2007-11-07 08:41:10 · 9 answers · asked by k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry, I have two jobs and seven kids, do all the housework, laundry and other domestic things, as well as managing the household finances and tending to his father, who is ill. I do this because I knew when I had a large family this is what it would take. I love doing it for my family because they are well worth it.
Perhaps instead of worrying about making him see how hard it is, you should find a way to take joy in being able to have what many can't have. A job, children, husband, and home are all things to take pleasure in.
2007-11-07 08:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He's probably thinking, "How come its so hard for her to understnad that I work too - help out with the house - take care of the kids - too..... But she gets to whine about it to me all the time? I do it without complaint b/c that's what having a family and responsibility means...."
I bet he ALWAYS hears compliments from you for helping out and working / etc....
You've got to give what you want to GET !!
2007-11-07 17:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by aa889d 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does your husband work??? I need more information here, if he is not pulling his weight, then I would try to talk to him and ask him for help, and if that does not work, try counseling.
2007-11-07 16:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him do it for a week while you go on a trip out of town. He will be so glad to see you he might even shed a tear.
With kind regards....Finn.
2007-11-07 16:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Finn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Switch places.
2007-11-07 16:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by BB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what kind of work does he do? and is he helping with the kids and around the house?
2007-11-07 16:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are leaving for one month and then go! When you get back he will understand!
2007-11-07 16:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by sandra b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he would like to help you he would under stand then .. get him to put in as well .. as to the house work ..
2007-11-07 16:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by rpetch007 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM OR LEAVE
2007-11-07 16:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋