Marriage & Divorce - 4 November 2007

I'm 26. older like 34 and up (preferable up to about 42 or so).

2007-11-04 10:56:57 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 10:52:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel that divorce is way too common now, and i want to know who here has a GOOD and HAPPY marriage. and no newleyweds please, because ur always happy in the beginning but not later on..and also, if u know one, what do u think is the secret to ur happy marraige?

2007-11-04 10:43:59 · 29 answers · asked by Chiquita Bonita 3

My divorce decree states that I would retain ownership of the account & the telephone #'s. The account is STILL in his name 15 months after the divorce & that is the extent of his association with it. I, ME, MYSELF, ALONE have been the user & payer of this family plan account (my phone # and my son's) FOR 6 YEARS. I have had the same # for 6 years & everyone (business/friends/family/contacts) has it. He has even gone as far as walking into the local cellular customer service center and requesting a copy of MY phone bills for the past 3 months. He also took me off on-line access and account permissions. He says that he wants to "monitor our son's usage of the minutes". Yeah right! What should I do?

2007-11-04 10:28:48 · 13 answers · asked by Pinky Lee 1

hi, I'm alexia... I'm 23. The thing is that like 6 months ago I met this guy, he's 33... I met him at work, and we becamen close. We had lunch together, talked on the phone almost all day, we talked a lot abput our lives... we were really good friends. Well... he has a wife, and three children. His wife is like... well... a model I think, she is so beautiful, and his kids are really cute too.
We just hang out a lot, and talked a lot, but I started to feel like his mistress you know... we weren't doing anything, but still, his wife obviously doesn't know of my existence ...
And well... like a month ago, we were talking about our situation, and he told me he was in love with me... and well I am in love with him too... but... he told me also that he is in love with his wife too!! excellent... i tried to avoid him for a while but it was impossible, and 2 weeks ago we kissed and ... I don't feel bad about it...

2007-11-04 10:28:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 10:27:44 · 24 answers · asked by amber 1

where was it?
did you like it how her porposed?
were you brethless?

2007-11-04 10:26:12 · 21 answers · asked by Zahera♥ 4

well me and my husband has problems he has cheated on me twice and we fight of financial things all the time i have a son and baby on the way with him so if any one knows what to do plz tell me.

2007-11-04 10:15:40 · 12 answers · asked by maggie_roberts16 1

2007-11-04 10:09:23 · 23 answers · asked by Ms. Lady 1

6 years ago I had an affair. Usual reasons grass looked greener, and I ended it coz when I got there it wasn't as green as it looked. When I told my husband (which I was forced to) he was devastated. I learned some very valuable lessons from the experience like that is not the person I want to be, and for this reason I know I will never cheat again. 2 years ago my husband cheated on me with a woman he works with, and I was as devastated as he was, but I learned to trust him again and do, even though they still work together. However, since then I have been accused of having an affair with other men, been accused of fancying other men at the gym, and out of sheer frustration in June of this year emailed my ex after he went on a works business trip with his ex (who was on the same trip but not 'with' him) and hadn't told me about til the last minute. He subsequently found that email which I never intended him to see. Since then I've had no privacy. he checks my emails and texts 1/2

2007-11-04 10:09:22 · 25 answers · asked by Louise H 3

I trust my wife but i know how guys are, she thinks its cute that im jealous about that. She says to trust her and its that my son really likes to play with this boy and he does. This is there 3 play date. I dont like that he texts and calls my wife(not frequeltly) I know how gus are i guess you could say. She has ask if i wanted to go so i know shes not trying to hide anything. My son has other friends he could play with, i just feel bad because they both get along. Im i being paranoid?

2007-11-04 10:08:54 · 18 answers · asked by Mickey 1

I am having trouble knowing what hate really is. I am also having trouble knowing what love really is!
There is a person in my life and i am so confused as to whether i hate or love them or both at the same time!?!?!
I know the love of my children - Is the love of a partner the same?? Does it feel the same?
What are the key points of feeling Love and Hate basically??

2007-11-04 10:08:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

After a night out at the local bar, my ex-husband and I had an intense emotional conversation. We both admitted that we still love each other. It's been 9 years since we divorced. He has re-married and is miserable. I have dated more than my share looking for "the one", with no luck.

Is it true that people tend to be more honest when they are drunk and their guard is down? Or does past experiences shown it to be just "the alcohol talking"?

2007-11-04 10:03:57 · 13 answers · asked by Am I A Mess Or What? 1

About five years ago I found out my husband was cheating on me he swore it would never happen again. It did two years later. When I found out again I didn't want him back but after he swore it wouldn't happen again and he changed careers so he was home everynight instead of out of town I said ok. He says I am always checking up on him and I say yeah cuz you always lie. He doesn't want me to have access to his email or cellphone. He comes home everynight but I still don't trust him. Does the hurt every go away and can I ever learn to trust him?

2007-11-04 10:02:09 · 22 answers · asked by Lilly 2

I have been married for 5 yrs Im 22 yrs old & married when i was 17. It was an arranged marriage & my husband is 22 yrs older then me & Im so unhappy. My husband is not violent towards me in any way & my parents told me to marry him as he had a good buisness running a shop & would be able to keep me in confort he was also a friend of my fathers. But he was 39 when we married & I was only 17 & a virgin. I did not mind giving him my virginity on our wedding night I was his wife & like my mother told me it was my duty to keep him happy in the bedroom. But now 5 yrs on nothing has changed he still want sexsual intercourse 2 to 3 times a day he has forbidden me to wear underwear & he closes his shop (i work there as well) so he can have sex with me. If my parents stay over at our home he deliberately has sex with me in a very loud manner & grunts really loud. now he wants me to sleep with his brother I have already done this for him before only this time he wants to join in What should i do

2007-11-04 09:53:28 · 28 answers · asked by Mckenzie 1

Earlier today I packed my computer to go to the library. My boyfriend left the house and I needed to check the library hours (couldn't remember if opened at 1 or 2). I used his computer, checked library hours and checked other websites I usually frequent (news sites). Beacuse i'm used to the news website populating on my computer, I hit enter when a site came up on his.
Well, a sex site came up! At first I thought I typed the wrong thing in. But, it was something he looked at. I was devistated. I looked in his history and found that on Thursday he looked at this site, and when I clicked on some of the links a "how to view videos" came up. There were only 9 or10 pages viewed. Also in history - 2 or 3 personal listings on craigslist that he viewed.
I am so upset. We have been best friends for 8 years, and together for 3. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I don't want to break up, as I love and trust him. I don't want him to think I was snooping, but need to bring this up

2007-11-04 09:21:33 · 14 answers · asked by sara123par456 1

Did I act appropriate> I told her nicely to put her clothes on and leave this party don't come back?

She disrupted my party and I feel that she was way out of line doing that. She was infact drunk, but not on my beer we had on her own Vodka she brought.

2007-11-04 09:01:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's not into computer games at all, no porny or rude suggestions thanks. All other suggestions welcome.

2007-11-04 09:01:22 · 12 answers · asked by helen p 4

2007-11-04 08:50:40 · 6 answers · asked by kimberly k 5

If so how do you go about ending the marriage, is there any possibility of getting a anullment?

2007-11-04 08:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by pg27332 2

My daughter, newly married, a new mother, has become a victim of physical abuse by her husband. How, in Gods name, does a mother and a father accept, pretend, and pretty much, deny that it's ever happened? How do we do this, please, someone tell me? How are we ever going to sleep again, or lead a normal life, when all you see in your head, is your daughter being thrown to the floor?
Dear God, I pray that she will leave him "before" she finds out that "Anger Management" doesn't work. What makes it so much easier for them to stay with the men, then leave them? I'm so afraid that it's going to happen again, and I'll hear the sirens, before I ever hear her voice again. I shake from the inside, out, and picture myself lashing out at him, physically. Please, how do you move on, and pretend that it has never happened?

2007-11-04 08:34:38 · 28 answers · asked by puzzled 2

Not married but girlfriend of almost 2 years dumped me a few days ago, gave a few dumb reasons, but now I found out she has a new b/f already and was obviously probably working on it while she was still with me. In a way it feels kind of like closure because for the past few days i've been confused, wondering if we could work it out or what really happened, but now I know the truth and feel somewhat better. I am still furious and hurt. Should I go show up and confront her about it or just let it go?

2007-11-04 08:33:49 · 10 answers · asked by Jack B 1

Married in Greenbay, don't know what state.

2007-11-04 08:32:35 · 1 answers · asked by bwalker290 1

I love my other half, as I refer to him my much much better half. We have been fighting for the past three days. This is a long distance relationship to boot. I don't know what to do. We got into another emotional boxing match and well I lost my tongue. He is not answering my calls and he knows I hate that. I am so sad right now and this is not helping me.
He will text me but not answer his phone, I need to talk to him and reach out to him.
If he doesn't respond is it wrong to reach out to one of my best guy friends to talk to about this? Honestly I am on such an emotional roller coaster at the moment.
From getting married to not, to maybe being pregnant, to breaking up. I need some good advice.

2007-11-04 08:29:47 · 5 answers · asked by ################################ 2

I've been married to my husband for less than six months, we've been together as a couple for over three years. I have a child with him, as well as a child from a previous relationship. He's been a father to both of my kids, so not complaining there. But lately I've come to realize that the only reason we've done so well as a couple is because when ever we disagree, I give into his side, because once he decides something, that's it. Or whenever I stand my ground, he does what he intended anyway. I try to talk things out with him, but we never come to a decision or compromise.... I'm becoming very unhappy and frustrated, and now he's quit his job with no money in the bank and is attempting to start his own business, this with two kids, a mortgage, and huge monthly bills! He tells me that if it bothers me so much, i can go get a night job to make ends meet!! I've tried everything with the guy, IS THIS EVEN WORTH TRYING TO WORK OUT??

2007-11-04 08:27:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 08:15:46 · 30 answers · asked by mountain_laurel1183 5

2007-11-04 08:13:10 · 17 answers · asked by david j 1

We went to the Boston Museum Of Science to see the Pink Floyd light show and then out for chinese food. Been married almost 12 years now.

2007-11-04 08:07:02 · 30 answers · asked by Kim 6

I asked my gf why she wont say I love you anymore. She responded with I do. So I asked if she remembers the last time she did and she said Friday when we got off the phone. I told her that we didnt say goodnight and that we fell asleep. Then she goes it was during the conversation. I remember everytime she says it and she didnt. Need some input

2007-11-04 07:56:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 07:39:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous