I really dont know and if its wrong i dont wanna use them.
2007-11-07 07:05:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-11-07 07:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
If he's a Christian (devout) it probably is wrong to watch pornos. Sexual toys and lubricants, probably not, because that is with you. Most Christians consider porn a sin, and almost the same as cheating. Jesus said that if a man looks upon another woman in lust, he has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
But, if you're married, shouldn't you know how your husband feels about this? You probably need to ask him directly how he feels about these kinds of things. He may love it all!
2007-11-07 07:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Sex within the marriage is definitely OK (and encouraged) by most Christian churches. Anything that makes it more enjoyable is OK.
By your question, I take it that you don't share your husband's Christian faith. That being the case, why not ask HIM what's OK and what isn't. If you feel that the restrictions he wants to impose because of his personal beliefs are too stringent, you'll need to talk this out with him. It's up to the two of you to decide what's right for you.
2007-11-07 07:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by dansinger61 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't wrong to use toys or lubricants but it is wrong to watch porno's and don't ask me why because they surely didn't have porno movies when the bible was put together! As a pastor for the U.L.C we say "Hurt No One".Enjoy your husband.
2007-11-07 07:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some of your more fundamentalist christians may think so, but I sure don't. Porn and toys are good tools to use within a marriage if they are done in the right context. Just don't use them as a comparison sake, but just for different ideas and to explore each other's sexuality. Have fun with it and relax.
2007-11-07 07:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say your husabnd is Christian, implying that you aren't. So if this was just about you, it wouldn't be an issue as you aren't bound by any religious taboos against porn or sex toys. I'm guessing you are concerned about what your husband is going to think. So ask him. Even if this is something you intend to do by yourself, it's best if you talk with him about it, especially if you're already worrying about his thoughts about it. Explain why you're interested in it and that you want to know what he thinks about pornography and sex toys. Let him go over what he thinks and then you can decide together what you're comfortable with in your relationship. People can tell you than these things are permitted or not permitted for Christians, but that may not be how your husband sees it. Talk to him.
2007-11-07 07:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Demon 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You make a statement then pose a question about porn and sex toys. OK to your statement. Cool! I am a Christian too.
Now about the question. There is nothing wrong with watching porn movies or using sex toys and lubricants. They can make your sex life much more fun.
Now that I have said that give Lisa the points because she really did give the best answer. I agree totally.
2007-11-07 07:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The toys are fine, but this is why i think you should not watch porno's. What you watch, and listen to has an effect on your Christian walk. Why should you or him have to lust after someone else to enjoy your sex life?
2007-11-07 07:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you ask him??? HE IS YOUR HUSBAND! It also greatly depends on what type of toys and porno you are talking about!
Lubricants? I really do believe you are joking or thinking something differnt here- right?
2007-11-07 07:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember, What goes on behind closed doors between two consenting adults is A-Ok.
Talk with him about your concerns & allow him to tell you honestly how he feels about it.
You might just find out that there's some things you can both enjoy.
Sexual toys is a multi-million dollar industry, and what works for one might not work for another.
Variety is the spice of life,
Have fun & BE SAFE
2007-11-07 07:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes porn is one of the many tools of the devil and it depends on what the lubricants are being used to grease up so can't answer unless you be more specific..
2007-11-07 07:12:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋