My wife wants/is going to go to medical assisting college. From everyting it seems I read and ask(on here) the colleges are not very good and the jobs are hard to get and dont pay very much, I have tried to give subtle opinions on what I think. But she is really exited about going. Should I sit back and hope it works out, Or should I try and discourage her? Im kinda lost on this one
2007-11-07 02:36:36 · 30 answers · asked by shawnp089 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We men should never discourage our wives from anything they want to pursue, unless, of course it would cause harm to her or others.
Additionally, and contrary to what you believe, careers in health care are exploding. As the populations ages, advances in medicine, etc., etc., etc., there is an immediate need for people to work in this industry.
And, if your wife really enjoys working in this field, she may even want to add to her education for other opportunities.
Good luck!
2007-11-07 02:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Corey Adcock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worse thing you can do is to try and talk her out of something she clearly wants to do. Let her go to college and encourage her the whole time she is there. If it were you how would you feel if you really had your mind set on doing something and your wife fought you the whole time. Be excited for her and if you let her do this she will love you all that much more. When husbands fight us on things we really want to do a little love and respect goes with it. You should be so proud of your wife for wanting to better herself. Think of the extra money she will bring in when she graduates and gets a job in the medical field. Remember when the wife is happy she will make you happy.
2007-11-07 10:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Registered Nurse, and I will say this. She can use this as a building stone, do not discourage her. There is a huge shortage of nurses, and medical assistants are hired everywhere, in doctors offices and hopsitals. Let her feel good about herself for going to school, and once she has her diploma, she can go on to nursing school and get in easier and have an easier time in nursing school after already have work experience as a MA. Let her be excited! We need all sorts of people in the medical feild, never a shortage of jobs.
2007-11-07 10:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Brittney 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Save the discouraging words for situations that are clearly illegal, grievously stupid, or inevitably disastrous and harmful.
None of which apply here. C'mon; this is important to her, she deserves your moral support if not enthusiasm. It may very well work out much better than you think -- hey, I'm often a cynic as well -- but you'll both never know if she doesn't try.
Express your concerns, assert that you'll stand behind her in this whether she flies or falls, and then do that. It's part of being a worthy husband.
2007-11-07 10:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should support whatever it is she wants to do. That is a role of a GOOD husband. Are you starving for money? Can you afford college right now? These are the only two things you should worry about. There is more to a job than money...you have to be content with what you do everyday, and if this is the occupation she needs to make her happy, who are you to discourage her?
2007-11-07 10:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am surprised in what you heard. I thought anything in the medical field is the way to go. Instead of giving her subtle hints-come right out and ask her if she ever heard about anyone having trouble getting a job or if the pay isn't good?
2007-11-07 10:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by joni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah most colleges that offer "medical Assisting" are severely overpriced and you will eventually pay that pack. The most you will expect to make with that is around $15hr. Still a degree is a degree and at least she'll be a professional something. But my gf did this and works at the local drugstore. So I would encourage her to try something else.
2007-11-07 10:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by radman2035 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage her to go to medical school! I wouldn't discourage her, unless the money is going to bankrupt your family. Your wife is motivated to improve herself, she will feel better about herself, and she will repay any encouragement you give her in ways that you will really enjoy! Besides, once she gets into class, she may change her mind about her calling. But if she feels strongly that this is the profession she will be happy in, help her make it through!
Besides, if you discourage her, she will have you to blame for the rest of your lives if she feels she missed an opportunity, that's something that could evolve into much worse!
2007-11-07 10:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because jobs are not easy to get, doesn't mean she can't get one. Sure, they're not as high paying as you'd like, but unless you encourage her to further her schooling, she's probably not going to find a well paying job she enjoys. I think your wife should do her own research into her program, talk with career counsellors at her college and make up her own mind. You'd be a bad husband if you didn't support her decision.
2007-11-07 10:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question should be why are you have such a hard time with her going to college? The medical field is very good right now. There is such a shortage in all areas. If you love her, support her. If it does not work out do not say I TOLD YOU SO. Be there.
2007-11-07 10:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋