2007-11-07 07:22:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. For the first year or two. It takes that long for both of you to learn to compromise. It gets better. My wife and I seperated after our first year, things were so bad, but we tried to make work again with open minds and things have been great for the last 6 years.
2007-11-07 07:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by speedlump2 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes. When u marry, there are three rings to it. Rings: enagement
wedding
suffer
Ur wearing the third and final ring right now. IT's the toughest to wear, and it might be the easiest to take off. But it's a test of ur love and strength of chararcter if u wear it, and work with ur partner to ease the pain and tightness of this ring...so it will have a nice fit, and quit hurting.
Communication, understanding, give and take, and compromise are the keys to having a successful marriage. U both entered into it, so u both have to work at it. It's not a one person deal. OH, also, since most believe God created the union, u should include him in on it. That'll help a lot.
2007-11-07 07:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you mean. Physically, no. But just like any relationship that is intense and has a lot of emotions there are of course times when you are angry, hurt and upset. My rule of thumb is that when you are more sad than happy; the bad times out weigh the good times; or you are no longer in love then it is time to move on.
Love and marriage are often not easy and you have to put in the work and effort but there is also a time to walk away. Only you can decide when that is.
2007-11-07 07:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything where emotions are involved has the potential to hurt. Marriage, and for that matter any other relationship, isn't always perfect, problem free and completely happy all the time. But if there is more hurt than happiness and pleasure, then there is something very wrong.
2007-11-07 07:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are times when you are both going to hurt eachother's feelings unintentionally, but a relationship where you're both in love ....after the butterflies, the fire works, should be a peace, a knowing without any doubt, and the actions to always have your partners best interest at heart. No constant pain.
2007-11-07 08:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether you mean physical hurt or emotional hurt.
If you mean physical hurt then no, it is never suppose to be physically harmful.
As for emotional hurt, yes, at times we are emotionally hurt in marriage. But the love we have for one another helps us to resolve and recover from emitional hurts.
Good Luck
2007-11-07 07:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by mn lady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not, but sometimes it causes pain.. Marriage is what you make it. Dont let it get the best of you by hurting you. Know that there are good and bad times. Love your mate and work things out. Good luck!!
2007-11-07 07:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by hershey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sweetheart. But its holiness as an institution comes from its potential. Both people must be so committed to the marriage in order for both people in the marriage, and the marriage, itself, to reach their highest potential.
I am sorry if your spouse is hurting you.
2007-11-07 07:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by CZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think we all (married couples) go through things that hurts. Problems and just combining two different worlds can be hard and stressful. in a perfect marriage no but in the real world yes everybody but going through brings you closer
2007-11-07 07:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by MeLisa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but it inevitably does hurt. Because when you love someone so deeply, there's nothing to feel BUT hurt! If you didn't care that much about the person you married, then I don't think it would hurt nearly as bad.
2007-11-07 10:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, a marriage that hurts , shows that there is trouble in the relationship. love does not hurt, not loving you does. a marriage is love and happiness.
2007-11-07 07:32:53 · answer #11 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋