i was in a bad realtionship that lasted on and off for 4 1/2 years ,we broke up in july, and i though i would never fall for anyone else coz i was so used to my ex , i recently met someone that i might be instrested in but the problem is i still think about my ex sometimes even though im 100% sure i never want to be back with him ..the new guy is 22 and im 25 will this ever work??plus he has a kid thats 2 years old but we both want the same thing in life wat should i do???
2007-11-07 17:09:24 · 14 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good luck
2007-11-07 17:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by bianca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has 2 year olds then, he is recently out of a relationship. Is he sure he is over that? Or is there a chance he will go back to their mother? Blended families can work, but they can also have a lot of added problems. Take your time, don't jump in too fast.
2007-11-08 01:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go for it? You are thinking about your ex cuz you were with him for almost 5 yrs right? You dont want to put yourself in that situation again.
You are young and you need to live your life. Even if that means more heartbreak. Life is all about living and learning. Dont hold back. Not every relationship has to last forever.
2007-11-08 01:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever settle....just because you want the same things...remember their are probably many out there that want what you want...always evaluate carefully especially just out of bad relationship..that's not to say he isn't a keeper but do seriously consider the whole enchilada before you make a commitment
2007-11-08 01:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by only1sol2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you’re feeling a connection to this person and there is genuine chemistry and connectivity, then you have no reason not to take the risk. Let go of your fears and trust your heart.
2007-11-08 01:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by GoodNeighbor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your age, sex is a requirement.It cannot be accepted that you were used for sex as you have suggested. There may be differences. You seems be having ego. Unless you give up ego, no marital relations shall be successful.
2007-11-08 01:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by driverleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what feels right to you.. you say your over the ex so prove it and move on.. its time to be happy and enjoy life.. if you let everything hold you back then lifes things will pass you by. good luck
2007-11-08 01:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you feel about ex is the 41/2yrs you were with him it's not love just forget him and move on with this new guy good luck
2007-11-08 01:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date him. You don't have to marry him! See how it goes.. you may decide he will be in your future or you may decide not. Proceed cautiously this time so you don't end up in a bad relationship again.
2007-11-08 01:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy needs someone that will mother his child because that is most important.
2007-11-08 01:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by thepinkpipster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋