I feel so bad. I can't concentrate on my work. Recently i found out that my husband has been dishonest with me. How can i move on? My husband is a very nice man. I really can't believe he did it. Please help me.
2007-11-04 19:23:21 · 15 answers · asked by mavic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dishonest about what? Paying a bill? Cheating? Cleaning out the garage? A secret baby?
2007-11-04 19:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by ACCOUNT CLOSED 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
relax you pack of social grace judges, this fine young lady didnt bother to tell you what her poor husband has been dishonest about, and unless she tells you and you are from her country and or sect, you still have a snoballs chance in hadis of answering it correctly, so relax, have a midol, there will be another to group up on like a shark feeding frenzy.
2007-11-04 19:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by rosie p 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love him and you both can sit down and talk this out, I'd stay in the relationship. Don't let one bad mistake ruin what you have had up to this point, although it will be very hard for you to trust him fully for a long time, ask him to go to counseling, so you both can move on and rebuild the trust.
2007-11-04 19:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by tiny 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Regardless of what he did does not rate the level of betrayl you feel so the what is unimportant...
I suggest to work on how this makes you feel FIRST before confronting him about it... but you will need to sit down and have a lil chat with him... BUT my suggestion is to work thru ur own feelings!! Sort them out and find reason. Do NOT make excuses for you or him. Be frank and honest with urself and then when you talk to him... there will only be reason!
Good Luck!!
2007-11-04 19:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by txtoasty82 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Forgive him, I mean everybody is dishonest sometimes...dont you think so? to forgive others means you are freeing yourself ..or accepting the weakness from someone you love.The way you talk about your husband seems that you love him too isn`t it? The best way is to talk or open a dialouge ..and everything would be alright Okey? bye and cheerup!
2007-11-04 19:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by nattienes 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Old saying - "it is easier to forgive than to forget". I have found both to be pretty darn hard. Of course, it matters what the dishonesty was about. If you decide that you are going to stay together - then you have to discuss the matter fully and then put it behind you. If you let "it" stay part of your lives - it will ruin your future. Once discussed put it in the past.
2007-11-04 19:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Zippity 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
join the crowd if your around one of them long enough and pay attention i don't know of any who can manage to be totally honest. when their caught in a lie it makes them mad and they have to sulk for a while. but only because they are caught if you ignore everything and always pretent everything is just great not a problem but you speak up and that's when it starts
2007-11-05 03:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what did he lie about...
Have a serious talk with him and hope it never happens again...
I guess just make sure he understands that honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship and he should not lie.
Good luck!
2007-11-04 19:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sam IT 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you believe he is a nice man, and that this was something that he can learn from and change his behavior, then talk to him. Explain why you're so upset, and ask him to never do it again.
2007-11-04 19:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by triviatm 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i guess that would depend on what he was dishonest about
2007-11-04 19:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Brian D 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋