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Question

I asked my gf why she wont say I love you anymore. She responded with I do. So I asked if she remembers the last time she did and she said Friday when we got off the phone. I told her that we didnt say goodnight and that we fell asleep. Then she goes it was during the conversation. I remember everytime she says it and she didnt. Need some input

She doesnt say it back when i do. I only say it occasionally

Answer 1

How long have you been together? Did she say it often before now?

Has the relationship been going smoothly? Maybe she has some issues with you, and doesn't feel too loving at the moment.

Answer 2

you try saying it more often.. and show her how much you love her with little things you can do. like notes around the house or taking her out to dinner or renting a good move and setting snuggled up on the couch. and if she still dont say it back then just ask her why she has a hard time saying and is there anything you can do to make it easier. good luck

Answer 3

If she reminds you she loves you sometimes, then what is wrong with that?

People who love each other show it in action, as well as words.

If you are so needy, that you need reinforcement all the time by hearing "i love you" from your girlfriend, then perhaps reassess yourself.

There's no reason to argue about this. In fact, it's a horrible thing to argue over. Give it time and if you feel she really does not love you, then break up, move on.

Answer 4

its a word, if you place more meaning on something that is just a word then the feeling behind it is lost. dont say it for a while put some meaning and feeling into go out have fun say it once and a while but not all the time cause after a while it just becomes a word you say and not how you feel.

Answer 5

Not sure why she doesn't say it as much. Doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't love you. My husband won't say it often because I would occasionally ask him why. But besides it didn't mean as much when I prompted it and when he did say it I knew he meant it and it meant more to me. Some people say it so often it loses its meaning and effect. If she said she does whether that is good enough or not is up to you.

Answer 6

sometimes when we get comfortable in a relationship we dont do the things or say the things that matter most.Try saying it more often and if she does not return it to you then you know. also do you hold hands, kiss as much as you did in the beginning?? Could mean its time to go your separate ways before marriage.

Answer 7

if it is bothering you than confront her about it ...tell her how you feel for her and see where she thinks the two of you are headed...if you dont get the answer you want you will atleast know where you stand...sometime we fall out of love and stay for comfort...good luck