hes hardly home during the day @ when he gets home, i go to school at night. id like to have friends to talk to -even male friends, but he thinks ill cheat on him! i keep to myself at school but i hate it! what should i do?
2007-11-07 08:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to find female friends only. Guys only want to get into your pantz.....
2007-11-07 08:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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You are in a tough spot, but there may be a few things that you can do about it. I would say that if your name and avatar on Yahoo Answers are any indication, your husband may be insecure in your relationship because of the way you present yourself. If my wife advertised her name on the internet as "Sexy E," I would wonder why she had to use such a name if she were really only looking for "innocent" friends.
It might not even be his self-esteem issues that are at the root of the problem. If you are trying to attract friends, do you perhaps think that you have nothing to offer in a friendship other than the fact that you are sexy? It seems that people will choose a name that defines them in some way, and going on that assumption, you would appear to think that being sexy is your defining feature. If you are offering to people that you will be their sexy friend, then, of course, he is going to be jealous when you look around for new friends. It does happen that women sometimes cheat with their male friends, just as it happens that some men cheat with their female friends.
On the other hand, just because you have confidence in your sex appeal does not automatically mean that you will cheat on him. You will probably have to pump him up, reassure him that he is the only man for you and that you would not consider cheating regardless of who else you might meet. Make sure he always knows where you are and how you can be reached. Not that he controls your life or decides for you what you may and may not do. But if he knows that he can always get ahold of you, then he is less likely to think that you might be doing something of which he would disapprove.
As I said, you're in a tough spot. Take it slowly with him and your new friends and always remind him that you are loyal to him and him alone. Good luck!
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2007-11-07 08:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Musicality 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer married, yet in a dedicated 6 12 months dating. Boyfriend watches porn each and every so often, and as long as he's in simple terms into consenting human adults it does not complication me. If it grew to alter into recurring or a detriment to our intercourse life, i could take difficulty with it. If it ever spilled over into the area of something non consensual or underage, the dating could be over. adult adult males are seen. i do no longer understand your convenience point, yet once you're as much because it, I guess he'd somewhat delight in looking %. of you tucked away someplace unpredicted. I made a video as quickly as, and left it up for the different 0.5 to locate while he got here abode after an prolonged day of artwork. He suggested it replaced into somewhat extra ideal than something he would have downloaded.
2016-10-15 09:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by ocain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he so jealous, has your behavior in the past reflected bad judgement? Have you ever cheated before? If those answers are no, then make friends and tell him to kiss off. He's acting ridiculous. Try to make female friends, you don't NEED male friends.
2007-11-07 08:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get friends that will be both of your friends. My wife's friends know me and she knows my friends. No use being jealous if you are taking care of each other at home.
2007-11-07 08:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, why do you need to have other male friends? You are only asking for trouble.
How would you like it if your husband wanted other female friends?
2007-11-07 08:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that hes a child to think you would cheat on him and how would he like the treatment that he gives to you back at him and to chill out. if your dumb enough to cheat then your a ***** and not good enough for him, but untill you give him that reason then he should chill out.
2007-11-07 08:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him I am 50+ and live in AZ USA. I won't be popping around anytime soon.
I am a good talker. IM me, or have him IM me first.
2007-11-07 08:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by old-softy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a classic sign that he is a cheater. Look into what he is doing when you are not around.
2007-11-07 08:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you need friends, someone else to talk to.
Reassure you love him.
2007-11-07 08:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by BB 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋