WARNING!THIS IS IMPORTANT!Cousin with Husband!Please read details?

Question

My cousin & i are close.My cousins beautiful,intelligent in 20s has degrees paid her own way through it all not her parents.

Her parents pretend not to have money their rich relatives abroad paid off 14k.The relatives till date havent helped cousin at all as shes beautiful,intelligent they feel if they help her by matchmake for her marriage or finances or take her abroad with them shell be better then their own kids someday.My cousins never taken any help from them or has she been offered by relatives who help her parents only.The relatives when in town try to meet her to keep tabs on her life.Due to relatives help to her parents her parents feel obligated to update relatives on my cousins life & pretend like they arent doing well in life.But my cousin wants nothing to do with them.My cousin wants to elope.If she introduces her man to relatives they will try to break up marriage due to jealousy,1 of her cousins tried it,relatives keep tabs on my cousins life.What should my cousin do?

Answer 1

If I were your cousin I WOULD elope. She has worked hard
to get her degree and now is the time for her to benefit.
She should never look back, start a new life, a tell the family
after. This sounds harsh - but I think its what she will be forced to do. Good Luck.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

*NEWSFLASH*

Your question is not ALL CAPS "IMPORTANT."

Hell, it isn't even lowercase "important."

*END NEWFLASH*

You write like you've seen 'Titanic' about 900 times - remember where she starts and ends every goddamned sentence with the word "Jack"? "And Jack, I think we should run, Jack. Jack, there's water here, Jack." Only for you it's "my cousin." It's in there at least 10 times.


Obsess much?

Okay back to your question.

Nope. Still can't wade through them. I really tried this time, too. It's just a flabby-armed spanking machine of cousins.

Answer 4

Your cousin, should do what she has been doing all along, stay to herself, and go on with her life, she knows her family, and she knows how they operate, so she need to send them a card to inform them about her marriage, and say, that she hopes that they would be happy for her, because she is happy!

Answer 5

If your cousin wants to elope, it's none of your business. Get your own life!

Answer 6

go away ande marry and have lots of kids and be happy for the rest of her life. Also make sure she always has you in her life...... Good luck and God bless.. I wish her love... Grant M in Pennsylvania

Answer 7

get a life

Answer 8

She should elope and move far away from the lunatics.

Answer 9

sounds like they arent a very supportive family, and maybe its better that she move on without them. i hate to say that but jeez!

Answer 10

Tell you guys to piss off, your family must really suck