my family and his family both very famous and rich and known family of delhi in india.the reasons i dnt wnt to marry him-he is almst 10 yrs older to me,2-no understandng btwn us,he is very boring,not caring and attitude,not possesive,not a nice family character wise i tried talking to him and told him to say no to his dad but he says he cant as his father is vey strict and harsh,my family membrs says tat nthng can happen now and u have to marry him after 6 mnths and also keep thier respect and integrity and not badnaam them pls pls pls pls help me and give some ideas to handel this situation pls iam vvvvvvv deppresed
2007-11-07 08:36:24 · 3 answers · asked by mini brain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to decide whats more important, you living your life and choosing your own husband or letting your family be humiliated. Youre saying if you refuse you will lose the respect of your entire family so that means you will be thought of as a kind of outcast in the family. You could try to live life on your own without them, maybe migrate to Britain, Canada, or the USA and try to establish a life of your own.
I dont know if this will help but you can write down your story of whats happening to you and send it here and ask for help. They might help you get out of your country if you ask, but dont ask them for help until you decide thats what you want.
c/o International Mobilization Programme
IS Amnesty International
1 Easton Street
London
WC1 0DW
INDIA
2007-11-07 09:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do subtle things to make his family uneasy. Talk to him so that he knows and grow apart.
2007-11-07 16:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, then don't! ef your family, this is about your life.
2007-11-07 16:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋