2007-11-07 21:30:33 · 10 answers · asked by khanyisilemadondo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him that you are very hurt by his accusations and love him a little bit less every time he does it. If he doesn't stop, there is no hope of change in the future. Good luck!
2007-11-07 21:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bart S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off try to snoop around and find out if he is cheating. The same thing happened to me. My soon to be X-husband was going through my purse. I caught him and went through his phone. I found a number called it and sure enough it was a female who told me that she did not know he was married. If you don't find anything suspicious, which I doubt, then ask him what you can do. But if he can't learn to trust then you have to leave.
2007-11-08 08:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by kel5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally when a husband accuses the wife of cheating all the time it is away of them letting their guilt out.Be aware of what is happening in the marriage.If you are not cheating why should you have to prove to him that you are innocent.Your husband has to learn to trust you.
2007-11-08 06:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by embellishment3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he has some trust issues, I suggest counseling for the both of you.
It is creating tension, what you two need is a counselor to talk to, someone who will offer an objective view to your problems and give the both of you some tools to work with.
2007-11-08 05:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being insecure can mean. he may be cheating, so he feels you are also. or he is a very jealous person. and this is bad. for if he is this way he will always be that way. believe me living with a very jealous person can be a hard marriage or life. for they will never trust you. unless they can change.
2007-11-12 05:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do beyond reassuring him, he is not accusing you because of anything youve done, he is insecure with himself. Just go out of your way every now and then to let him know that you love him and you dont want anyone else.
2007-11-09 02:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by ncmedicgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun mind if i say this....this is wat happened to me too actually, my hubby, he everytime says that he cud not trust me anymore, n he even accused me of cheating him, i have lots of male colleaugues, to me, having friends around u is good except that u don't exceed ur limit....when he keeps streeing me wif those accuses, i caught him having affairs....but befor i caught him, i've always trusted him 99%, till few nights he was behaving awkwardly, that one night i saw him taking photo with another woman cheek to cheek in his hp....and he claims that he had slept wif her countless time.....so my advise is, jus be patient, and do ur routines....and observe him...closely...u might find him cheating u too....
2007-11-08 05:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweetiepie_1712 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it. He's a jealous guy. For as long you are not doing anything wrong ... don't feel guilty about it.
Sometimes, too much love will kill us ... or most of the time.
As long as he's not hurting you... just ignore it.... he just love you that much and show to him that you can be trusted.
Patience... ....
2007-11-08 05:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by always confuse 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's that insecure, you can do nothing. Relationships are built on trust, and if he can't trust you, there is no relationship.
2007-11-08 05:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nothing, suspicion is like a virus it spreads. just leave it as it is and have patience. things will come your way. but make sure you don't take any steps to increase his suspicion.
2007-11-12 05:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by lady56bird79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋