2007-11-04 21:43:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
http://www.crisisconnectioninc.org/pdf/Rules_for_Fair_Fighting.pdf
Here are the rules for Fair Fighting
I have include the website because there really is a lot more to it.
How to Have an Argument with your Partner and Remain Friends
Fair Behavior Speaking one at a time and allowing equal time Looking for compromises Trying not to generalize Allowing for time-outs and breathers
No ambush
Present your argument sensibly
Listen carefully to your partner
Stick to the issue
Agree on what kind of behavior is acceptable
Keep all blows above the belt
Don’t over react
If you can’t settle the issues, table them for later and set an agreed upon specific time to meet
If you can agree, decide how to carry out your decision
If you later are dissatisfied with the decision, you must make an appointment for another discussion.
Good luck.
2007-11-05 09:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Wrong Answer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know cuz I am trying to find out same thing. I spent 5 years of my life with my partner only for her to tell me false hopes even after she left and now she supposedly has moved on and is happy with sum1 new in a month. ??? Good Luck!
2007-11-04 21:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by ThereIsNoWay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without arguments and without raising your voice.Try more of listening than talking and everything gets solved easily.
2007-11-04 21:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking the problems through with each other,if he's hard to budge and does'nt want to listen,i guess you'll just have to keep on trying with him,otherwise the choice is yours to analyze if the situation is solvable or if it's time to move on or have "time out".
2007-11-04 21:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to each other find out what they are feeling.
2007-11-04 22:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication and open minds.
2007-11-04 21:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by tox101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We discuss it.
2007-11-04 21:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋