How often should I wear lingere for my man?

Question

I'm a college student/housewife who has gotten into frump mode and wants to spice things up a bit. We've been married for 5 years and I've taken to wearing sweats & over sized t shirts everyday, cooking tv dinners and nagging my husband to death, I've made a conscious decision to change this in order to improve/spice up our marriage.

I went to victorias secret and bought some lingere today but it was $65 including the thigh highs with lace. How often should I wear lingere? It could get pretty expensive and I can't spend that kind of money all the time.

Also, when do I wear it? Right when he walks in the door from work? While I'm serving dinner? After dinner?? At bedtime? I'm new to this whole lingere wearing thing. Any advice?

oh, this is what I bought:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3F-213661&page=2&cgname=OSSLPSXYZZZ&rfnbr=3438

Answer 1

everynight

Answer 2

It's not just the lingerie, or the clothes, or the lack of them. Wearing big baggy sweats all the time drags you down a little, I'd save those for workouts. Buy a few tight t-shirts and snug jeans... A sexy pair of high heels... All things you can get at a discount department store.
The first time you greet him with sex on your mind, you'll send a signal. A little lift of the eyebrow, bite your bottom lip... drop a hand to your hip and put a little swing into your step when you walk away from him, be sure to look over your shoulder to let him know EXACTLY what you're thinking... It won't matter what you're wearing or NOT wearing, he'll be over the top.
Nothing spices up the bedroom like Reddi Whip, and it's only $3 a can. ;) You can use that for spicy lingerie, if you like. Just be sure to wash the sheets afterward or you'll get ants.

Answer 3

As far as how much it cost, change your spending habits, there is stuff out there that is just as good as Victoria's Secret without breaking the bank. Then try out the spicy life and if you like it, wear it all the time! He'll love it, as long as you have some different looks so he doesn't get bored with one. But find something that makes you feel beautiful because if you feel beautiful, you will look more beautiful. Also, change up the times that you wear it. Wear it in the morning on days that you both have off. Meet him in it after work. To get real spicy, buy a long coat and wear it under the long coat in a place you might be able to find some dicreet alone time. Guys dig it.

Answer 4

It's great that you have decided to make things better by changing the way you treat your husband. It will make for a less stressful relationship, and believe me good ones are hard to find. You don't know what you have until you lose it. So good for you!

I have decided to not only start wearing more lingere but to dress sexier for my man. Wearing lingere everyday takes away the novelty, so I decided to wear cute short skirts and low cut blouses for when he gets home.

I'm cooking dinner when he's getting home and he sees a sexy woman cooking something good. Helps me to cook in the bedroom as well, and that's important.

As far as when, try it all different times. He'll never know what got into you.in a good way!

Answer 5

It's always nice to surprise your man.....say have it on on a Friday night when he gets home from work. Light some candles and put on some romantic music when it's time for him to get home. He would probably enjoy it a lot; but the newness could wear off; so I would probably only do it once a week or every other week. In the meantime, you could try losing the attitude and cook him something good for supper. You don't have to have lingerie on to make an evening special.

Answer 6

You don't have to wear different lingerie every time. You can wear the whole outfit one day....wear just the stockings with high heels another day.....wear a short skirt with nothing on underneath....

Be creative with what you've got. And don't be predictable. Some evening, be all dressed up when he comes home. Another night, wait until bedtime.....or come into the living room all dolled up in the middle of a boring commercial.

Or heck....just lay your head in his lap while you're watching tv and make the commercials his FAVORITE part using just your mouth, no matter what you're wearing.

Answer 7

You should wear the lingere at bedtime, and do the spicing of the marriage atleast once of week. Just doing something special for him showing him that you are into him still. You don't nessicarily have to buy something all the time. Just lying naked can really boost any relatinship!! Start wearing form fitting clothes, at the end he will really appreciate it!!

Answer 8

The stuff you got is really HOTT! My fiance and I reserve that kind of smokin stuff for every once in a while or special nights. I like all the sexy underwear that VS offers and we use the more simpler (less expensive) lingerie alot. See what he likes.

I would suggest to surprise him when he gets home from work (just make sure he isn't bringing someone over, because that would the wrong kind of surprise!) I was once surprised when I got done in the shower one night, that's a good surprise!

good luck

Answer 9

Any time is a great time for lingerie. Don't fall into a routine of the same nightie and the same presentation. Keep him guessing. Try this one . The next time you two have the whole day to yourselves. Go the entire day without wearing panties,but don't tell him. Wait and when you feel the time is right. Whisper in his ear that you aren't wearing panties and you haven't been all day.

Answer 10

Girl first off I tip my hat off you! You married and a student, liking your status. But girl you don't have to wear lingerie all the time. But this is a little something I do. If your man like a certain type of panties on you and your comfortable in them wear them all the time with a tank top. It's comfortable but yes sexy! Than on occassions you pull out that naughty lingerie and work it. You could have it on with some stilettos and just when he about to unlock the door open it for him. You could either strip him at the door and go down (U know what I mean) or cater to him like help him get comfortable, bring him dinner, and things like that. I also got into taking pics and brief videos of myself with my cellular phone every know and than while at work in the bathroom stall (Lol) he loves it and it helps keep me on his mind! Let me know what you think and if you tried:)

Answer 11

Serve him dinner wearing that and say to him 'after dinner you can have desert' and point to yourself.

Lingerie doesn't have to be expense or worn all the time. Wear and buy it as often as you feel is necessary. Perhaps you could take up a lingerie sewing class and learn how to make your own. Those are always fun