OK Truth time?

Question

How many guys and girl's here go to chat room's and pm with the opposite sex flirt it all up (with or without your partner knowing) how far do you go pretending that person in the box is important to you fully knowing they arent and they never will be?

I dont want lies and BS like "Oh my man wouldnt do that to me he respects me to much" , or , "I wouldnt do that I respect my man to much" , Ladies I said honesty not what your praying for.Its not about you loving your spouse its about what you do when the attention at home aint enough anymore.Or when women are in chat room's on web cam looking all hot and needing someone to chat them up , remember your anonamous so you can answer truthfully right?

Ready?

Set!

GO!!!!!!

WOW ladyluck insecure much?

I pm with friends "Female" not male you have serious issues coming in and simply attacking heads 1st hey , I'm guessing your husband cheats on line sorry for your pain but dont mirror your life into other's , and to the other women who lied about not pming grow up and I am 35 not 16 so heh who's the joke on girl's hey?

I asked this question cause my g/f has been in 3 on line relationship's in 18 months and fallen hard for guy's who just want fun she is on her 3rd broken heart and it peeves me off women do this and make us ALL look bad, so cut the abusive garbage people.

Answer 1

I love to chat with the ladies. Usually it ends there, friendly banter or release of (non-sexual) frustration. A friend that I can listen to and that will listen with non-judgemental "ears".

On occassion, it becomes hot chat. And on fewer occassions it becomes cam to cam. I've never met someone from online, however I do have a friend in Texas has reserved a no-strings adventure for me should I ever be in her neighborhood. (I'm not sure I would, but its fun to fantasize).

My wife knows this has happened and was peeved when she learned of it. (Oops, forgot to sign off of yahoo chat!! Doh)

So I've become much more careful.

Answer 2

I have started do the chat thing since my divorce and right before we separated. Personally I fixing to quit because if find most of the people are Internet chat rooms and especially dating sites play way to many games. I have been divorced for a little over a year now and I find more women on the Internet that do not know what they want and are so emotionally damaged and screwed in the head that it is not worth it. I feel like I'm the only normal person on here sometimes and that is bad because I will admit I have my issues!

Answer 3

Trashy.


EDIT
You are sitting around flirting with other men. That would never cross my mind. You obviously have problems in your relationship. Do you think your husband would mind it?? Or if you husband was doing the same thing behind your back? Getting turned on talking to another woman?


EDIT!
Yeah, I think I would be a little insecure if my husband was flirting online with other women. My husband does not. Him and I respect each other too much to do that. Yeah, I did do it back when I was 16...but I am 26 now, and Happily married. If you were asking about a "friend" you should have came out and said it. Sounds like you are the insecure one. There are tons of women on here that suffer from their S.O having online affair..and you come up with this sh**. Where does it say in the marriage books that it is OK to flirt and get all hot up with another man online (what is the difference if it happened in real life) when you have a husband?

Answer 4

When I first got my computer,I found myself in chat rooms.Chatting with all kinds of people. Some got heated, most did not. I didn't take these chat sessions seriously, they were all in fun. On the other hand, I have had long term relationships with people lasting years. There is nothing sexual about our chats. We are just individuals who have common interests and discuss/debate those interests. I have learned so much just from chatting with strangers from around the world. I find it fascinating.

Answer 5

In a real, healthy relationship, you shouldn't have to seek satisfaction elsewhere. And the internet is sterile and lacks a true connection. I see no satisfaction happening online. I would rather wait until my husband gets home from work this evening. He is ready and willing to make me feel the way I need to feel. Besides, in the end.... and there will be an end to the "real" relationship because of online crap... he/she will be all alone talking to a computer. Lots of love happening with that keyboard hardly makes up for the physical needs.

Honestly...

EDIT: Asking for complete honesty without being specific (you should mention up front you are not looking for validation since it is referring to someone other than you) with your initial question will give you just that....honesty, sometimes brutal honesty. I do apologize if my answer appeared abusive in any way to you, but I was doing what you asked for based on your phrasing.

Answer 6

Well I'm not exactly anonymous, but I can tell you right now that I do it. I don't do it with cam or through instant messenger services, but I do it via email, etc. It is just fun. A way to blow off steam, and step outside of yourself with no physical consequences.

Answer 7

Umm, no way. And I do have too much respect for the woman I am involved with to do that, and even if I were single again, I wouldn't hang out with a bunch of freaks in a chat room talking about sex and stuff because I have some class.

Answer 8

Answering truthfully accept it or not.

In reality or on-line I am not lonely to feel the need to start something with anyone else. I get all the attention I need from my Husband, at home and at work since we work in the same office.

Answer 9

I know through personal experience my partner does chat not only to my friends to girls in general thats because ive chatted with him many times and he thought it was some other girl.

Answer 10

Years ago I did some chatting, but I quit because I found it impersonal. The chatting is not real a contact with the person, because they are strangers anyway.
Chatting is not for me.