off from work to get another certificate (he is a 31 y/o teacher) and here he is taking as much as he can trips, he doesnt invite me cause we assumes im working and its true but i offer my self a couple of times already to meet him wherever he is on the weekend (this is his second trip in 6 months actually, and he only leaves for a week, the first time he went to a weeding and this time he went to visit his sister)....and after i offer myself to meet him where he is, he says its to expensive or whatever....anyways...my question is: How should i let him know that I would like to go with him or that I would like to be consider in his trips too???
We do have a trip planned for both of us in december to go to my country and spend christmas with my family, but that is like a trip that i am going to do anyway..but what about his??? Why he doesn’t try and make it possible for me to go too!!! Am I right or am I making a big deal of it???...Anyway how should I let him know this??
Thanks!

2007-11-07 08:38:01 · 6 answers · asked by aais 3

hes hardly home during the day @ when he gets home, i go to school at night. id like to have friends to talk to -even male friends, but he thinks ill cheat on him! i keep to myself at school but i hate it! what should i do?

2007-11-07 08:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My b/f of 4 yrs who lives with me tells me that we will "get married someday" when I ask him about our future. I would like a more specific answer then that- when I press for more info-he shuts down and does not want to talk about it.He says he wants to get married to me, yet I have no idea what he is waiting for.Any ideas???

2007-11-07 08:37:01 · 15 answers · asked by k 1

my family and his family both very famous and rich and known family of delhi in india.the reasons i dnt wnt to marry him-he is almst 10 yrs older to me,2-no understandng btwn us,he is very boring,not caring and attitude,not possesive,not a nice family character wise i tried talking to him and told him to say no to his dad but he says he cant as his father is vey strict and harsh,my family membrs says tat nthng can happen now and u have to marry him after 6 mnths and also keep thier respect and integrity and not badnaam them pls pls pls pls help me and give some ideas to handel this situation pls iam vvvvvvv deppresed

2007-11-07 08:36:24 · 3 answers · asked by mini brain 1

Hi everyone =D,

I'm just interested to know if there is a such thing as a soul mate? I'm reading on Yahoo answers about how to find a soul mate and is there a such thing. I also wonder if people are confusing a soul mate with a person that they are compatible with and since they are so compatible they believe that they are their soul mate. There are many people that you can be compatiable with but not be your soul mate. I've always imagine a soul mate would have a connection beyond compatibility, like a strong bond that is unbreakable. Is it possible to be compatible with your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend and not be your soul mate? Or are they one in the same? I'm interested in what's your take on this. Thanks.

2007-11-07 08:36:11 · 7 answers · asked by bitterly_sweetness 3

2007-11-07 08:26:46 · 21 answers · asked by ☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻ 1

2007-11-07 08:24:40 · 26 answers · asked by ☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻ 1

the true love of your life .

2007-11-07 08:18:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-07 08:10:27 · 60 answers · asked by aubrymsav 1

If your husband came to you and asked your permission to engage in an extramarital affair with another man (from time to time)?

and let me add this is just a hypothetical situation it is not my husband...I am just asking a what if?

thanks for your responses...

2007-11-07 08:08:28 · 36 answers · asked by Notagain 6

does the act of masturbating in a boy indicates the need for a girl friend? Can masturbation lead to some kind of mental or physical disorder?

2007-11-07 08:04:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out in March that my husband had an affair in 2005 and possibly fatherered a child (we have two children together). He went back to America to try to 'make things better for us' he told me he didn't speak to the female now but would let me know when he did to sort out this child business. I went 2 america with our children for a visit and found out he had been speaking 2 her throughout 2006 (and I don't know what else) plus she was calling his new phone so they had spoke since his return. Also he had texts and pictures from 2 other girls on his old phone (2006) suggesting they had met etc but i don't know for sure. I also found a phone bill and found out he had been on the phone for several hours with a female work colleague from 8 years ago, one call was 204 mins, this was just after he got back 2 america in September this year, after we cried together and he promised me he'd never hurt me again, would not lie or keep secrets again and would do anything for me. End it?

2007-11-07 08:00:05 · 38 answers · asked by Lisa K 2

A couple has three children out of wedlock. They would like to get married in the church.
They do go to church on a regular basis but live together.

2007-11-07 07:48:38 · 12 answers · asked by di4u2 2

A couple of times in the heat of passion I've told my husband to f**k me and said graphic stuff that I want to do to him. It feels right when I'm saying it but the next day I'm mortified about it. I feel really dirty and unfeminine and I don't want my husband to think less of me because I wasn't acting like a lady. He's never said anything about it but I'm too embarrassed to bring it up. I know it isn't but I just feel like its really slutty to say graphic stuff like that to him. Sex was very taboo in my family.

Is there anything wrong with that or is it acceptable? Will he still see me as that sweet girl that he loves or will it change the way he thinks of me? I want to spice things up a bit but I hold back because I don't want to come off like a whore.

Is it slutty to say/do dirty things like that?

2007-11-07 07:47:10 · 45 answers · asked by Katie 4

Don't get me wrong..i'm totally happy with the man i married...and I couldn't see myself with anyone else unless something were to ever happen to him..but do you ever ask yourself..did i make the right choice? Like with past ex's who deep down you still may feel something for..but will never know now..what might/could've been...?

2007-11-07 07:42:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband and our kids and our family has been great for a long time. All of a sudden he started finding fault with it seems like everything i say or do and its really painful to be in a catch 22. I feel like I have done everything but bend over backwards to make it better but I just don't see the fault in myself as much as he seems to. It seems like he never misses a chance to take a stab at me ya know? No there is no physical abuse but I think it can hurt just the same. It just makes me wonder because he is so unhappy if he is staying because of the kids. We still have sex but the sex has always been great no matter what.

2007-11-07 07:41:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a child together. Have been broken up for over one year now. I tried to be friends but this doesn't seem to work. He is now threatening people I care about. What is the best way to get rid of him safely for me and my child?

2007-11-07 07:40:39 · 7 answers · asked by Chrissy 3

Jessica and I got together with a friend of ours last night and she had all these CD's and she put a Best of George Michael CD in and played this song called Careless Whisper for us and I just loved the way it sounded because I loved the saxophone parts. Well, she said I could borrow it and I was a little uncomfortable because I knew my husband might not like me to listen to this music because of the lyrics but she kept saying go ahead and so I did. Well this afternoon I was on the computer and listening to the song and then my husband came home from lunch and saw me listening to it and ejected the CD and then broke it and I went to the bathroom and started crying and then he said i knew better than to listen to that and we would talk about it later. I know he is going to ask where I got it but if I tell him it was from my friend he might not let me hang out with her. :( What should I do? I know that was music but I don't want to lose my friend.

2007-11-07 07:39:31 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has baggage from his last relationship which she was hurt badly, she doesnt know how to be affectionate n gets weirded out by it. I dont understand this but whatever. we were dating for 2months and i decided to take a step back cuz i didnt see the relationship growing n i was tired of the rejection to my advancements toward her, we were only affectionate on her terms so we talk about it she told me then we should be friend so i was like ok now i have kept my distance so she email me on monday sayin that i disappear we had small talk so yesterday she sends me a poem which was not written by her, this confuse the hell of me
what do u think please i need advice cuz i like her

2007-11-07 07:38:37 · 1 answers · asked by simple J 4

How do you convince your spouse to show you he's sorry by holding and comforting instead of them getting mad that you hurt when infidelty has entered your relationship?

2007-11-07 07:34:21 · 10 answers · asked by cbattles 1

2007-11-07 07:33:14 · 5 answers · asked by Jaclyn pensiero 1

Sometimes I keep looking at the married couples in the streets and I just wanna be like them.I don't wanna have a boyfriend .I just wanna have relationship (marriage)

2007-11-07 07:27:15 · 30 answers · asked by crazylebaneselily 3

he's okay with the sex as long as it doesn't overlap with the time I spend with him. But it's really more than just sex and the sex is often accompanied with champaign, candles and rose pedals. The whole thing was his idea when it started. He got a few threesomes out of it. Have I gone too far?

2007-11-07 07:26:33 · 30 answers · asked by Sharon S 1

2007-11-07 07:24:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We´ve only been married for nine months and he wants to go party til all hours of the morning, without me! His friends are also married but their wives don´t mind the partying so now my hubby thinks I am trying to control him and put him in a cage. I don´t mind him having his "man time" I just don´t my husband out in a bar at 3am...period!

2007-11-07 07:24:02 · 15 answers · asked by mamaria 1

2007-11-07 07:22:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-07 07:21:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous