2007-11-07 20:02:31 · 14 answers · asked by cubelo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you become married you have now made the other person accountable.... Your spouse may not be your 'check in' but they certainly deserve a heads up on where you're gonna be after work and if you're gonna be late for dinner... If you're going out to a strip club then freaking tell her... being open and honest developes and earns trust...Telling her it's none of her business when she's ur WIFE is insane... within 6 months she'll question everything you do... just a little heads up...
If you're not doing anything wrong then there shouldn't be any reason not to tell her what you're doing... it seems to be important to her... so why not?
2007-11-07 20:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by txtoasty82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not where they are at every second but in a general manner. It's just what one does when living together. I mean, if I say to my husband 'I am going out' he will ask 'where are you going to' , it's a normal thing to ask. Also if he goes for a walk or a ride in his car I ask him where he's been not to monitor him but just because I care about what he is doing. And in my opinion, as he is not working as a spy in 'her majesty's service' and his last name isn't Bond, he should have no problem answering that.
But then again I am not interested in an minute by minute report on his wherabouts , that would be weird.
2007-11-07 20:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a must. Do you like you wife be some where where you can't contact. Cell phone is very convenient, but battery can't last forever. Trust is the primary foundation of love. You have to trust and in order to gain trust you have to be honest by letting yourpartner know you where-about, so she do have to worry.
Once again, you have to. But not to the extent like reporting to the police. If you partner demand that from you, you are in BIG BIG trouble.
2007-11-07 20:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by bundy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you want to know where your wife is at all times and who she is with and what she is doing? Well we wives have the same right to know what you are doing and with whom and why.
Husbands seem to forget sometimes that we wives deserve the same respect we give you.
2007-11-07 20:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never!
This information is Top Secret!
A Special Security Clearance
Is Required!
2007-11-07 20:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by LedHead 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My wife and I don't justify our whereabouts every hour of every day. We trust each other. We have cell phones for emergencies.
2007-11-07 20:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHY NOT? If you wish to have trust in your marrige I would strongly encorage it, after all dont you like know where YOUR WIFE IS?
2007-11-08 00:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! So she can contact him in an emergency, know whether to plan dinner or not, etc. It's the considerate thing to do. Tell her so she doesn't have to ask.
Joy to you.
2007-11-07 20:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes and so should the women tell her man of her where abouts its common coutesy. EMERGENCIES do happen.
2007-11-07 22:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by ursula k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be the considerate thing to do. i am not yet married and in my relationship, not that it is expected but because he chooses to, he lets me know where he is, and i show him the same respect.
2007-11-07 20:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋