Did I act appropriate> I told her nicely to put her clothes on and leave this party don't come back?
She disrupted my party and I feel that she was way out of line doing that. She was infact drunk, but not on my beer we had on her own Vodka she brought.
2007-11-04 09:01:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I know her and today she said that she had not drank in two months and doesn;t remember me asking her to leave. She did stay in the guest room and sleep on the couch as I instructed her to do and she left this morning.
My guests included several Sheriff Deputy's. She apologized today and all is fine, but WOW...that was a big shocker last night;Howvever it turns out, one of the deputy's likes what he saw and may date her so who knows things happen for a reason.
2007-11-04 10:06:53 · update #1
It probably made a lot of people feel very uncomfortable. It's your house and you don't have to tolerate that kind of disrespectful behaviour. Hopefully you didn't let her drive home though.
2007-11-04 09:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dukesmom 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Girl Stripped At Party
2016-11-11 01:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most do NOT go to a strip club or hire a stripper. I think it's mostly just folklore--I use to be in The Biz, so I would know a bit about it. I agree that even just a lap dance from a naked person is cheating. Seriously, how would your SO feel if YOU got a lap dance from a naked man? I bet HE would consider it cheating. I know my SO considers that cheating. They're rubbing their male part all up against you. Rubbing their chest against you. Yeah, that's cheating!
2016-05-27 08:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk or not, disrupting someone's party is a bad move and you totally did the right thing as a party host. It was probably awkward for you to even have to do that but the fact that you did is what makes you a brilliant host.
2007-11-04 09:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Infinit-e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you told her to leave because she is divorced you probably did the wrong thing. If the party was a party for wild funloving adults you did the wrong thing. If there were people there who were very important to you and uptight about divorced people and nudity you did the right thing. If you are gay and are nauseated by the sight of naked women you did the right thing. If she had a disgusting body, you did the right thing.
See it all depends. I only invite attractive women to my parties, actually my wife invites them , and it doesn't matter what their marital status is. Nudity is encouraged. If they strip naked there is no problem.
2007-11-04 10:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were totally appropriate the way you acted.....I'm actually proud of you that you did that. I know it's hard to do something like that -- kicking them out. HOPEFULLY she REMEMBERS what she did -- sounds like she has a serious problem -- don't get me wrong, I'm drinking beer right now. I'm no angel by any means but never ever would I have done something like that. She OWES you and everyone else there an apology.
2007-11-04 09:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends. Did you ask her to leave because she was a "divorced girl" or because she was "naked"? If you were honestly offended by her actions, yes you did the right thing. If you were singling her out because she's divorced and acting stupid then I think you made the wrong decision and no it was not appropriate.
2007-11-04 09:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by smb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Which part did you find objectionable: the fact that she stripped, that she was divorced, that she was drunk, or that she brought her own booze? It was your party so I guess you could throw out anybody you chose to, but why her? Different strokes for different folks, I guess. Did you know her? "Disrupted your party?" Sounds like she was the party...and you kicked her out. What am I missing?
2007-11-04 09:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless she was a nasty old hag, I don't see the problem with a girl stripping at a party. I have no idea how it is relevant that she was once married.
But at the end of the day, if you didn't want a naked girl at your party, you had every right to have her leave.
2007-11-04 09:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by ZCT 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not only did you act appropriately but you may have protected yourself against criminal or other legal trouble. People don't realize that actions of drunken people in their homes (rent or own) may come back to haunt them. If someone had taken advantage of her drunkenness and had sex with her that may have been construed as rape. And you might be held liable because you did not do "everything" to guard against it.
We can still party, we just have to be very aware that our actions can't get anyone hurt.
2007-11-04 09:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do did exactly the right thing. The situation could have quickly gotten on of control with her being that drunk and next you'd be seeing your buddies names and this girl on the nightly news.
2007-11-04 09:07:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋