Me and my bf looooooove to travel a lot!!! thats one of the hobbies we share, but we have never done it together...i work 5 days a week at 9-5pm job...he is taking this year off from work to get another certificate (he is a 31 y/o teacher) and here he is taking as much as he can trips, he doesnt invite me cause we assumes im working and its true but i offer my self a couple of times already to meet him wherever he is on the weekend (this is his second trip in 6 months actually, and he only leaves for a week, the first time he went to a weeding and this time he went to visit his sister)....and after i offer myself to meet him where he is, he says its to expensive or whatever....anyways...my question is: How should i let him know that I would like to go with him or that I would like to be consider in his trips too???
We do have a trip planned for both of us in december to go to my country and spend christmas with my family, but that is like a trip that i am going to do anyway..but what about his??? Why he doesn’t try and make it possible for me to go too!!! Am I right or am I making a big deal of it???...Anyway how should I let him know this??
Thanks!
2007-11-07 08:38:01 · 6 answers · asked by aais 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when i said "we share" i meant we had that same hobbie...sorry for missunderstending
2007-11-07 08:48:49 · update #1
I'll never forget the time I loaded up the car and headed off for vacation and I thought the wife was in the back seat. I drove 500 miles and forgot her. I had to turn the car around and go get her. She was hot......
2007-11-07 08:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him how come he never invites you on any of the trips and that you can take time off from work and pay your share.
2007-11-07 08:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mallball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just talk to him and tell him that you would like to come on trips with him? If he's dodging the question, maybe he simply wants to go away by himself; there's nothing you can do about it.
2007-11-07 08:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Me and my bf looooooove to travel a lot!!! thats one of the hobbies we share, but we have never done it together"
How do you "share" it, when you have never done it together??!! makes no sense....
2007-11-07 08:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should just come straight out and tell him. If he is not considerate enough for this then is he who you really want to be with.
2007-11-07 08:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well assis if you cant go ... he should not go as well.. tell him that ..
2007-11-07 08:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by rpetch007 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋